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muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 11:39 AM
that when you're lookin for your other half....the guy(s) you think are :yum: dont notice you??

but when you finally find someone........suddenly all the :yum: guys tell you how much they want you etc etc

:neutral:

why is that??

coz its pissin me off (yes its starting to happen to me) :mad:

SeKcGaL
November 12th, 2005, 11:43 AM
that when you're lookin for your other half....the guy(s) you think are :yum: dont notice you??

but when you finally find someone........suddenly all the :yum: guys tell you how much they want you etc etc

:neutral:

why is that??

coz its pissin me off (yes its starting to happen to me) :mad:

dam me 2 gurl...its so pissing me off too it happend to me twice :mad: :anger:

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 11:45 AM
why...why do men do that??

like they want you when they know they cant have you :mad:

jus_me
November 12th, 2005, 11:46 AM
this never ever happens to me..


im always bein rejected..left right and centre :(

i demand e-sympathy!

paki_Faz
November 12th, 2005, 11:47 AM
wht u said hum its coz they cant ave u, ur out of their reach so u seem hotter

Sw33tn3zZ
November 12th, 2005, 11:47 AM
cuz they cant keep their shit in their pants
they have somethin itchin them down there

Sw33tn3zZ
November 12th, 2005, 11:47 AM
this never ever happens to me..


im always bein rejected..left right and centre :(

i demand e-sympathy!


awww :hug:

paki_Faz
November 12th, 2005, 11:48 AM
this never ever happens to me..


im always bein rejected..left right and centre :(

i demand e-sympathy!

awww :hug:

jus_me
November 12th, 2005, 11:51 AM
the e-hugs mean a lot

thank you :(

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 11:54 AM
wht u said hum its coz they cant ave u, ur out of their reach so u seem hotter

men :rolleyes:

paki_Faz
November 12th, 2005, 12:01 PM
men :rolleyes:

lol ur gonna have a go at me coz of ma sex all women are da same we hate all men blah blah blah

SeKcGaL
November 12th, 2005, 12:04 PM
this never ever happens to me..


im always bein rejected..left right and centre :(

i demand e-sympathy!

awwwwwww baby remember whoever rejects u r real dumasses don give a fuck to wat dey say.....we all r wid u sweety :grouphug:

Z4K5T4R
November 12th, 2005, 12:06 PM
Guys like a challenge. When that girl has someone else she pays less attention to them guys so they chase after them because they aren't paying attention to them.

Jaffa_Cakes
November 12th, 2005, 12:09 PM
this never ever happens to me..


im always bein rejected..left right and centre :(

i demand e-sympathy!
Awwww. :kiss:

Humzi- Enjoy it woman. you won't get them looking at you when your 50. (which... isn't very long to go)

:|

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 12:13 PM
Awwww. :kiss:

Humzi- Enjoy it woman. you won't get them looking at you when your 50. (which... isn't very long to go)

:|

cheeky moo...im only 21 :neutral:

nah it just annoys me how they like to confuse you by saying they love u lol

jus wna smack em

faz - nah i only hate a few men...the ones who confuse me..i dont hate you....yet :giggle:

Jaffa_Cakes
November 12th, 2005, 12:17 PM
cheeky moo...im only 21 :neutral:

nah it just annoys me how they like to confuse you by saying they love u lol

jus wna smack em

faz - nah i only hate a few men...the ones who confuse me..i dont hate you....yet :giggle:
Lol, nice way of saying cheeky cow! :kekeke:

Smack them, and they'll never come by you ever again. :D

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 12:29 PM
Lol, nice way of saying cheeky cow! :kekeke:

Smack them, and they'll never come by you ever again. :D

:rofl:

(sic)
November 12th, 2005, 12:33 PM
why...why do men do that??

like they want you when they know they cant have you :mad:
its not just men...its girls too:(
no one wants meh any more...fine by me:)

jus_me
November 12th, 2005, 12:34 PM
i hate looking so young...me and my bf went this over 21's thing and the guy at the door wouldnt believe that i was 21..even after i showed him my drivers license..he made me repeat my date of birth a million times :rolleyes:

my brother has the same problem as you muffin.. he stays single for the longest time and the second he gets a gf all these other girls decide that they cant live without him :neutral:

morning_dew
November 12th, 2005, 12:42 PM
its cos men are stooooooooopid. lets throw stones at 'em ! :evil_lau:

Z4K5T4R
November 12th, 2005, 12:52 PM
its cos men are stooooooooopid. lets throw stones at 'em ! :evil_lau:

Oh my god you're like the first person from the UL section thats become a VIP:oCongratulations girl!

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 01:47 PM
its not just men...its girls too:(
no one wants meh any more...fine by me:)

can i av u :eyebrow:

hehe i wish

yeh...girls do it too...my male friends always complaining to me bout that :p

(sic)
November 12th, 2005, 01:49 PM
can i av u :eyebrow:

hehe i wish

yeh...girls do it too...my male friends always complaining to me bout that :p
lol :Oops: maybe later:p

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 01:49 PM
i hate looking so young...me and my bf went this over 21's thing and the guy at the door wouldnt believe that i was 21..even after i showed him my drivers license..he made me repeat my date of birth a million times :rolleyes:

my brother has the same problem as you muffin.. he stays single for the longest time and the second he gets a gf all these other girls decide that they cant live without him :neutral:

:rofl:

same..i was in a bar n the guy didnt believe i was over 18..showed him my uni photo card, then my drivers licence...he took me to a corner...n fkin asked me out :neutral: asswipe lol

lol;..tell ur bro i sympathise wid him...... :p

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 01:50 PM
lol :Oops: maybe later:p

:crying: why not now?? :(

(sic)
November 12th, 2005, 01:52 PM
:crying: why not now?? :(
lol i jus wanna be single right now and need to sort some stuff out in my head before I start seeing someone...

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 01:53 PM
lol i jus wanna be single right now and need to sort some stuff out in my head before I start seeing someone...

*sniff sniff*

ok...jus make sure u come n claim me tho :dance3:

(sic)
November 12th, 2005, 01:56 PM
*sniff sniff*

ok...jus make sure u come n claim me tho :dance3:
:rofl: lol hahaha i have a bad memory so i'll probably forget...

although you could win me over if you get me a motorcycle..but even then my bikey is getting more attention, and ridden more than my wife:p

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 01:59 PM
:rofl: lol hahaha i have a bad memory so i'll probably forget...

although you could win me over if you get me a motorcycle..but even then my bikey is getting more attention, and ridden more than my wife:p


hawwww no way can u 4get me..im too nice :(

wife?? u married? :sarb:

lol im a student = skint so errr the bikey will av to wait....

jus_me
November 12th, 2005, 02:10 PM
:rofl:

same..i was in a bar n the guy didnt believe i was over 18..showed him my uni photo card, then my drivers licence...he took me to a corner...n fkin asked me out :neutral: asswipe lol

lol;..tell ur bro i sympathise wid him...... :p

it was weird..i think he fancied ( :neutral: ) the bf because he kept winkin at him, i was like er.. :neutral:

he said so..33rd of april hmm? what year? and i said 84..making me 21, n he was like dont get smart, so i said with you mate i dont think id have to try too hard, and he said yeah i know :cool:, what a wally..then he said ok so whats the fourth month of the year? and how many days in april? etc...

my brother is a tart and he loves the attention

(sic)
November 12th, 2005, 02:10 PM
hawwww no way can u 4get me..im too nice :(

wife?? u married? :sarb:

lol im a student = skint so errr the bikey will av to wait....
married? me?! hahaha no way..i'm 20 in december

no bikey = you no wifey

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 02:18 PM
it was weird..i think he fancied ( :neutral: ) the bf because he kept winkin at him, i was like er.. :neutral:

he said so..33rd of april hmm? what year? and i said 84..making me 21, n he was like dont get smart, so i said with you mate i dont think id have to try too hard, and he said yeah i know :cool:, what a wally..then he said ok so whats the fourth month of the year? and how many days in april? etc...

my brother is a tart and he loves the attention


haha a tarty bro eh....alright 4 sum aint it lol

hahaha...omg....he fancied ur bf?? thats funny....

damn..wat a dumbass...shud of told him to fk off :neutral:

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 02:19 PM
married? me?! hahaha no way..i'm 20 in december

no bikey = you no wifey

:(

shame u go 4 the material things

i go 4 love :p

fine...u no my hubby :neutral:

(sic)
November 12th, 2005, 02:21 PM
:(

shame u go 4 the material things

i go 4 love :p

fine...u no my hubby :neutral:
i've done the whole love thing, i'm kinda cold now...so..meh :neutral:

lol no i'm not materialistic...all i want is a bikey:love:

and a baby one day:)

i'd buy my kid a motorcross bike when he/she is 7 or something :P

jus_me
November 12th, 2005, 02:25 PM
i've done the whole love thing, i'm kinda cold now...so..meh :neutral:

lol no i'm not materialistic...all i want is a bikey:love:

and a baby one day:)

i'd buy my kid a motorcross bike when he/she is 7 or something :P

my dad brought my brother one of them bikey things when we were younger..i wasnt allowed on it til i was 12..he was riding around on it when he was 8

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 02:25 PM
i've done the whole love thing, i'm kinda cold now...so..meh :neutral:

lol no i'm not materialistic...all i want is a bikey:love:

and a baby one day:)

i'd buy my kid a motorcross bike when he/she is 7 or something :P

haha..i had my heart broken...but im not cold....yet :p

a bikey eh....how much do they frickin cost??

lol...think we all want babies :p

your kids are gna end up injurin themselves...or goin in2 extreme sports...hmmmm

(sic)
November 12th, 2005, 02:26 PM
haha..i had my heart broken...but im not cold....yet :p

a bikey eh....how much do they frickin cost??

lol...think we all want babies :p

your kids are gna end up injurin themselves...or goin in2 extreme sports...hmmmm
i'm jus defensive now

a good sports bike can cost about 6 grand new

a supermoto can cost about the same...

lol actually..i wouldnt buy them a bike really..only if they wanted one..i wouldnt force my own interests onto them..

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 02:33 PM
i'm jus defensive now

a good sports bike can cost about 6 grand new

a supermoto can cost about the same...

lol actually..i wouldnt buy them a bike really..only if they wanted one..i wouldnt force my own interests onto them..


woah..6 grand...i aint even got £300 on me lol

yeaaah im proper defensive too......but sometimes you just have to let go..when the time is right...just dont wna be hurt again

good to know your kids wont be bought up to do what you like..kids need to express their creativity...

(sic)
November 12th, 2005, 02:37 PM
woah..6 grand...i aint even got £300 on me lol

yeaaah im proper defensive too......but sometimes you just have to let go..when the time is right...just dont wna be hurt again

good to know your kids wont be bought up to do what you like..kids need to express their creativity...
yeh sometimes you do have to let go..it'll take someone VERY special to do that...and I aint gonna let it be easy for them...i dont need no one..

lol but if my kid shows the slightest interest in bikes i'll spoil them! even more so than with whatever they wanted to do...but i will get them to learn the piano and a martial art

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 02:46 PM
yeh sometimes you do have to let go..it'll take someone VERY special to do that...and I aint gonna let it be easy for them...i dont need no one..

lol but if my kid shows the slightest interest in bikes i'll spoil them! even more so than with whatever they wanted to do...but i will get them to learn the piano and a martial art


true...it does take someone VERY special to make you come out of your shell and want to be with them.

haha....i have this one guy after me..n trust...i feel sorry 4 him...im not making it easy at all to let him be with me.......

martial arts is good...makes the kids b confident.....and not let themselves be bullied...like i was :(

my kids will be spoiled....but will learn to have respect for others....and never mistreat people or be mean to them.....just like me :giggle:

<3 butterfly <3
November 12th, 2005, 03:14 PM
they think women are like toilets :no:
grab it whenever they need it, and flush it after they've finished.

well don't go out with a non-yum guy simple lol

Meshi
November 12th, 2005, 03:15 PM
this never ever happens to me..


im always bein rejected..left right and centre :(

i demand e-sympathy!


aww :bhapi:

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 03:20 PM
they think women are like toilets :no:
grab it whenever they need it, and flush it after they've finished.

well don't go out with a non-yum guy simple lol

well...good point!!!

but...erm...say if the guy u goin out wid is :yum: but then other :yum: guys ask u out...wat then?

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 03:21 PM
aww :bhapi:

ahem...wheres my e-sympathy?? :sarb:

<3 butterfly <3
November 12th, 2005, 03:22 PM
well...good point!!!

but...erm...say if the guy u goin out wid is :yum: but then other :yum: guys ask u out...wat then?
basically if my man is yum and i like him, i cudn't careless bout other 'yum' guys and i'll tell um i'm in a relationship, i wouldn't let them affect my relationship.

_A-s-H-i_
November 12th, 2005, 03:23 PM
cos they want ur shexi ass :p

:hug:

Meshi
November 12th, 2005, 03:24 PM
ahem...wheres my e-sympathy?? :sarb:

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

:bhapi:
:kiss:

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 03:24 PM
basically if my man is yum and i like him, i cudn't careless bout other 'yum' guys and i'll tell um i'm in a relationship, i wouldn't let them affect my relationship.

i know..good point...but i guess it jus annoys me.... :sarb:

Meshi
November 12th, 2005, 03:24 PM
basically if my man is yum and i like him, i cudn't careless bout other 'yum' guys and i'll tell um i'm in a relationship, i wouldn't let them affect my relationship.

:wave:

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 03:25 PM
cos they want ur shexi ass :p

:hug:


well they cant av it :rofl:

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 03:25 PM
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

:bhapi:
:kiss:

:love:

<3 butterfly <3
November 12th, 2005, 03:25 PM
i know..good point...but i guess it jus annoys me.... :sarb:
why does it annoy you?
are you know happy with ur current man? if not get out of it...he has feelings too.
but if i like a certain guy, i'd get him b4 another sister claims him :kekeke:

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 03:27 PM
why does it annoy you?
are you know happy with ur current man? if not get out of it...he has feelings too.
but if i like a certain guy, i'd get him b4 another sister claims him :kekeke:

haha i love my guy.........

but i jus hate it when other men try it on wid me..even tho they know im taken...they av no shame..or respect 4 the fact im happy wid sum1 n they tryin to snatch me away :mad:

<3 butterfly <3
November 12th, 2005, 03:31 PM
haha i love my guy.........

but i jus hate it when other men try it on wid me..even tho they know im taken...they av no shame..or respect 4 the fact im happy wid sum1 n they tryin to snatch me away :mad:
stand your ground woman.
you're prob givin um the chance to 'ge tit on' with you.
you;ve told um that you're with ur guy YET they still 'try' it with you? you should be HARSH with them :yes: :p

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 03:34 PM
stand your ground woman.
you're prob givin um the chance to 'ge tit on' with you.
you;ve told um that you're with ur guy YET they still 'try' it with you? you should be HARSH with them :yes: :p

lol yeh...they know im wid sum1..n they say i shud dump him n get wid them... psshhh why wud i do that....lol...they idiots

oh..i told most of em to fuck off...but then a new one will come along and harrass me...esp on buses....i tell em to fk off im practically engaged..they dnt beleive me coz i got no ring hahaha :p

<3 butterfly <3
November 12th, 2005, 03:42 PM
lol yeh...they know im wid sum1..n they say i shud dump him n get wid them... psshhh why wud i do that....lol...they idiots

oh..i told most of em to fuck off...but then a new one will come along and harrass me...esp on buses....i tell em to fk off im practically engaged..they dnt beleive me coz i got no ring hahaha :p
first off don't even give them thechance to harass you, get ur man on them or ur boys on them lol.

you have a handbag, use that a as source of weapon kick um where it hurts lol..

but yeh its annoyin when you're checkin other shitheads come along your path, just avoid it shit happens.

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 03:45 PM
first off don't even give them thechance to harass you, get ur man on them or ur boys on them lol.

you have a handbag, use that a as source of weapon kick um where it hurts lol..

but yeh its annoyin when you're checkin other shitheads come along your path, just avoid it shit happens.

haha i would rather not av my man be violent......i dnt like that,....makes it seem like hes possessiv which he aint!!!

haha...i av a rucksack...not a handbag..my uni books wont fit in my handbag lol

yeh...very annoying.....buit..u cant really avoid it...i keepp myself to myself on the bus..head down..lookin out of window..n they still harrass me..i dnt dress slutty either...i dress quite smart...lol

<3 butterfly <3
November 12th, 2005, 03:49 PM
haha i would rather not av my man be violent......i dnt like that,....makes it seem like hes possessiv which he aint!!!

haha...i av a rucksack...not a handbag..my uni books wont fit in my handbag lol

yeh...very annoying.....buit..u cant really avoid it...i keepp myself to myself on the bus..head down..lookin out of window..n they still harrass me..i dnt dress slutty either...i dress quite smart...lol
nah no need gettin violent let him have lil word or two :p

yeh smack um with ur rucksack, that should hurt um even more lol

are they guys gud lookin for a start? :sarb:

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 05:13 PM
nah no need gettin violent let him have lil word or two :p

yeh smack um with ur rucksack, that should hurt um even more lol

are they guys gud lookin for a start? :sarb:

some of them r actually....but i dnt care 4 looks...its personality...n i got that in my bf

some of them r jus the rudeboy types...annoy the shit out of me...had a few FOBS after me too grrrrrr :mad:

Leon 007
November 12th, 2005, 05:14 PM
that when you're lookin for your other half....the guy(s) you think are :yum: dont notice you??

but when you finally find someone........suddenly all the :yum: guys tell you how much they want you etc etc

:neutral:

why is that??

coz its pissin me off (yes its starting to happen to me) :mad:
its life my dear

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 05:18 PM
its life my dear

i know.. *sigh*

Leon 007
November 12th, 2005, 05:19 PM
i know.. *sigh*
*sighs* oh well life could be worse

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 05:28 PM
*sighs* oh well life could be worse

True

:hug:

il padrino
November 12th, 2005, 05:50 PM
Normal Men always check women out, its natural, (not in a sleazy way). I think it's in your head. Sometimes you can try too hard. Men sense neediness. Just be Happy, look after yourself, accept rejection. God never meant it to happen, so don't stress. Were only Human. Some men are just too shy/fear rejection to say something when your single. When your attached, they know your unattainable, so the risk of rejection is removed.

Theres your e-sympathy

muffinette
November 12th, 2005, 05:52 PM
Normal Men always check women out, its natural, (not in a sleazy way). I think it's in your head. Sometimes you can try too hard. Men sense neediness. Just be Happy, look after yourself, accept rejection. God never meant it to happen, so don't stress. Were only Human. Some men are just too shy/fear rejection to say something when your single. When your attached, they know your unattainable, so the risk of rejection is removed.

Theres your e-sympathy


right.....thanx :sarb:

its not in my head...it actually happens....

im not needy....jeez :neutral:

mr_zee_uk
November 13th, 2005, 10:54 AM
that when you're lookin for your other half....the guy(s) you think are :yum: dont notice you??

but when you finally find someone........suddenly all the :yum: guys tell you how much they want you etc etc

:neutral:

why is that??

coz its pissin me off (yes its starting to happen to me) :mad:


The word ur looking for is SODS LAW !!

muffinette
November 13th, 2005, 01:21 PM
The word ur looking for is SODS LAW !!

:yes: thats the word!!!

MENACINGSTRANGER
November 13th, 2005, 08:57 PM
that when you're lookin for your other half....the guy(s) you think are :yum: dont notice you??

but when you finally find someone........suddenly all the :yum: guys tell you how much they want you etc etc

:neutral:

why is that??

coz its pissin me off (yes its starting to happen to me) :mad:

What blind cunt would want you?

<3 butterfly <3
November 13th, 2005, 08:59 PM
What blind cunt would want you?
dam that was harsh and uncalled for.
how are you anyways?

MENACINGSTRANGER
November 13th, 2005, 09:00 PM
dam that was harsh and uncalled for.
how are you anyways?

Not bad, monkey. Yourself?

<3 butterfly <3
November 13th, 2005, 09:03 PM
Not bad, monkey. Yourself?
likewise baboon.
ami tumar amu-reh khoi-mu..i'm improving yay!

MENACINGSTRANGER
November 13th, 2005, 09:07 PM
likewise baboon.
ami tumar amu-reh khoi-mu..i'm improving yay!

You can try and tell her but she'll pull out the frying pan and beat you with it and throw the leftover shutki at you.

<3 butterfly <3
November 13th, 2005, 09:08 PM
You can try and tell her but she'll pull out the frying pan and beat you with it and throw the leftover shutki at you.
haha she wouldn't do that.
do you have shutki? LOL
that thing is rank...i've tried it EW!

MENACINGSTRANGER
November 13th, 2005, 09:12 PM
haha she wouldn't do that.
do you have shutki? LOL
that thing is rank...i've tried it EW!

You filthy cow. Id never put anything that smells so bad near my mouth, let alone in it.

<3 butterfly <3
November 13th, 2005, 09:15 PM
You filthy cow. Id never put anything that smells so bad near my mouth, let alone in it.
its a popular dish for us bengali's lol
my mum washes it a cooks it properly..it jus hasa strong smell..but i dnt think it'll go in my mouth for the 2nd time round lol

350z
November 13th, 2005, 10:15 PM
when you can't have something, you want it, simple as that

when you know you can have it, you don't want it anymore

muffinette
November 14th, 2005, 04:45 AM
when you can't have something, you want it, simple as that

when you know you can have it, you don't want it anymore

true some people just like the thrill of the chase...then get bored

but then that's kinda hurtful to people who say want a proper realtionship :(