For Those who are bi, lesbian, gay

[~desi*baby~]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?

[VaNiLLa $uGa]

muslim and bi ? :rofl:

[xbadkarmax]

im so sorry to hear :( i can't help you there, but i dont think this would be the right place to post it if you are sensitive about an issue, because some people here are insensitive... u should post this in serious discussion, you'll get a better feedback for the benefit of yourself and your concern :) i hope that helps a little?

[BizzyButFocused]

cant change who u are..... no point in trying to be something or someone ur not, i'd try explaining it 2 ma rents but then again i dont know the situation so dont take my advice :neutral: hope everything works out tho
~1

[selina_786]

muslim and bi ? :rofl:

U tellin me :no:

[ii_khushi86_ii]

keep it a secret from family.

[<3 butterfly <3]

are you sure you're Bi?
you'e probably confused, its ok if u think another female is attractive..doesn't mean ur Bi?
:sarb:

[selina_786]

are you sure you're Bi?
you'e probably confused, its ok if u think another female is attractive..doesn't mean ur Bi?
:sarb:


:rofl: true but maybe she's old enuff 2 kno wat she is... shes prolly been der .. done it... thass y she knows wat she's talkin about...




(no offence)

[<3 butterfly <3]

:rofl: true but maybe she's old enuff 2 kno wat she is... shes prolly been der .. done it... thass y she knows wat she's talkin about...




(no offence)
yeh im waiting for her to say it herself :slap2:

[Sir Smoke-A-Lot]

at least ur a bi instead a str8 up lesbo. just act straight have bfs only and marry have a husband and then have kids and there will be nuthin 2 worry about. being a bi is a pretty easy thing 2 hide. i guess :sarb:

[chitown_nena]

im sorry to hear that but its not onlii the desi culture sweety. i asked my parents what they would do if i was bi and they were like we´d hire ANYONE to turn youstraight . . . cuz we ainthavin it in da fam

[bill]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?

Do you *have* to tell your parents?

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

im attracted to other girls but doesn't make me bi
keep it a secret until one day ur really ready to settle down with sum girl n then try talking to ur rentz..but also, i wouldn't jump to a decision like dat so soon n think Im bi..hope everything works out 4 u..good luck

[bill]

muslim and bi ? :rofl:


Shut the fuck up shitwad.

[jassika]

http://www.cnn.com/2004/TECH/science/10/14/asexual.study/

[Sir Smoke-A-Lot]

u girls r retarded. when she said she is bi she means that she has urges of making love wit both the guys and girls :rolleyes:

[Unsigned Hype]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?
yikes please dont tell ur parents it wont be pretty no matter what sorry keep it a secret or try to change possibly i mean ur bi right?? ;)

because desi's aren't down with that shit on any level no tolerance sorry just keepin it real

[<3 butterfly <3]

u girls r retarded. when she said she is bi she means that she has urges of making love wit both the guys and girls :rolleyes:
most of the times girl bi's like girls more than guys..viceversa[/B]

[la_bele_dame]

i havent told my parents and frankly i dont intend too.....
thats the best thing about being a bi sexual is that u dont have to declare it to the world....... its not a biggie.....

have a bf ..... or couple of them who cares...... just live a normal life.... if u do feel close to a gurl then be with her.....just tell ur parents hey she is my friend thats it.....

and the best thing is - u can have as many sleep overs as u want without ur parents finding out that ur a bi.....

so just have fun :)

[the_dark_drag0n]

muslim and bi ? :rofl:It's not a choice, moron.

Girl, that's just who you are. Learn to accept it, because if you don't accept yourself, no one else will. You should learn to live with the consequences, it comes with being who you are.

I'm sorry to hear about your parents though.

wow I didn't know la_bele_dame was bi! :shock: Haha the Angelina Jolie sig makes sense now.

[la_bele_dame]

wow I didn't know la_bele_dame was bi! :shock: Haha the Angelina Jolie sig makes sense now.
:rofl:

i still love my men...........

[selina_786]

Dick Cheney feels responsible for his daughter being a lesbian because growing up, she heard him say 'go f--k yourself' so many times, she finally tried it.




(i jus felt like posting it... dnt start crying)

[El_Diablo]

muslim and bi ? :rofl:
You're not perfect yourself.

:idea:

[<3 butterfly <3]

Dick Cheney feels responsible for his daughter being a lesbian because growing up, she heard him say 'go f--k yourself' so many times, she finally tried it.




(i jus felt like posting it... dnt start crying)
:rofl:

that took u a while to come out with

[350z]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?

you are going to HELL! ahahahaha! :rofl:


it is against your religion, islam

and well, when your parents find out sooner or later, they will find some1 to kill you

disgrace!

:eek:

[selina_786]

:rofl:

that took u a while to come out with

:rofl:

[SIXPAK GQ]

desi : i am only bi curious

but would u be open to marry a chick or a guy?

[selina_786]

you are going to HELL! ahahahaha! :rofl:


it is against your religion, islam

and well, when your parents find out sooner or later, they will find some1 to kill you

disgrace!

:eek:

Lol true.. i mean yea we aint perfect... but Bi and Islam dnt go togetha...... ur either 1 or the other ...i feel like adding a religious quote 2 this.. but naaaaaahhhh ...

[<3 butterfly <3]

you are going to HELL! ahahahaha! :rofl:


it is against your religion, islam

and well, when your parents find out sooner or later, they will find some1 to kill you

disgrace!

:eek:
she's not stated that she's a muslim..there are hindu bengalis :rolleyes:

[selina_786]

she's not stated that she's a muslim..there are hindu bengalis :rolleyes:

It states clearly in her profile that she is Muslim... u ladoo...

[El_Diablo]

you are going to HELL! ahahahaha! :rofl:


it is against your religion, islam

and well, when your parents find out sooner or later, they will find some1 to kill you

disgrace!

:eek:
Dude. STFU?

And all the other cronies that are quick to judge, know yourself before u can know others.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

It states clearly in her profile that she is Muslim... u ladoo...
why the hell do you find it necessary to bring up religion when she never mentioned it herself? :rolleyes:

[spice_of_life]

haha i dont see why u have to seek ur parents permission for ur sexual orientation. U necessarily dont need to go around talking about ur sexuality except ur bedpartner. What u do in bed shud matter less to ur folks or ur culture. They wud eventually have to accept u the way u are. And obviously being bisexual doesnt mean u dont respect ur culture..its two total different thing. So i am sure u can handle both perfectly if u just dont weigh too much on being either one ( hypocrite desi or just out bi). If people think ur disrespecting ur desi culture by being who u are then u shud care less for them anyways. Just live ur life and have fun! A girls gotta do wat she's gotto do! ;)

[selina_786]

why the hell do you find it necessary to bring up religion when she never mentioned it herself? :rolleyes:



Scroll back and check who mentioned religion madam....:rolleyes:

[350z]

Dude. STFU?

And all the other cronies that are quick to judge, know yourself before u can know others.

no you stfu liverpool loving cunt!

i'm telling her like it is, what do you want me to tell her? everyone will accept her being bi and everyone will live together happily ever after? sorry, I rather help her realize and prepare to face the consequences than give her fake hope.

[mcsquare]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality? probably u wud lik guys who dress lik women or vice versa........u r not homosexual unless u r SEXUALLY attracted 2 u r kind..........but if u r ...den go lick dat pussy and quit pimpin up a big issue wit u r parents or shitty stuf lik religions...word up

[selina_786]

no you stfu liverpool loving cunt!

i'm telling her like it is, what do you want me to tell her? everyone will accept her being bi and everyone will live together happily ever after? sorry, I rather help her realize and prepare to face the consequences than give her fake hope.


Its all about me myself and I nowadays...so only give them advice wich will favour them... or its considered as "useless"

[350z]

Its all about me myself and I nowadays...so only give them advice wich will favour them... or its considered as "useless"

lol i know

[<3 butterfly <3]

It states clearly in her profile that she is Muslim... u ladoo...
oopsy lol i didnt chk her profile :Oops:

[ii_khushi86_ii]

Scroll back and check who mentioned religion madam....:rolleyes:
yeah.. VaNiLLa $uGa .. not the thread-maker. you`re still bringing it up repeatedly. she mentioned bengali CULTURE, not religion.

[plummet]

i strongly suggest you dont say anything. as sad as the incredible homophobia this soceity has...it wont get better especially with desi parents, or pretty much parents in general who grew up in a different time then us..just dont tell them. There is no need to announce it, UNLESS you feel it hinders your everyday life

[selina_786]

lol i know

I mean think about it.. shes muslim... shes bi... now as a muslim... isnt it our right 2 tell her that shes wrong... give her advice... but nooooooooooo it dnt work like that... wich should give her advice that would plz her and other RD'ers... :no:

[El_Diablo]

no you stfu liverpool loving cunt!

i'm telling her like it is, what do you want me to tell her? everyone will accept her being bi and everyone will live together happily ever after? sorry, I rather help her realize and prepare to face the consequences than give her fake hope.
Since when the fuck have you been appointed as the revivalist? Help yourself fool.

Oh and liverpool?? you mean as in the European champions??

[selina_786]

yeah.. VaNiLLa $uGa .. not the thread-maker. you`re still bringing it up repeatedly. she mentioned bengali CULTURE, not religion.

I jus did... im explaining something to someone else... dnt get all worked up if u dnt understand why and where we are coming from...

Its up2 her if she chooses to take our advice or not.. as no one here is makin fun of her...

We like other RD'rz have the same right to give her advice from wat we think is right...

[BigCrazyIndian]

you just haven't met the kind of guy yet that'll turn you fully gay....you can pm if you'd like to.


but seriously, unless there is some dire need to get it out in the open, keep it to yourself.

[plummet]

you are going to HELL! ahahahaha! :rofl:


it is against your religion, islam

and well, when your parents find out sooner or later, they will find some1 to kill you

disgrace!

:eek:
you are a RAVING IDIOT.

once again it is not a choice to be gay or bi, it is something you are born with. keep your dumbass comments to urself...go get educated and then come and have a discussion.

[El_Diablo]

Its all about me myself and I nowadays...so only give them advice wich will favour them... or its considered as "useless"
You talk as if you have a superiority complex?? Since when have you been in a position to advise? How do you know you will advise 'them' for the better?? i mean, you talk as if you have complete knowledge of every aspect of your religion.

Concentrate on yourself regarding your spiritual and religous morale.

[CrazyXZac]

this thread is too serious :p

[plummet]

You talk as if you have a superiority complex?? Since when have you been in a position to advise? How do you know you will advise 'them' for the better?? i mean, you talk as if you have complete knowledge of every aspect of your religion.

Concentrate on yourself regarding your spiritual and religous morale.
yes, id like to know who appointed her the position of authority..should she tell me whats best for me too? since apparently she's in sucha position to do so.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

this thread is too serious :p
then make yourself serious. :squint:

[ii_khushi86_ii]

yes, id like to know who appointed her the position of authority..should she tell me whats best for me too? since apparently she's in sucha position to do so.
yeah.. this is all coming from the chick who said she wore makeup when she`s not supposed to during ramadan (or something like that).

[selina_786]

You talk as if you have a superiority complex?? Since when have you been in a position to advise? How do you know you will advise 'them' for the better?? i mean, you talk as if you have complete knowledge of every aspect of your religion.

Concentrate on yourself regarding your spiritual and religous morale.
In that case... y was the thread made in the first place... y are there any threads askin for advice?


No ones perfect... everyone gives advice from what knowledge they have... then its up2 her to take the advice or not....

Just like you are going around telling others to concentrate on themselves... thass exactly the same way i am telling someone what i kno of the subject... nuthing wrong with that is it?

[ShivaChrist]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?

You find a guy who doesn't mind that you're bi, you get married, and you bring a girl home from time to time. Problem solved. Just make sure hubby is ok with it :P

[selina_786]

Indirect quotes dnt apply...

[plummet]

you obviously don't know anything of the subject, you may know what the religious implications are in ur particular religion, but u know NOTHING about homosexuality or you would realize it is not something you can control or fix, you're born with it.

[El_Diablo]

yes, id like to know who appointed her the position of authority..should she tell me whats best for me too? since apparently she's in sucha position to do so.
:spank: where have jooo been?

[nyczpakiprince]

if i were u i'd try and get out of it

if u love ur family and u wanna stay there then u should give up the bisexuality

if not then i think u should sit ur rentz down and have a serious talk to them about how u feel, i'm sure it'll all go goood ;)

[plummet]

if i were u i'd try and get out of it

if u love ur family and u wanna stay there then u should give up the bisexuality

if not then i think u should sit ur rentz down and have a serious talk to them about how u feel, i'm sure it'll all go goood ;)
oh my god :no:

this is not a class at uni you can just drop...you can not "get out of it"

[plummet]

:spank: where have jooo been?
hey hey

[XxCrZyGuJuxX]

don't tell em.. cuz there r some hypocritezzz who critisize anythin o everythin..
you dont have to reveal it.. n if u do.. i m sure ur closer ones would accept u as u r..

