5 years and...

[jajamooman]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(


*Edit* this was a long distance relationship, too. She's in queens, NYC, I'm in Fredericksburg, VA, a good 300miles between us.

[fazool]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(
go and find somebody else, you've wasted 5 years no point in wasting any more time on a looser who's fcuked you over.

[sky_]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(


Brov I cant Stand Bitches like that
Piss me Off

[Chronos]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(

that can't be easy dude. it's hard to give advice in these kinds of situations, cuz if you really had sincere feelings for her, then it's best you have a little heartache and misery and hopefully just move on. spend more time with your other friends, focus your mind on other things and remember that there's more to life than a relationship, especially with someone as untrustworthy as your ex seems to have been.

good luck bro!

[jajamooman]

yeah the funny thing is, she was so sweet and affectionate in the beginning, I never had a problem trusting her and it was so easy to fall in love with her. I'm so misterable right now, I don't know how I'm going to cope with this. Friends are nearby and being awesome but whenever I stop talking or there's some quiet time where it's just me. all I can do is think of her :(

:(

[Space-Cowboy]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(


Been there, down that road, every word.... