BEING IN LOVE

[MarrYMePlZzz]

I understand that being in love hurts...and i understand what its like to love someone sooooooooooooooooooooooo much and get nothing in return...but seriously people....
You cant allow someone...especially someone who doesnt care anything about u to be so disruptive to ur life. No matter how long u stay on it...it doesnt mean that person is going to eventually run into ur arms!!!!!!!
Things happen for a reason...that person ur soooooo in love....that person u cant live without....might have ended up being the worse thing that could have ever happened in ur life!
most of us are still really young...all u need is patience..eventually u will meet that person who is meant for you!

I went through a time where i was afraid to talk to any guys because i felt i will get heartbroken all over again. However i learned that if i shut myself out...its only going to hurt ME in the end.
Just plz..let it go...for ur own sake. I promise that if u do u wont regret it.

[Sphinx7]

peace

love can pierce your heart, its a serious emotion. play it carefully.
eye mean dont totally exclude urself from it, you might want to take a break..but keep your self open minded.

Love is the highest elevation of understanding ...the understanding of the bondage that creates sparks, the sparks are love.

[Miz Fyne]

i agree with you...
it doesn't always work out but sometimes it does...all i know it's a lot of work to be in love with someone...so i try not to fall into it unless i know for sure...but i agree with what u say about not letting it ruin ur life...becuz i did for a long time and when i got over it i looked back and laugh at how stupid i was...the pain always goes away...

[Dil Ki Rani]

I agree with you!!!!
You cant force someone to love you.......and besides if that person doesnt loves you.....he doesnt knows what he is missing....at least thats what i think

[Kavita]

Omg, u will not knw how many realtionships ive been through and ended up heart broken. maybe it was because i needed to be loved u kno..but ur right, u can't let a guy do that to u. im with somene right now, and its hard...im trying not to get too emotinally attached, its 2 hard 4 me now to do that. im soo afraid...but i think ur soo right. I think..as corny as it sounds...that u gotta love yourself first, and accept urself first. i dnt got such a perfect realtionship..buh i got wonderful friends 2 make up 4 dat...thanx guys..

[Aurovon]

Love...as beautiful as the word is, it is evil to the same degree. People use the word too often and take the true meaning of the word for granted. These days, people end up with someone at their own level..meanin..how did a couple meet..usaully at the college they went to or at their job..now u think to urself..true love is it that easy to find? Na...plus u see 2 fat people together(not being biast or nothin..nothin wrong wit that) isnt it ironic how the true love couple are fat? Looks matter too much in this world. So ya, love...is not worth it for me, unless its just plan down simple true love, which is hard to find. Then again, there are many people out there who are 'perfect' for you..on different levels ofcourse.

[Zapata]

Love...as beautiful as the word is, it is evil to the same degree. People use the word too often and take the true meaning of the word for granted.

AARRGGGGHHH.
why am i not in love?

somebody phuleeze love me

=v

go leafs go

[sapna16]

I am 16 and I love a 24 yr old who is the friend of my fav cuz. Right now everything sucks b/c my fav cuz and the guy i luv found out. The that i love loves me back but can't admit it b/c my fav cuz treats me like a baby and is afraid to lose me. He tells me not to date and i'm like why when he started dating when he was only 15. That is a year younger then me. I feel so damn depressed that sometimes i feel like i want to kill myself. :(

[ArTmALik]

I understand that being in love hurts...and i understand what its like to love someone sooooooooooooooooooooooo much and get nothing in return...but seriously people....
You cant allow someone...especially someone who doesnt care anything about u to be so disruptive to ur life. No matter how long u stay on it...it doesnt mean that person is going to eventually run into ur arms!!!!!!!
Things happen for a reason...that person ur soooooo in love....that person u cant live without....might have ended up being the worse thing that could have ever happened in ur life!
most of us are still really young...all u need is patience..eventually u will meet that person who is meant for you!

I went through a time where i was afraid to talk to any guys because i felt i will get heartbroken all over again. However i learned that if i shut myself out...its only going to hurt ME in the end.
Just plz..let it go...for ur own sake. I promise that if u do u wont regret it.