[selina_786]

oh my god :no:

this is not a class at uni you can just drop...you can not "get out of it"


:roflbow:

[2CoNfUsEd]

hey hey

r you a boy or a girl :sarb:

[imdaman99]

is it me or r all girls bi or at least bi-curious? :think:

and yeah, by all, i dont mean all girls

[reaz]

there is no need to tell your parents. last time i spoke to you, it didnt look like you had such tendencies. lol. sure have changed since then.

[bootyliciousbaby]

just dont tell your parents at all...its kinda sad but chances of ure parents understanding are kinda slim
only tell them if u REALLY REALLY HAV TO
or else just keep it in,...its for ure best :)

[Enammmmm]

Hey, dont know who u are but at least being Bengali and Muslim (even though Im a guy) I can give u some viewpoints. You say u are bisexual... are u sure? or do u just like girls to their appearence or u just happened to find urself a lil extra close to girls? Before u go telling ur parents u wanna find out for sure how strongly u feel about ur sexuality. U already know how desi parents are gonna act, especially bengali muslim parents.. they happened to go krazy for no reason a lil more than other desi parents from what I have seen but it all depends. IF u believe u are BISEXUAL seriously then u have to decided on ur own if u want to tell ur parents knowing the consequences.. they will go krazy at first.. but this is what I have found out by talking to my parents about what they are not used to... the more u talk to them, they will listen and try to understand, even if they maybe ashamed or angry, they will listen in time and understand u for what u choose to be, its really up to u.

You probably need a good man to give the attention and affections u need that u are seeking from a woman. Hope all goes well :)

[selina_786]

No one can say definitively what causes a person to be homosexual. We have to acknowledge that there could be inheritable tendencies (which does not make homosexuality "involuntary") in some individuals. There is no proof of such influence to this point, but we can't rule it out in specific cases. It could also result from the presence or absence of hormonal "spiking" that typically occurs before birth. It is more likely to be related to one or more of the following: http://troubledwith.com/Stellent/groups/public/@FOTF_Images/documents/webdevelopmentassets/spacer.gif

confusion of role models seen in parents, including, but not limited to, a dominant mother and a weak or absent father
serious family dysfunction that wounds and damages the child
early sexual abuse
the influence of an older homosexual during a critical period of adolescence;
conscious choice and cultivation
homosexual experimentation, such as mutual masturbatory activity, by boys in early adolescence
How do these and other forces interplay in individual circumstances? I don't know. I don't think anyone knows.

On the other hand, I am certain that homosexuality does not result from irresistible genetic influences, as some would have us believe. First, if it were specifically a genetic trait, then all identical twins would either have it or not have it. Their genes are exact duplicates, so anything deriving specifically from their DNA would express itself identically in the two individuals. Such is not the case. There are thousands of identical twins with whom one is gay and the other is straight.1

Second, inherited characteristics that are not passed on to the next generation are eliminated from the gene pool. Since homosexuals and lesbians reproduce less frequently than heterosexuals, there should be a steadily decreasing number of people in the population with homosexual tendencies--especially over the many thousands of years mankind has been on the earth. There is, however, no indication that its numbers are in decline.




God bless the idiot's who are 100 % sure that homosexuality is from birth.... :D... cya..

[vikvik12]

:think: Hmm Selina go to sleep. and cite your source

[selina_786]

:think: Hmm Selina go to sleep.

Fuck off... im revising today.... on account's and homosexuality...

[vikvik12]

yea and read the edit

[selina_786]

yea and read the edit


:wgaf:

[vikvik12]

:wgaf:
that's just wrong..now cite it.

[selina_786]

This is what the Independant news has to say :



Homosexuality is in the genes, study claims


By Julia Stuart

Published: 03 July 2005



Sexuality is determined well before birth and is not the result of social influences, scientists will claim this week. The authors of a new book published on Thursday say that sexual orientation is decided by a mixture of genetic factors and hormonal activity in the womb - and that homosexuality cannot be "cured".

Born Gay by Dr Glenn Wilson of the Institute of Psychiatry and Dr Qazi Rahman of the University of East London has been welcomed by gay rights activists, who say it proves there is nothing "unnatural" about homosexuality. But the book has also been criticised for suggesting that men who see themselves as bisexual should be classed as gay.

[vikvik12]

what a dumbass girl..

cya.

[selina_786]

what a dumbass girl..

cya.


(A)bnoxious man.... still hurt :no:

[vikvik12]

(A)bnoxious man.... still hurt :no:
by?

[Excessive Desi]

don't tell em.. cuz there r some hypocritezzz who critisize anythin o everythin..
you dont have to reveal it.. n if u do.. i m sure ur closer ones would accept u as u r..


a parents love is unconditional they are scared of what is different and in this day in age being bi is different but they would come round with time i know you feel hurt not telling them and you are scarred of their reaction but only you can make that decision

:eek:

[Z4K5T4R]

Well if your bi that's not so bad as being lesbian. It could be just a phase you're going through.

[poojasxy]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?why would u tell ur rents anything at all?

just keep it on the DL until ur actually mature enough & financially secure on ur own that u wont need anyone's approval about ur sexual orientation.

[pachaas Paisa]

you obviously don't know anything of the subject, you may know what the religious implications are in ur particular religion, but u know NOTHING about homosexuality or you would realize it is not something you can control or fix, you're born with it.


not true

[poojasxy]

not trueshe's actually correct. gays & lesbians have an extra chromosone that genetically distinguishes them from heterosexual people.

and did u know animals & plants can be homosexual, too? oftentimes, u really have to look at things scientifically & not just on a moral/religious aspect.

[BC_Broad]

who cares, everyone knows desi men can't eat pussy and you gotta get it somewhere :dunno:

[BC_Broad]

not true

it is, prattykins...we read a new journal in my genetic analysis class about that.

[xxxplicit chica]

who cares, everyone knows desi men can't eat pussy and you gotta get it somewhere :dunno:
HAHAHHHAAHHAHHA....





HAHAHHAHAHAHHAH

wait a min....i'll end up with a desi man...aww man :(

[poojasxy]

who cares, everyone knows desi men can't eat pussy and you gotta get it somewhere :dunno:LMAO!!!!

lezzies rule! :rockon:

[BC_Broad]

HAHAHHHAAHHAHHA....





HAHAHHAHAHAHHAH

wait a min....i'll end up with a desi man...aww man :(

its okay...you'll probably luck out like i did.

oh wait, im just kidding...maybe...no, im jk...

[IPunjabi.Blood]

who cares, everyone knows desi men can't eat pussy and you gotta get it somewhere :dunno:

Your BF been slackin' lately, huh?

[BC_Broad]

LMAO!!!!

lezzies rule! :rockon:

this is like our tribute to "fire."

[Sikh4Lyfe]

this topic is fucking hot

[BC_Broad]

Your BF been slackin' lately, huh?

no sirrey bob.

[xxxplicit chica]

its okay...you'll probably luck out like i did.

oh wait, im just kidding...maybe...no, im jk...


hahhahha lets hug







nvm..that might lead to other things :Pelvic2:

[BC_Broad]

hahhahha lets hug







nvm..that might lead to other things :Pelvic2:

well, if we're single when we're 30 (yeah right, we're brown) then look me up

:cuddle:

[xxxplicit chica]

well, if we're single when we're 30 (yeah right, we're brown) then look me up

:cuddle:
i'm down ;)
















hahha ewwwwww

[BC_Broad]

i'm down ;)
















hahha ewwwwww

omg nayab, why are you sucha perv? chi chi chi :no:

[_A-s-H-i_]

Straight :)

[mamamia!]

do you think you'd ever pursue a serious relationship with a girl though? or is it more like a lustual attraction?

[selina_786]

Oh deary lord who said homosexuality is genetic? it hasnt been proved scientifically .. der are still many conflicts....

[suhailio]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?

disgraceful man....
i mean ur muslim ....
u beta nt be eating anything in ramadan..ATLEAST...

[mamamia!]

Oh deary lord who said homosexuality is genetic? it hasnt been proved scientifically .. der are still many conflicts....
it is some people are more genetically predisposed to the tendency

[_A-s-H-i_]

disgraceful man....
i mean ur muslim ....
u beta nt be eating anything in ramadan..ATLEAST...

ur harsh :)

[selina_786]

disgraceful man....
i mean ur muslim ....
u beta nt be eating anything in ramadan..ATLEAST...


:rofl: anything :eyebrow:

[Geezer]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?

Waste of ass :no:




Kidding.....erm, you're bi, cool thats cool. It means you like men and women. So why dont you get married to a man(me) and have a girlfriend on the side(verin, be||a, nahida, the world is your oyster) and let me occasionally dip my nachos into new flavour dips :dancen:

Problem sorted. Next.

[s11nyk]

Waste of ass :no:

Kidding.....erm, you're bi, cool thats cool. It means you like men and women. So why dont you get married to a man(me) and have a girlfriend on the side(verin, be||a, nahida, the world is your oyster) and let me occasionally dip my nachos into new flavour dips :dancen:

Problem sorted. Next.

that would be every mans dream really.........a big wet dream.

Having a Bi wife....who look sthat hot...and then every now and then letteing her play away with the opposite sex in the hope of dipping his bread........

[Eastend Massif]

I think we men need to entice our women back with a bit of cunnilingus (eating beaver), or we face being dumped. Ladies - it helps if you shave it completely.
Are there any 'straight' girls out there that would get freaked out if ur man went down on you.
Btw, you can't be a 'muslim' and have thoughts about people of the same sex. You can either be muslim and straight or bi/gay and non-muslim.
http://www.1115.org/archives/img_borat6_s2.jpg

[suhailio]

ur harsh :)


i aint...shes muslim..she needs to be taught a lesson man uff uff....

selina- u dont actually want me 2 say the real word rite lol?..im fasting

[Geezer]

that would be every mans dream really.........a big wet dream.

Having a Bi wife....who look sthat hot...and then every now and then letteing her play away with the opposite sex in the hope of dipping his bread........

Or at least watch and get a sleazy wank out of it eh?

[selina_786]

i aint...shes muslim..she needs to be taught a lesson man uff uff....

selina- u dont actually want me 2 say the real word rite lol?..im fasting


If u scroll back... alot of ppl did try and lash out me.... for saying either ur a muslim or bi...

[LadySwe3tness]

ummmmm...if ur bi just go with a guy i mean u can easily like both sexes rite? :neutral:

[Geezer]

ummmmm...if ur bi just go with a guy i mean u can easily like both sexes rite? :neutral:

^ a woman with a smart brain, I like that!

[Be||a]

Waste of ass :no:




Kidding.....erm, you're bi, cool thats cool. It means you like men and women. So why dont you get married to a man(me) and have a girlfriend on the side(verin, be||a, nahida, the world is your oyster) and let me occasionally dip my nachos into new flavour dips :dancen:

Problem sorted. Next.
Stupid! :slap: How about you have a girlfriend on the side? (Bella, bella, bella)

[Geezer]

Stupid! :slap: How about you have a girlfriend on the side? (Bella, bella, bella)

:ashamed:

[s11nyk]

Or at least watch and get a sleazy wank out of it eh?


fuck that for that sacrifice...i cant be a sleazy wank.......

[Be||a]

:ashamed:
Awww, my little baby! :hug:

[Geezer]

A wank is a wank Sunny, sleazy or not....better than a shit blowjob :neutral:

[s11nyk]

A wank is a wank Sunny, sleazy or not....better than a shit blowjob :neutral:

listen if that did happen...i'd be sitting in a chair in full view giving it a slow tug....and not jacking of for a world record.....

[Geezer]

listen if that did happen...i'd be sitting in a chair in full view giving it a slow tug....and not jacking of for a world record.....


Im an aries man, high sex drive :anxious:

[s11nyk]

Im an aries man, high sex drive :anxious:

Scorpion.......pure sex.

[Geezer]

:buttsex:

[Kavita]

u cant change who you are, not even your sexuality. Its just a small part of who you are. Whatever your sexual orentation is, people should accept you as a person, not what sex your attracted to.

[Geezer]

u cant change who you are, not even your sexuality. Its just a small part of who you are. Whatever your sexual orentation is, people should accept you as a person, not what sex your attracted to.

Hmm, you're a carpetmuncher arent you?

[BilalisPakistani]

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

this thread is ridiculous

[x baby bably x]

your still young man...your probably just confused...

dont do anything drastic yet...coz your still unsure...i mean like...have you been with a girl??

or are you just attracted to them?? or do you just wonder what its like to kiss a girl then??

your father says you flirt with boys...so if your father notices that...then maybe your just confused?? :|

[plummet]

to whoever said that she needs to be taught a lesson, you're an even bigger moron.

[Kavita]

Hmm, you're a carpetmuncher arent you?

lol i dont kno...first tell me what a carpetmuncher is :neutral:

[redlightnin]

why would u tell ur rents anything at all?

just keep it on the DL until ur actually mature enough & financially secure on ur own that u wont need anyone's approval about ur sexual orientation.

werd, I agree

[OneSignataNach]

U seem like you're really upset about the situation - so I can't bring in any personal experience here, but I can offer my objective advice. I'm sure it's hard hiding things from your parents - which it seems is your real concern here. It had to have been difficult hearing what each of your parents said given the hypothetical scenario you posed to them.

You're getting polarized comments here: religious and secular. There is a common thread here, though. Everybody wants you to think about reality. And none of us can do that for you. There are a lot of gay people that come out to their parents and face a backlash of shame - for a good period of time at least. You may not want to do that if you are living with your parents at this time. Conflicts often escalate with extreme abstraction when both sides are face to face all the time - the end result is not often pretty, logical, or reflective of how the parties involves truely feel about each other - which in the situation of a nuclear family is most often love, unity and compassion.

Your parents love you - they're going to love you - pretty much no matter how often you fuck up in their book. I'm a bit older than most peepz in here - I'll tell you that following what makes you happy will payoff in the end as long as you don't turn your back when somebody is unhappy with a decision you've made in your life. If your parents get pissed off - shower them with love and bring back the major point that you are a family.

Choosing your sexuality will probably be the most adult decision you've made in your life thusfar - make sure you understand that with adult decisions come adult responsibilities. If you plan on helping keep the bonds in your family strong throughout your personal and public affirmation - then you've got little to worry about - if you're not ready for that - or if the climate in your house is not ready for that - then wait for the right time.

Best of luck homie,

-Nach

[2pakaveli]

i think im gay..i love Waheeda :p

[redlightnin]

U seem like you're really upset about the situation - so I can't bring in any personal experience here, but I can offer my objective advice. I'm sure it's hard hiding things from your parents - which it seems is your real concern here. It had to have been difficult hearing what each of your parents said given the hypothetical scenario you posed to them.

You're getting polarized comments here: religious and secular. There is a common thread here, though. Everybody wants you to think about reality. And none of us can do that for you. There are a lot of gay people that come out to their parents and face a backlash of shame - for a good period of time at least. You may not want to do that if you are living with your parents at this time. Conflicts often escalate with extreme abstraction when both sides are face to face all the time - the end result is not often pretty, logical, or reflective of how the parties involves truely feel about each other - which in the situation of a nuclear family is most often love, unity and compassion.

Your parents love you - they're going to love you - pretty much no matter how often you fuck up in their book. I'm a bit older than most peepz in here - I'll tell you that following what makes you happy will payoff in the end as long as you don't turn your back when somebody is unhappy with a decision you've made in your life. If your parents get pissed off - shower them with love and bring back the major point that you are a family.

Choosing your sexuality will probably be the most adult decision you've made in your life thusfar - make sure you understand that with adult decisions come adult responsibilities. If you plan on helping keep the bonds in your family strong throughout your personal and public affirmation - then you've got little to worry about - if you're not ready for that - or if the climate in your house is not ready for that - then wait for the right time.

Best of luck homie,

-Nach
Yah, I agree with him, go0d j0b dude! :thumleft: lol

[x baby bably x]

U seem like you're really upset about the situation - so I can't bring in any personal experience here, but I can offer my objective advice. I'm sure it's hard hiding things from your parents - which it seems is your real concern here. It had to have been difficult hearing what each of your parents said given the hypothetical scenario you posed to them.

You're getting polarized comments here: religious and secular. There is a common thread here, though. Everybody wants you to think about reality. And none of us can do that for you. There are a lot of gay people that come out to their parents and face a backlash of shame - for a good period of time at least. You may not want to do that if you are living with your parents at this time. Conflicts often escalate with extreme abstraction when both sides are face to face all the time - the end result is not often pretty, logical, or reflective of how the parties involves truely feel about each other - which in the situation of a nuclear family is most often love, unity and compassion.

Your parents love you - they're going to love you - pretty much no matter how often you fuck up in their book. I'm a bit older than most peepz in here - I'll tell you that following what makes you happy will payoff in the end as long as you don't turn your back when somebody is unhappy with a decision you've made in your life. If your parents get pissed off - shower them with love and bring back the major point that you are a family.

Choosing your sexuality will probably be the most adult decision you've made in your life thusfar - make sure you understand that with adult decisions come adult responsibilities. If you plan on helping keep the bonds in your family strong throughout your personal and public affirmation - then you've got little to worry about - if you're not ready for that - or if the climate in your house is not ready for that - then wait for the right time.

Best of luck homie,

-Nach
omg u post??

:yikes:

there was a thread about you!!!

ur like the asian version of eminem :giggle: luks wise :giggle:

[Geezer]

lol i dont kno...first tell me what a carpetmuncher is :neutral:

:kekeke: a furrycupsipper

[~desi*baby~]

Oh wow def. didnt know the topic was gonna become THIS popular so i signed off kinda quick.. i def. do know im bi cuz im crushin real hard on this girl i met.. but she lives in GA.. but we talk on the phone all the time.. and hopefully ill be goin down there all summer.. so who knows..

selina_786 thanks so much for stickin up for me sweetie!!!

and to everyone else thnx so much for the advice..

[ektubaby]

wanna make out? :eyebrow:

[selina_786]

Oh wow def. didnt know the topic was gonna become THIS popular so i signed off kinda quick.. i def. do know im bi cuz im crushin real hard on this girl i met.. but she lives in GA.. but we talk on the phone all the time.. and hopefully ill be goin down there all summer.. so who knows..

selina_786 thanks so much for stickin up for me sweetie!!!

and to everyone else thnx so much for the advice..

No prob... :D

[~desi*baby~]

wanna make out? :eyebrow:


Sure im down :)

[lovindia]

im attracted to other girls but doesn't make me bi
keep it a secret until one day ur really ready to settle down with sum girl n then try talking to ur rentz..but also, i wouldn't jump to a decision like dat so soon n think Im bi..hope everything works out 4 u..good luck
:shock: oh no

[lumbichokri]

Scroll back and check who mentioned religion madam....:rolleyes:
lol@madam i luv u selina :rofl:

[~desi*baby~]

who doesnt ;-)

[ektubaby]

Sure im down :)
:cuddle:


boo, now im sad its just an e-thang :ashamed:

[selina_786]

lol@madam i luv u selina :rofl:

Lol i hate it when stupid ppl who have higher authority pick on specific ppl who prolly only laffed at a comment... how silly...

[AnGel_PyAr]

bi ppl gay ppl lesbains

all scare me!!

no offenCE!

[~desi*baby~]

:cuddle:


boo, now im sad its just an e-thang :ashamed:

THEN COME TO CUSE:)

[~desi*baby~]

bi ppl gay ppl lesbains

all scare me!!

no offenCE!

BOO!

[bewakoof]

niceeeee

[ii_khushi86_ii]

bi ppl gay ppl lesbains

all scare me!!

no offenCE!
:neutral: why? no offense taken though.

[ektubaby]

THEN COME TO CUSE:)
:-s

[lovindia]

y do I hav this feeing that l this thread is :drama: all fake, and the odd thing
is we got 8 guest viewing it

[stylo_4444]

y do I hav this feeing that l this thread is :drama: all fake

yeah but i found this thread to be kinda amusing.

some of u posters are just classic.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

Lol i hate it when stupid ppl who have higher authority pick on specific ppl who prolly only laffed at a comment... how silly...

this coming from the chick who says she has a right to tell people whats correct/wrong.. yeah okay. :roll:

[stylo_4444]

this coming from the chick who says she has a right to tell people whats correct/wrong.. yeah okay. :roll:
let the catfight begin.

[selina_786]

this coming from the chick who says she has a right to tell people whats correct/wrong.. yeah okay. :roll:
Its called giving advice to the one that requires it.... ... the reason behind this thread?



Such a dumbass.... :hand: carry on blabbing away....

When u have any good quotes for me... i will reply... until then ciao "madam"

[AnGel_PyAr]

:neutral: why? no offense taken though.

i dontknow y
i think its cuz desis arent suppose to be bi gay etc and this is how we are raised to think. One of my friends moved into an apartment last year...her roomate was bi and my friend found this out lter and moved out. :neutral:

This one guy told me this one girl was interested in me
and honetly it freaked the shit out of me :(

[ii_khushi86_ii]

let the catfight begin.
:no: men.. (assuming that you are male)

[stylo_4444]

this thread had catfight written all over it.

[AnGel_PyAr]

khushi ur a lesbain? since when? :neutral:

[ii_khushi86_ii]

i dontknow y
i think its cuz desis arent suppose to be bi gay etc and this is how we are raised to think. One of my friends moved into an apartment last year...her roomate was bi and my friend found this out lter and moved out. :neutral:

This one guy told me this one girl was interested in me
and honetly it freaked the shit out of me :(

well.. if you`re uncomfortable with bi/gays/lesbians, i guess it shouldn`t bother anyone as long as you don`t start flaming them. to each their own. :)

yeah.. the whole desis-aren`t-supposed-be-bi thing is what keeps me from telling anyone in my family either... esp. my cousin. i`m close to her and all, but she`s still the last person i would ever tell.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

khushi ur a lesbain? since when? :neutral:

noo.. i`m bi. i have mehul, remember? lol, don`t worry, i won`t hit on you.

[ektubaby]

noo.. i`m bi. i have mehul, remember? lol, don`t worry, i won`t hit on you.
mehul must love that :eyebrow:

[chocolat]

U seem like you're really upset about the situation - so I can't bring in any personal experience here, but I can offer my objective advice. I'm sure it's hard hiding things from your parents - which it seems is your real concern here. It had to have been difficult hearing what each of your parents said given the hypothetical scenario you posed to them.

You're getting polarized comments here: religious and secular. There is a common thread here, though. Everybody wants you to think about reality. And none of us can do that for you. There are a lot of gay people that come out to their parents and face a backlash of shame - for a good period of time at least. You may not want to do that if you are living with your parents at this time. Conflicts often escalate with extreme abstraction when both sides are face to face all the time - the end result is not often pretty, logical, or reflective of how the parties involves truely feel about each other - which in the situation of a nuclear family is most often love, unity and compassion.

Your parents love you - they're going to love you - pretty much no matter how often you fuck up in their book. I'm a bit older than most peepz in here - I'll tell you that following what makes you happy will payoff in the end as long as you don't turn your back when somebody is unhappy with a decision you've made in your life. If your parents get pissed off - shower them with love and bring back the major point that you are a family.

Choosing your sexuality will probably be the most adult decision you've made in your life thusfar - make sure you understand that with adult decisions come adult responsibilities. If you plan on helping keep the bonds in your family strong throughout your personal and public affirmation - then you've got little to worry about - if you're not ready for that - or if the climate in your house is not ready for that - then wait for the right time.

Best of luck homie,

-Nach

now THIS is what i call good advice.

"you're either muslim or bi" or "you're going to hell" is not even advice.

[lumbichokri]

Lol i hate it when stupid ppl who have higher authority pick on specific ppl who prolly only laffed at a comment... how silly...
werd! :rofl:

[lumbichokri]

Its called giving advice to the one that requires it.... ... the reason behind this thread?



Such a dumbass.... :hand: carry on blabbing away....

When u have any good quotes for me... i will reply... until then ciao "madam"
lmaoooooooooooooooooooooo hahhahahahaha ahhahh :rofl: im lafin my butt off @ madam" hahahhah :p

[AnGel_PyAr]

well.. if you`re uncomfortable with bi/gays/lesbians, i guess it shouldn`t bother anyone as long as you don`t start flaming them. to each their own. :)

yeah.. the whole desis-aren`t-supposed-be-bi thing is what keeps me from telling anyone in my family either... esp. my cousin. i`m close to her and all, but she`s still the last person i would ever tell.
i dont hate bis or gay etc. its there life they have the right to live it how they want

wut do u thin about girls that get surjegy andbecome guys :neutral: and guys who become girls :neutral: i thinkits way to werid for me to handle!

[stylo_4444]

Its called giving advice to the one that requires it.... ... the reason behind this thread?



Such a dumbass.... :hand: carry on blabbing away....

When u have any good quotes for me... i will reply... until then ciao "madam"
classic. u know how to argue...i like that.

[AnGel_PyAr]

noo.. i`m bi. i have mehul, remember? lol, don`t worry, i won`t hit on you.
ahahah right!! lol

have u ever been out with a girl? would u marry a girl? are u sure ur bi?how long u been bi for?

