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baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:17 AM
K so i jus moved onto this floor n theres this guy in my wing whose extremely cute but i dunno how i get him to know who i am cuz i keep bumpin into him like all the time but i never know wut to say or do...i've never had this problem before cuz before i would jus go up to the guy n talk to them but wouldnt it be random if i jus started talkin to him out of the blue? i need advice!

sweetvirgogirl
October 19th, 2005, 11:26 AM
just a thought .... what if he's reading all this? :D

j/k ...

well ... tell me.. is he desi or non-desi?

Space-Cowboy
October 19th, 2005, 11:27 AM
Flash him.

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:28 AM
just a thought .... what if he's reading all this? :D

j/k ...

well ... tell me.. is he desi or non-desi?

haha no i dont think he would be reading this cuz hes not indian...i think hes middle eastern or sumthin cuz hes really really cute! haha.

chunky
October 19th, 2005, 11:28 AM
K so i jus moved onto this floor n theres this guy in my wing whose extremely cute but i dunno how i get him to know who i am cuz i keep bumpin into him like all the time but i never know wut to say or do...i've never had this problem before cuz before i would jus go up to the guy n talk to them but wouldnt it be random if i jus started talkin to him out of the blue? i need advice!

walk into his room & disrobe. I garantee he'll remember who you are after that.

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:28 AM
Flash him.

sounds like a plan

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:29 AM
walk into his room & disrobe. I garantee he'll remember who you are after that.

im sure he would remember me but not in the way i would want him to

sweetvirgogirl
October 19th, 2005, 11:30 AM
haha no i dont think he would be reading this cuz hes not indian...i think hes middle eastern or sumthin cuz hes really really cute! haha.
see.... diff kind of approaches work for diff kind of people ... but theres no harm in smiling at him

maybe when you have tons of things to carry, he can help you carry them or something :think: ?

mamamia!
October 19th, 2005, 11:31 AM
ask to borrow something :kekeke:

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:31 AM
see.... diff kind of approaches work for diff kind of people ... but theres no harm in smiling at him

maybe when you have tons of things to carry, he can help you carry them or something :think: ?

well when i was movin in he was never there which i was kinda hopin he would so i can ask him but he wasnt which sucked i think i'll jus stick to the smiling.

chunky
October 19th, 2005, 11:31 AM
ask to borrow something :kekeke:


"excuse me fine sir, do you have a penis I could borrow?"

Mr_Maz
October 19th, 2005, 11:32 AM
K so i jus moved onto this floor n theres this guy in my wing whose extremely cute but i dunno how i get him to know who i am cuz i keep bumpin into him like all the time but i never know wut to say or do...i've never had this problem before cuz before i would jus go up to the guy n talk to them but wouldnt it be random if i jus started talkin to him out of the blue? i need advice!
tell him you have a great game you could play together.

Say that you want him to tickle your tonsils but he isnt allowed to use his hands

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:33 AM
tell him you have a great game you could play together.

Say that you want him to tickle your tonsils but he isnt allowed to use his hands

wow u really thought bout this havent ya?

chunky
October 19th, 2005, 11:33 AM
im sure he would remember me but not in the way i would want him to

ahh, so girls that arent' associated with sex in a guy's mind typically never make it to long term memory.

mamamia!
October 19th, 2005, 11:33 AM
"excuse me fine sir, do you have a penis I could borrow?"
or balls?

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:36 AM
haha so far i think im gonna stick to the cleanest one n jus smile at him n see where that takes me.

Mr_Maz
October 19th, 2005, 11:37 AM
wow u really thought bout this havent ya?
no, i'm just trying to remember what worked on me :p

you could say that you love grass stains on your knees and elbows, and then ask him if he wants to go camping with you?

Geezer
October 19th, 2005, 11:38 AM
K so i jus moved onto this floor n theres this guy in my wing whose extremely cute but i dunno how i get him to know who i am cuz i keep bumpin into him like all the time but i never know wut to say or do...i've never had this problem before cuz before i would jus go up to the guy n talk to them but wouldnt it be random if i jus started talkin to him out of the blue? i need advice!

Usually what you do to get someone to notice you is to create an opportunity. But in your case that's not necessary, because there are plenty of opportunities. You just have to do something with it. Say you bump into each other again, if I was in your situation Id say something casual like 'We seem to bump into each other' :gay: but it'll work and you can introduce yourselves to each other and take it from there. Just gotta have the balls(or the pussy in your case) to go out there and do it.

Good luck :thumleft:

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:39 AM
Usually what you do to get someone to notice you is to create an opportunity. But in your case that's not necessary, because there are plenty of opportunities. You just have to do something with it. Say you bump into each other again, if I was in your situation Id say something casual like 'We seem to bump into each other' :gay: but it'll work and you can introduce yourselves to each other and take it from there. Just gotta have the balls(or the pussy in your case) to go out there and do it.

Good luck :thumleft:

wont that sound a lil too random tho if i jus go up to him n be like we bump into eachother alot...like i would introduce myself n say i jus moved in but i dunno wut to say before that wouldnt make it weird.

chunky
October 19th, 2005, 11:41 AM
or balls?

men are usually not prone to lending their balls out.

mamamia!
October 19th, 2005, 11:42 AM
men are usually not prone to lending their balls out.
why is this?

Geezer
October 19th, 2005, 11:43 AM
wont that sound a lil too random tho if i jus go up to him n be like we bump into eachother alot...like i would introduce myself n say i jus moved in but i dunno wut to say before that wouldnt make it weird.

No you fruitcake. Do it casually, dont run across the floor and scream 'BUMP INTO MEEEE' :lol: just if the situation arises and you catch him looking, do something about it. How else do people meet each other if not through introductions lol he probably would have noticed you because you moved in recently.

plummet
October 19th, 2005, 11:44 AM
take your load of laundry and pretend to be out of detergent infront of him or something if he's around and ask him for some, if he doesnt have any well then atleast you two are talking. Or you can knock on his door and ask for detergent since you dont have any, either way.

money_maker
October 19th, 2005, 11:44 AM
make up some BS n b like....hey i was just wondering if u heard all that noise last night....or was it just me?

orrrr b like...u know what....every time i see u...u remind me of someone cuz u look really familiar....where u from? blahblahblah

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:45 AM
No you fruitcake. Do it casually, dont run across the floor and scream 'BUMP INTO MEEEE' :lol: just if the situation arises and you catch him looking, do something about it. How else do people meet each other if not through introductions lol he probably would have noticed you because you moved in recently.

well i kind know not to yell across the hall but wouldnt it be random? if i jus like saw him n im like we keep on bumpin into eachother all the time. he would prolly think im crazy n it would be way to obvious that i like him

Geezer
October 19th, 2005, 11:45 AM
take your load of laundry and pretend to be out of detergent infront of him or something if he's around and ask him for some, if he doesnt have any well then atleast you two are talking. Or you can knock on his door and ask for detergent since you dont have any, either way.

Soap, powder, this, that....Im heading to the lauundreemaaaat :hay:

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:45 AM
make up some BS n b like....hey i was just wondering if u heard all that noise last night....or was it just me?

orrrr b like...u know what....every time i see u...u remind me of someone cuz u look really familiar....where u from? blahblahblah

haha that sounds like it could work

Geezer
October 19th, 2005, 11:47 AM
well i kind know not to yell across the hall but wouldnt it be random? if i jus like saw him n im like we keep on bumpin into eachother all the time. he would prolly think im crazy n it would be way to obvious that i like him

How can you be so sure that he'll think that? I think you're just really worried of being embarassed but no risk no fun. So what if he knows, how is anything ever to develop if at least one of the two people dont know?

Hans Blix
October 19th, 2005, 11:50 AM
How old are you exactly? :sarb:

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:51 AM
How old are you exactly? :sarb:

19 y?

sweetvirgogirl
October 19th, 2005, 11:53 AM
well when i was movin in he was never there which i was kinda hopin he would so i can ask him but he wasnt which sucked i think i'll jus stick to the smiling.
but dont keep smiling for a long time .... start it off with smiling, then waving after a few days ... and then "how are you" and all ....

Geezer
October 19th, 2005, 11:54 AM
Well I think the direct approach is always the best. Shock tactics lol

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:56 AM
but dont keep smiling for a long time .... start it off with smiling, then waving after a few days ... and then "how are you" and all ....
yea i wanna introduce myself be like hey im sumna btw n i jus moved here. but i dunno how to start it i jus cant come up to him n introduce myself.

Mr_Maz
October 19th, 2005, 12:00 PM
19 y?
how many guys you slept with?

impactcrew
October 19th, 2005, 12:05 PM
Does he look at u in any sexual way when u bump into him then?

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 12:12 PM
Does he look at u in any sexual way when u bump into him then?

i havent really noticed...our eyes would meet for like a few seconds n then either he would go or i would go haha so i dunnno. but i should check for that sumtimes

Geezer
October 19th, 2005, 12:15 PM
how many guys you slept with?

:no: and you wonder why they call you bitch

Mr_Maz
October 19th, 2005, 12:21 PM
:no: and you wonder why they call you bitch
i was just being direct...lol... it's an important consideration

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:17 PM
i met him today!!!!! im sooo happy! dude this guy looks like john abraham! im not jokin! cept hes kinda chubby n hes a bit darker n has blonde tips in his hair but other than that wow! haha

bangsta101
October 19th, 2005, 11:18 PM
say hi and tell him u think he looks like john abraham. den ur all set. lol.

gujulicious
October 19th, 2005, 11:20 PM
umm next time you see him just smile and say hi !
ive seen you around...where do you live..blah blha blah
if he doesnt seem interested then..OH WELL!

nyc_craziest
October 19th, 2005, 11:36 PM
yo jsut talk to him say hi sor somethign tell him ur his new neighbor and maybe bring over food or something to his house like bake a cake or soemthing one day and said u baked cake and had extra and u thought about givign it to him. u know cheesy stuff liek that, or ask him where hes from? good luck now u tell me how to talk to girls that are complete strangers to me in college. :D

baby_d0ll
October 19th, 2005, 11:45 PM
yea well he knows who i am but i dunno i wanna like start havin a convo w/ him n stuff maybe when like we meet up i can actually talk to him. haha. i'll keep yall posted on wut goes on.