This is the True stroy of my friend and i m posting it in his own words .


" I cant take this pain of my soul anymore...im alive but i know how i m livin..gone dead indeed.But somehow controling my senses to get back on the track..its all about love ,pure love.How i met her its a long long story..never knew u can have a girl like this,Probably God made the ways to be with eachother..She loved me more than me..i loved her more than anything in this world.She was my friend for two years(1999-2001) then i realized that shes started to miss me and all ..and i was feeling the same..at last i asked her tell me whats in ur heart and mind coz i got feelings for her too ,in the meantime we fell in love wid eachother,our f.ship found a way ,and became stronger day by day..I ddint notice but my family ,friends and relatives noticed tht i have changed..therz awalys a smile on my face even i m not talkin to anyone..i used to laugh remembring her sense of humour while sitting wid any gathering,and they used to ask me that m i gone nuts or what..but i used to give them my anser wid a smile.Whether day or night,summer or winter..sadness or happiness,one thing was only in my mind and that was "she".She also used to tell me that it happens with her too..and then we used to get emotional that we cant live seperately ever..we are made for eachother.There was not sexual attraction in our f.ship. she used to be with me for hours n hours and i never thought of doing nething wrong wid her,she used to tell me that she trusts me more than anyone..we used to meet once in a blue moon but whenever we met ,it was enuff for months,coz our meeting`s memories used to stay in our hearts n minds for months n months.but in those five years i cant remember a day when we had not contaced wid eachother..if i m gone somewhere very far away from her,i still used to get her msges that shes cryin for me and asking me to come back as soon as possible and if shes outta here then i used to do the same.We never did that wid any intentions,it used to happen naturally..our true loved started to touch our souls..and we became the real lover..She used to write me or used to send me email pages of more than ten ,telling me all the emotions she had her in mind for me.we used to cry for eacohter when some of us was in pain or in trouble.and it made my love more than the hieght of a sky,more than the depth of a sea,more than the lights of a sun and more than the darkness of a night.there was some distance between her and me..n that is called standard,i dont wana compare my family wid her family but if i compared myself then i was nothing that time to meet her status,to meet her standard.But my aim was to get married with her and i had time for doing that,i wanted to be something by myself and i was deadly serious,i had only aim and it was to get her for all of my life..sometimes even i prayed God to give her to me not in this life but after my death too,Give her to me in heaven too.Some girls came between our relation too but i was like im hers only,and i simply ddint look back to any girl,i never flirted wid any girl.i was just her amanat and she was mine.if she was away from me for some reason i used to get crazy,i used to get really worried that y m i not gettin her msges,but whenever she came back and told me that she had some problems so thats y she cudnt msg me so then i used to get normal..it was like seeing the heaven wid open eyes again.Ah i cant tell u how much i loved her.If i started to write the moments of love then i think it wud be like never ending story.

i m shivering wat m i goin to write now..i dont wana do this but that pain is killing me .SHE DECEIVED ME , She left me, she left coz she have a strong reason that we cant be one ever..Its impossible to be hers forever..Her parents are never gona be agreed for our pair..They are never gona allow us to get married.She is gona suffer a lot if she tells them that she wants me,she loves me.She respects her parents and she cant argue wid her parents,Whatever they are gona say she had no choice.She thought i m never gona be able to establish myself and even if i m establised,her parents are never gona allow to BEcome us one.Because she knows her parents mentality,i told her at least we have got some years,they are not gona get u engaged so soon,So dont disappoint,dont dishearten.Dont lose ur belief in me.I`m working really hard to get but she never listened to me ,she told me that she wants to keep some distance from me,she started ignoring me,she started becoming harsh to me and i was like crying,crying and only crying.I couldnt tell her that was ur love fake?i could not say her nething,whatever i said ,were some tears coming down my eyes.Because when u love someone u dont need to give any Excuses or explanations,coz ur love understands you and ur feelings,ur emotions,ur thoghts,ur thinkings,ur problmes,ur happniess ur sadness.I became speechless in front of her,although i tried to explain a lot of things but she wasnt interested anymore..coz she had made up her mind that we cant be together ever.So many months have been passed and i m still not able to forget her,i tried everything to forget her but my soul never allows me to.mainnay kya gunah kya tha k mjeh yeah saza mili.


I truly loved her more than my life and more than anything.Everything was going very smoothly but all of sudden it happened.Now either day or night there is no peace left for me.Whatever i try to do,wherever i go, i m not able to forget her.Her memories are always pinging my heart n needling my brain..i have got so many memories of her,her precious letters her pictures her cards buti m not able to touch them even because they make me crying.if i m blaming anyone then its me only..i really dont know how can she forget me so easily..the life im having y aint she having the same..y aint she in the pain ,kya she ddint love me?her love was a lie?but watever it was,it wasnt good for me..coz i truly loved her,thers no tear in my eye now coz they have become dry.Committing suicide is Restrict in islam otherwise i wud have done already,but where to go where to look for?my life has become miserable..dont have any single firend to share wid :(,Y Did this happen to me?YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?
what was my Fault?:( :( and now i want to mess wid everyone..i wana drink,i wana smoke,dope and everyting,i wana fuck every single girl ,i wana abuse everyone,i wana hate everyone ,i wana cheat everyone i wana become really bad,BUT i think i cant..I wish she cud really read this but shes so far away from this place.And i dont wana tell her anything because she has disconnected all the connections with me,she wants to have a distance from me.So i have to respect her but i only know mysef that how m i goin through wid this situation,i really feel myself alone in this world.I really dont know how m i going to pass the next days n nights widout her.Even 6 months have passed but i couldnt find any peace.

i think this is wht happens in true love..

[sapna16]

I thought that suicide was a way out for me too when i found out that my one true love was being forced by his evil father to get married. :? My friend Chetan told me that Prashant was getting married and i was so damn sad that all i could think about was how to kill myself. :( The reason that i didn't kill myself was because i told my bestfriend Sahithi that i wish i could die and how i wanted to kill myself and she was like saying that she would die if i killed myself. The reason that my one true loves dad is bad and evil is because he stole about a thousand dollars from my fav cuz and that pissed everyone off. I am happy that i listened to my bestfriend and didn't kill myself b/c i got to meet the g/f of my fav cuz who happens to be his fourth. She is soooooooooooooo sweet, beautiful, and exactly right for him. :)

[sapna16]

I was so damn pissed when my friend Ramya did a joke on me about my one true love getting married. She acted like she was him when she was instant messeging me and told me that Prashant was getting married that weekend and that she was him. I was like playing along with it but i knew it was a joke but it gave me a heart attack almost. :lol: :D :) :o :?

[Zapata]

I understand that being in love hurts...and i understand what its like to love someone sooooooooooooooooooooooo much and get nothing in return...but seriously people....
You cant allow someone...especially someone who doesnt care anything about u to be so disruptive to ur life. No matter how long u stay on it...it doesnt mean that person is going to eventually run into ur arms!!!!!!!
Things happen for a reason...that person ur soooooo in love....that person u cant live without....might have ended up being the worse thing that could have ever happened in ur life!
most of us are still really young...all u need is patience..eventually u will meet that person who is meant for you!

I went through a time where i was afraid to talk to any guys because i felt i will get heartbroken all over again. However i learned that if i shut myself out...its only going to hurt ME in the end.
Just plz..let it go...for ur own sake. I promise that if u do u wont regret it.



wat r u trying to say??!?!?!

[krazzyyanu]

u eva heard of a sayin that in order to live life to da fullest....one must fall in love...it has its hard times...but the moments spent w/ da one we love is so precious that when nothin is goin rite...we look bac n be satisfied by wht we have...i agree that most love stories end w/ a broken heart....when we find out that to whom we gave our heart n did everythin fo doesnt feel da same n is usin u or just killin tyme or bein unfaithful..it really hurts...sumtimes we just convince ourself that so whut if he doesnt love me, but i love him..ill give him soo much happiness that he'll end up lovin me..but eventually he leaves u..n ur hurt beyond anythin..but its also true that ti :wink: me is da best healer..im not sayin it ur not bitter by it..its just that in time we learn to compromise w/ life...n sumtimes dis is da best solution..today i can proudly say that even though at that time it hurt like hell...but now its better, n da bitterness is not there...lyphe doesnt stop fo neone so why should we stop livin fo sumone who doesnt care? one thin is true...we must accept n love ourself, so no one can hurt us that bad that we cant gather ourself...good luck to all n rem lyphez beautiful... :lol:
:) :)

[Ragga_NZ]

I understand that being in love hurts...and i understand what its like to love someone sooooooooooooooooooooooo much and get nothing in return...but seriously people....
You cant allow someone...especially someone who doesnt care anything about u to be so disruptive to ur life. No matter how long u stay on it...it doesnt mean that person is going to eventually run into ur arms!!!!!!!
Things happen for a reason...that person ur soooooo in love....that person u cant live without....might have ended up being the worse thing that could have ever happened in ur life!
most of us are still really young...all u need is patience..eventually u will meet that person who is meant for you!

I went through a time where i was afraid to talk to any guys because i felt i will get heartbroken all over again. However i learned that if i shut myself out...its only going to hurt ME in the end.
Just plz..let it go...for ur own sake. I promise that if u do u wont regret it.

[Ragga_NZ]

I understand that being in love hurts...and i understand what its like to love someone sooooooooooooooooooooooo much and get nothing in return...but seriously people....
You cant allow someone...especially someone who doesnt care anything about u to be so disruptive to ur life. No matter how long u stay on it...it doesnt mean that person is going to eventually run into ur arms!!!!!!!
Things happen for a reason...that person ur soooooo in love....that person u cant live without....might have ended up being the worse thing that could have ever happened in ur life!
most of us are still really young...all u need is patience..eventually u will meet that person who is meant for you!

I went through a time where i was afraid to talk to any guys because i felt i will get heartbroken all over again. However i learned that if i shut myself out...its only going to hurt ME in the end.
Just plz..let it go...for ur own sake. I promise that if u do u wont regret it.

Something sounds contradictory....chase ur dreams i say...no regrets...shit happens sometimes but time heals all.....we're sorta on the sam page...i think?

[MarrYMePlZzz]

Something sounds contradictory....chase ur dreams i say...no regrets...shit happens sometimes but time heals all.....we're sorta on the sam page...i think?

It mean...it sounds good what u r saying...but no matter how much u love someone..doesnt mean they will love you...i mean i realized that pretty quick. U could be the best wife/husband and best friend to that person...but if they dont love u...forget it...u cant make them!

I mean i went through a time i was really trying to figure out "what the hell is wrong with me?" I thought i was soooooo ugly and not fun and i totally beat myself up over this person...i still do it sometimes

I use to think dang...whoever he ends up with isnt going to love him nearly as much as i did..but do i really know that?

plus..if u really want that person to be happy..u have to leave them alone..let them figure out what is best for them...if u gave it ur all...then maybe they might come back one day and realize it was a mistake...maybe not

the problem i have my situation..i never knew exactly what it was about me he didnt like~honestly i want to ask him but i dont think hell be honest...i dont know..but it bothers me everyday

[Ragga_NZ]

Something sounds contradictory....chase ur dreams i say...no regrets...shit happens sometimes but time heals all.....we're sorta on the sam page...i think?

It mean...it sounds good what u r saying...but no matter how much u love someone..doesnt mean they will love you...i mean i realized that pretty quick. U could be the best wife/husband and best friend to that person...but if they dont love u...forget it...u cant make them!

I mean i went through a time i was really trying to figure out "what the hell is wrong with me?" I thought i was soooooo ugly and not fun and i totally beat myself up over this person...i still do it sometimes

I use to think dang...whoever he ends up with isnt going to love him nearly as much as i did..but do i really know that?

plus..if u really want that person to be happy..u have to leave them alone..let them figure out what is best for them...if u gave it ur all...then maybe they might come back one day and realize it was a mistake...maybe not

the problem i have my situation..i never knew exactly what it was about me he didnt like~honestly i want to ask him but i dont think hell be honest...i dont know..but it bothers me everyday


Lol... when i said chase i didn't mean to the end of the earth...with the person ur chasing actually running away. I more so meant open up n tell the person how u feel n they can make the call. Well that as a pose to bottling up ur feelings. I've been in a similar situation n telling the girl how i felt actually helped me move on.

As for when u said how u can't be sure the person who marries the guy wll not love him as much as u.....u can't be sure of the opposite either. Sure sometimes it's not meant to be...but u always gotta give it a shot

[gagan512]

Love... *sigh*.... :)

[MarrYMePlZzz]

Lol... when i said chase i didn't mean to the end of the earth...with the person ur chasing actually running away. I more so meant open up n tell the person how u feel n they can make the call. Well that as a pose to bottling up ur feelings. I've been in a similar situation n telling the girl how i felt actually helped me move on.

As for when u said how u can't be sure the person who marries the guy wll not love him as much as u.....u can't be sure of the opposite either. Sure sometimes it's not meant to be...but u always gotta give it a shot

When u say, open up and tell them ur feelings...u mean tell them ur in love with them and they mean everything to u? I think that might work if the person really did like you...but most likely...if a person says they dont want a relationship with u...its because they really dont like you. If that person liked u even a little bit, but they were in a situation were they feel it wouldnt be best...i still believe they would tell u..or at least TRY. If that person knows ur in love with them...and they easily let u go...they wanted to get rid of you...that is what i have seen in my own relationship :(

[sapna16]

I say that ur parents can't tell u who to marry or love. It's like once u find someone that ur in love with ur friends and family can't tell u what to do. Love is blind and it also hurts when ppl break up with u or when ur fav cuz ruins ur perfect plan 4 ur Sweet Sixteenth B-DAY Party which involved ur fav cuz and his band performing 4 u and dedicating songs 4 u. It was my big day and a month before my party my fav cuz told me that the band was busy in Chicago and couldn't come. But do u guys know what happened next? The guy that i love, Prashant Shah, actually made and recorded C.D.s 4 my party and i was like how did he have time when the band was supposed to be busy. Then i got sooooooo damn pissed at my fav cuz. I mean i understand that my fav cuz is trying to protect me from a 24 yr old and i'm only a 16 yr old. He is good friends w/ Prashant but i think he thinks that Prashant will use me or seduce me or something like that. No one can keep us away from the ppl that we love. I will love Prashant till the day that i die. :) :( :D

[Ragga_NZ]

Lol... when i said chase i didn't mean to the end of the earth...with the person ur chasing actually running away. I more so meant open up n tell the person how u feel n they can make the call. Well that as a pose to bottling up ur feelings. I've been in a similar situation n telling the girl how i felt actually helped me move on.

As for when u said how u can't be sure the person who marries the guy wll not love him as much as u.....u can't be sure of the opposite either. Sure sometimes it's not meant to be...but u always gotta give it a shot

When u say, open up and tell them ur feelings...u mean tell them ur in love with them and they mean everything to u? I think that might work if the person really did like you...but most likely...if a person says they dont want a relationship with u...its because they really dont like you. If that person liked u even a little bit, but they were in a situation were they feel it wouldnt be best...i still believe they would tell u..or at least TRY. If that person knows ur in love with them...and they easily let u go...they wanted to get rid of you...that is what i have seen in my own relationship :(

Well i don't kno ur situation, so i can't really say much bout it. But way i see it is u jus gotta say what u feel regardless of the consequences. U gotta be true to urself. If u do ur part, it won't be u that let urself down if it goes badly, it'll be the other person. N that way u can move on knowing that at least "i did right by me" n hopefully won't go through a self hating thing or sumfin like that

[MarrYMePlZzz]

sometimes its really hard..when u LOVE someone...its not about not being with him or her...its alot more....i honestly dont know what i am suppose to do...his reason for not wanting to marry me doesnt make sense...i think it is up to him anyway..i dont know why he cant just tell me im not good enough for him~if that is how he feels...but it still doesnt make sense