[ii_khushi86_ii]

lmaoooooooooooooooooooooo hahhahahahaha ahhahh :rofl: im lafin my butt off @ madam" hahahhah :p
the whole world gets it. you hold grudges with online people. go suck the dicks of other khushi-haters now.

[nyczpakiprince]

oh my god :no:

this is not a class at uni you can just drop...you can not "get out of it"

nahh i'm just sayin that if it doesn't work out and she really luvz her family

then shez gotta find a way to just "get out of it" therez no otha option than to leave ur family, if they really plan on disowning u :no:

[lovestick]

wow. the responses on this thread are really surprising to me - i thought certain attitudes wouldn't be passed on to our generation in such propensity.

whose parents on this forum would be completely okay with their child being homosexual? i know if i were gay, my parents wouldn't really mind. they'd be a little disappointed, but that's it.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

mehul must love that :eyebrow:

lol.. possibly. although he rather have me all to himself. :love:

ahahah right!! lol

have u ever been out with a girl? would u marry a girl? are u sure ur bi?how long u been bi for?

yeah, for a few months. before i met mehul. erm.. considering my family`s view on bi/gays/lesbians.. i don`t think i`ll be marrying a girl. i feel sure that i`m bi. but who knows. :dunno:

[ektubaby]

i dont hate bis or gay etc. its there life they have the right to live it how they want

wut do u thin about girls that get surjegy andbecome guys :neutral: and guys who become girls :neutral: i thinkits way to werid for me to handle!
ur such a sheltered child

[ektubaby]

wow. the responses on this thread are really surprising to me - i thought certain attitudes wouldn't be passed on to our generation in such propensity.

whose parents on this forum would be completely okay with their child being homosexual? i know if i were gay, my parents wouldn't really mind. they'd be a little disappointed, but that's it.
agreed

[AnGel_PyAr]

ur such a sheltered child
omg the idea to me is very odd!!

imagine talking to a girl that was a guy b4r

:wtf:
i wonder how i would react lol

this one guy became a girl and was ateacher all the desis pulled there kids out of that school

lol:rofl:

[AnGel_PyAr]

lol.. possibly. although he rather have me all to himself. :love:



yeah, for a few months. before i met mehul. erm.. considering my family`s view on bi/gays/lesbians.. i don`t think i`ll be marrying a girl. i feel sure that i`m bi. but who knows. :dunno:
thats cool

im happy ur with mehul and im happy for the both of u!

[twinkleeeyez3]

at least ur a bi instead a str8 up lesbo. just act straight have bfs only and marry have a husband and then have kids and there will be nuthin 2 worry about. being a bi is a pretty easy thing 2 hide. i guess :sarb:


thats forcing herself into something she is not happy w/.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

thats cool

im happy ur with mehul and im happy for the both of u!
thanks. :)

[twinkleeeyez3]

muslim and bi ? :rofl:


now go burry yourself in teh dumpster. retard

[twinkleeeyez3]

thanks. :)


im kinda lost. you dated a girl?

[lumbichokri]

the whole world gets it. you hold grudges with online people. go suck the dicks of other khushi-haters now.
i dun have time for that :p

[ektubaby]

i dun have time for that :p
then stop :rolleyes:

[Sikh4Lyfe]

So tell me some stories about your bisexual experiences, was it like a sleep over gone kinky or what?

[bangsta101]

bengalis are snobs. i know im a bengali. lol. if u do tell ur rents and dis gets out u know ur rents arnt gona accept u. well das what i think. da bengalis here talk when dey see u talkin 2 noda gyal. i donno bout dere. so gud luck.

[MR2Turbo]

to whoever said that she needs to be taught a lesson, you're an even bigger moron.

Madame save a queer to the rescue. :neutral:

Anyways, as everyone knows, I think homosexuality is disgusting and sinful behavior.

According to the Abrahamic religions, it is a huge sin that has severe consequences.

If you die a homo, you will most likely go straight to hell.

Adam and Eve, not Eve and Evelyn, etc, etc, etc.

If I had a queer son and or daughter, They would be disowned by me immeadiately.

I think the gay gene is about as real as the fat gene.

REPENT!!!

Whats up with these so called muslim girls doing all sorts of shit? What is this world coming to?

If you ****** lovers dont like my point of view, you can just blow me.

[zeeweed]

Im torn cuz i am bi.. but i dont have the heart to come out to my rents. yes call me a fob but i looove my culture.. and unfortunatley bengali culture isnt bisexual friendly. I was talkin to my rents about it the other day and im like what would u guys do if one of us were bi.. and they straight up said " u wouldnt be our kid.." ... and im like o wow.. but then my dad was like "ehh but im not worried cuz ur such a flirt and u love boys.." so.. how do u deal with being desi and being respectful to ur culture.. but also bein in touch (no pun intended) with ur sexuality?


DAM bi?? and i actually hit on u, b/4

dam world full of surprises,

:sarb: :dunno: :dunno:

[selina_786]

Madame save a queer to the rescue. :neutral:

Anyways, as everyone knows, I think homosexuality is disgusting and sinful behavior.

According to the Abrahamic religions, it is a huge sin that has severe consequences.

If you die a homo, you will most likely go straight to hell.

Adam and Eve, not Eve and Evelyn, etc, etc, etc.

If I had a queer son and or daughter, They would be disowned by me immeadiately.

I think the gay gene is about as real as the fat gene.

REPENT!!!

Whats up with these so called muslim girls doing all sorts of shit? What is this world coming to?

If you ******s dont like my point of view, you can just blow me.


:werd:

[MR2Turbo]

:werd:
we finally agree on something! lol

[selina_786]

we finally agree on something! lol

:rofl: Indeed.... :yes: i liked your lil phrase on the homo gene... i couldnt agree more.. as some ppl in here think homosexuality is from birth... when it hasnt even been scientifically proven to be genetic...

[MR2Turbo]

:rofl: Indeed.... :yes: i liked your lil phrase on the homo gene... i couldnt agree more.. as some fags in here think homosexuality is from birth... when it hasnt even been scientifically proven to be genetic...



Man i aint gonna say much... alot of ppl tried to lash at me :no:
I think God gives some people the urges of homosexuality. Like a little bit. But thats just a test from God. They have to supress those sinful feelings, and follow the righteous path.

I mean why do we have society and laws from God? Why dont we just follow out God given urges of lust, greed, violence, etc?

