zuiwaziri
October 19th, 2005, 10:15 AM
I hav a problem in my love life and would appriciate sum feedback.
Let me tell u wht happened.....
(I havent used real names tho)
Plz read and reply cuz i could do with help on this.
OK Well. ME n Diya's famly hav been friends for like 50 yrs and our dads are best friends. The kids of the famlys didnt really talk to each other until last year wen I got there MSN addys. I started talkin to Diya n we got to kno each other, so during summer I went o visit them n I fell in love wit her, but she wasnt as intersted in me. I left n jus after in September her sister got married in Paki n my dad n sister attended the wedding and my dad organised loads cuz her dad cudnt go. During the wedding, Diya's mom decided tht she wud tell her mother in law tht Diya's dad is bein a bad guy, hitting the sons n shit. My dad told her to shut up cuz it wasnt the time to be talkin bout all this, cuz they at a wedding. During this time my parents were goin thru sum troubles and wen we got back my sister told me tht Diya's mom had sed summut to her. Tht my dad had got remarried to sum nxt gurl they knew. Rumors were flying round tht it was true and my dad was protesting his innocence, Meanwhile wen Diya got back frm the wedding she told me tht she did hav strong feelings for me n we became a couple, abeit over the net. every1 knew we was together n getting married was on every1's lips. Life was great for me. My parents sorted there issues n they were happy too.
Im march this yr my dad went to Paki and so did Diya's dad. Jus b4 they went I told my dad to talk bout a Rishtha. Wen I got back he told me he didnt ask. I felt let down n pissed off. I got the impression he didnt want me to marry her. I found out it was cuz of wht Diya's mom had said bout him, but he made it sound like I didnt like Diya. So I packed my bags n ran away. Diya knew I was comin n so did her mom, cuz she wanted us to get married, but jus b4 I came they told me not to come cuz it wud cause problems. but I ran anyways to Diya. My dad found out where I was n told Diya’s dad to send me back, n my dad was upset n emotional and wanted a quick response, but all Diya dad sed was tht he was busy n he wud call him back. He never called n wen my dad talk to him again 3 days later they had a huge fight n swore at each other bad. My dad was also pissed cuz someone had told my dads brother in Pakistan tht I was engaged n my uncle was pissed cuz no1 told him. My aunt was close to Diya, my sister n Diya's sister (Meena), but the only person who cud hav sed this was Meena cuz she was living in Paki wit her husband. Meena blamed it on my sister n also sed she lied bout wht her mom had sed. Every1 believed Meena n hated my sister, including me. During the time I was at Diya’s place we was very on n off cuz of the problems and I was under stress and didn’t treat her right n was angry n moody, but tht was cuz I really wanted her attention n she wasn’t spending time wit me. By the time I had left me n Diya were done, but I was very much in love wit her, but she told me she hated n regretted bein wit me. I told her I wud fix everythin n we wud be Ok, but she wudnt believe me n jus listened to whtever her sister told her, tht I was a shit talker n was causing problems within there famly. On the day I left Diya’s mom had a one on one talk wit me. She told me tht she wud never let me marry her daughter n wud kill her b4 she married me. I was heart broken cuz she told me she wanted us married. I left n now all I hear is tht I started a fight n haven’t tried to fix it. So I tried to sort the problems between our dads but its turned into bizness related shit and I been told to stay out of it. I called Diya’s mom cuz I believe she manipulated me cuz she has a grudge against my dad cuz of wht happened between her n my dad. And I asked her if she wud take back wht she sed bout him getting remarried n she said NO!! and I told her I love her n her famly but she sed tht we don’t care bout u n not to talk to us anymore n leave us alone. I tried talking to Diya cuz my parents told me to finish skool n then we will get u married to her. And I sed I still hav 1% hope of marrying her, but I told Diya and now she hates me cuz I talked shit bout her mom. Meena has sum grudge on me too n totally hates me. She came on msn n sed summut tht really pissed me off so I sed I didn’t care bout her anymore. Then she called my mom n told her I Swore at her wen I didn’t. and Diya is pissed at me cuz of this too. And it was Meena who told my Uncles wife tht me n Diya was engaged cuz I asked my aunt, but Meena is blaming it on my sister n every1 is believing her.
The last thing I did was tell Diya’s mom tht she has No right to say I wont marry Diya cuz Only God knos our future and if God wants it then it will happen. Since then I hav really wanted to talk to Diya but she has deleted me frm msn n I don’t hav her cell number n I cant call her house cuz her famly is there.
Plz help me out, I kno u are all kind hearted ppl, i jus need help to find my Bollywood love story happy ending.
Let me tell u wht happened.....
(I havent used real names tho)
Plz read and reply cuz i could do with help on this.
OK Well. ME n Diya's famly hav been friends for like 50 yrs and our dads are best friends. The kids of the famlys didnt really talk to each other until last year wen I got there MSN addys. I started talkin to Diya n we got to kno each other, so during summer I went o visit them n I fell in love wit her, but she wasnt as intersted in me. I left n jus after in September her sister got married in Paki n my dad n sister attended the wedding and my dad organised loads cuz her dad cudnt go. During the wedding, Diya's mom decided tht she wud tell her mother in law tht Diya's dad is bein a bad guy, hitting the sons n shit. My dad told her to shut up cuz it wasnt the time to be talkin bout all this, cuz they at a wedding. During this time my parents were goin thru sum troubles and wen we got back my sister told me tht Diya's mom had sed summut to her. Tht my dad had got remarried to sum nxt gurl they knew. Rumors were flying round tht it was true and my dad was protesting his innocence, Meanwhile wen Diya got back frm the wedding she told me tht she did hav strong feelings for me n we became a couple, abeit over the net. every1 knew we was together n getting married was on every1's lips. Life was great for me. My parents sorted there issues n they were happy too.
Im march this yr my dad went to Paki and so did Diya's dad. Jus b4 they went I told my dad to talk bout a Rishtha. Wen I got back he told me he didnt ask. I felt let down n pissed off. I got the impression he didnt want me to marry her. I found out it was cuz of wht Diya's mom had said bout him, but he made it sound like I didnt like Diya. So I packed my bags n ran away. Diya knew I was comin n so did her mom, cuz she wanted us to get married, but jus b4 I came they told me not to come cuz it wud cause problems. but I ran anyways to Diya. My dad found out where I was n told Diya’s dad to send me back, n my dad was upset n emotional and wanted a quick response, but all Diya dad sed was tht he was busy n he wud call him back. He never called n wen my dad talk to him again 3 days later they had a huge fight n swore at each other bad. My dad was also pissed cuz someone had told my dads brother in Pakistan tht I was engaged n my uncle was pissed cuz no1 told him. My aunt was close to Diya, my sister n Diya's sister (Meena), but the only person who cud hav sed this was Meena cuz she was living in Paki wit her husband. Meena blamed it on my sister n also sed she lied bout wht her mom had sed. Every1 believed Meena n hated my sister, including me. During the time I was at Diya’s place we was very on n off cuz of the problems and I was under stress and didn’t treat her right n was angry n moody, but tht was cuz I really wanted her attention n she wasn’t spending time wit me. By the time I had left me n Diya were done, but I was very much in love wit her, but she told me she hated n regretted bein wit me. I told her I wud fix everythin n we wud be Ok, but she wudnt believe me n jus listened to whtever her sister told her, tht I was a shit talker n was causing problems within there famly. On the day I left Diya’s mom had a one on one talk wit me. She told me tht she wud never let me marry her daughter n wud kill her b4 she married me. I was heart broken cuz she told me she wanted us married. I left n now all I hear is tht I started a fight n haven’t tried to fix it. So I tried to sort the problems between our dads but its turned into bizness related shit and I been told to stay out of it. I called Diya’s mom cuz I believe she manipulated me cuz she has a grudge against my dad cuz of wht happened between her n my dad. And I asked her if she wud take back wht she sed bout him getting remarried n she said NO!! and I told her I love her n her famly but she sed tht we don’t care bout u n not to talk to us anymore n leave us alone. I tried talking to Diya cuz my parents told me to finish skool n then we will get u married to her. And I sed I still hav 1% hope of marrying her, but I told Diya and now she hates me cuz I talked shit bout her mom. Meena has sum grudge on me too n totally hates me. She came on msn n sed summut tht really pissed me off so I sed I didn’t care bout her anymore. Then she called my mom n told her I Swore at her wen I didn’t. and Diya is pissed at me cuz of this too. And it was Meena who told my Uncles wife tht me n Diya was engaged cuz I asked my aunt, but Meena is blaming it on my sister n every1 is believing her.
The last thing I did was tell Diya’s mom tht she has No right to say I wont marry Diya cuz Only God knos our future and if God wants it then it will happen. Since then I hav really wanted to talk to Diya but she has deleted me frm msn n I don’t hav her cell number n I cant call her house cuz her famly is there.
Plz help me out, I kno u are all kind hearted ppl, i jus need help to find my Bollywood love story happy ending.