Because God intentionally put these flaws into us to challange us. Are we weaklings who will give in to these desires? or are we strong enough to follow Gods path?

Thats the way I see it.

[stylo_4444]

Madame save a queer to the rescue. :neutral:

Anyways, as everyone knows, I think homosexuality is disgusting and sinful behavior.

According to the Abrahamic religions, it is a huge sin that has severe consequences.

If you die a homo, you will most likely go straight to hell.

Adam and Eve, not Eve and Evelyn, etc, etc, etc.

If I had a queer son and or daughter, They would be disowned by me immeadiately.

I think the gay gene is about as real as the fat gene.

REPENT!!!

Whats up with these so called muslim girls doing all sorts of shit? What is this world coming to?

If you ****** lovers dont like my point of view, you can just blow me.


me personally, i really couldn't care what goes on in a person's bedroom despite the fact that i believe homosexuality is sinful.

now with the girls that say they're muslim and are gettin wid other girls and what not...that's gonna be their deal with Allah and their family...and both will have severe consequences.

[stylo_4444]

I think God gives some people the urges of homosexuality. Like a little bit. But thats just a test from God. They have to supress those sinful feelings, and follow the righteous path.

I mean why do we have society and laws from God? Why dont we just follow out God given urges of lust, greed, violence, etc?

Because God intentionally put these flaws into us to challange us. Are we weaklings who will give in to these desires? or are we strong enough to follow Gods path?

Thats the way I see it.

agree

[selina_786]

I think God gives some people the urges of homosexuality. Like a little bit. But thats just a test from God. They have to supress those sinful feelings, and follow the righteous path.

I mean why do we have society and laws from God? Why dont we just follow out God given urges of lust, greed, violence, etc?

Because God intentionally put these flaws into us to challange us. Are we weaklings who will give in to these desires? or are we strong enough to follow Gods path?

Thats the way I see it.
Indeed we wasn't gifted a brain for nuthing.... to determine the right's from wrong and follow them... And obviously if you can't do that... God has given us Quran and Hadith to look up the matter we are are specifically concerned about...now how hard is that?

[DeZi]

are you sure you're Bi?
you'e probably confused, its ok if u think another female is attractive..doesn't mean ur Bi?
:sarb:

yah i perve on girls more than i do with guys, so everyone asks me if I'm bi, which i don't think i am really.
i simply prefer looking at women than looking at most men...lol.

and to the girl that made this thread, you don't have to tell your parents.
i saw that your like 18...so this might just be a phase, maybe you'll grow out of it in a year or two. so i don't think there's any need to tell your parents as i don't think you will remain bi.

[stylo_4444]

Indeed we wasn't gifted a brain for nuthing.... to determine the right's from wrong and follow them... And obviously if you can't do that... God has given us Quran and Hadith to look up the matter we are are specifically concerned about...now how hard is that?

it's not hard at all. but u look at society today, we're plain and simple too lazy to open up the Quran and read about things like this.

[selina_786]

it's not hard at all. but u look at society today, we're plain and simple too lazy to open up the Quran and read about things like this.

True.... :yes:

[MR2Turbo]

Why did all the fag hags leave?

[stylo_4444]

Why did all the fag hags leave?

they're too busy figuring out if they're bi or not.

[selina_786]

they're too busy figuring out if they're bi or not.

:rofl:

[MR2Turbo]

they're too busy figuring out if they're bi or not.
:p ouch

[RacingSoul]

keep it a secret from family.

yeah & wait til they find out & kick ur sorry ass outta the house, rite?
god if u dont have a useful advice, dont give her dumb ones either.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

yeah & wait til they find out & kick ur sorry ass outta the house, rite?
god if u dont have a useful advice, dont give her dumb ones either.
why do parents need to know? several STRAIGHT people never tell their parents about their boyfriend/girlfriend.

my advice isn`t so dumb when more than half the people here said the exact same thing. :roll:

[RacingSoul]

why do parents need to know? several STRAIGHT people never tell their parents about their boyfriend/girlfriend.

my advice isn`t so dumb when more than half the people here said the exact same thing. :roll:

i think it's better to talk things through tho....if u talk to them & they're down with it then it's good 4 both u & them but if they get mad or sumin then i think u jus do wat u feel is right as long as u dont get in any trouble.
i'm straight & my parents know shit down to the core abt my gf (well now my ex :neutral: ) it's jus that it's better to let'em kno wat ur upto cuz if they find out l8er, ur basically fucked!

[MR2Turbo]

why do parents need to know? several STRAIGHT people never tell their parents about their boyfriend/girlfriend.

my advice isn`t so dumb when more than half the people here said the exact same thing. :roll:
youre right. parent cant find out.

But it would be much easier to be a lesbo with desi parents, because desis are on the lookout for guys. They expect their daughters to hang with their female friends 98% of the time.

Lesbo "Mom Im going to sleep over at Neha's house."

Mom "Sure thing sweetie, say hi to her mom for me."

Lesbo "Oh I will :Pelvic2: "

[ii_khushi86_ii]

i think it's better to talk things through tho....if u talk to them & they're down with it then it's good 4 both u & them but if they get mad or sumin then i think u jus do wat u feel is right as long as u dont get in any trouble.
i'm straight & my parents know shit down to the core abt my gf (well now my ex :neutral: ) it's jus that it's better to let'em kno wat ur upto cuz if they find out l8er, ur basically fucked!

it all depends on the thread-maker.. she knows her own parents better than we do. if she really thinks her parents will be extremely upset with her when they find out, its better to be safe than sorry.

and if thats the case.. hopefully, she knows how to hide stuff well.

[stylo_4444]

i dunno if i feel sorry for the girl or not...99% of the time i have absolutely no sympathy for those who are old enough to figure out what's right or wrong.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

youre right. parent cant find out.

But it would be much easier to be a lesbo with desi parents, because desis are on the lookout for guys. They expect their daughters to hang with their female friends 98% of the time.

Lesbo "Mom Im going to sleep over at Neha's house."

Mom "Sure thing sweetie, say hi to her mom for me."

Lesbo "Oh I will :Pelvic2: "

:rofl: true said.

[RacingSoul]

youre right. parent cant find out.

But it would be much easier to be a lesbo with desi parents, because desis are on the lookout for guys. They expect their daughters to hang with their female friends 98% of the time.

Lesbo "Mom Im going to sleep over at Neha's house."

Mom "Sure thing sweetie, say hi to her mom for me."

Lesbo "Oh I will :Pelvic2: "

:roflbow: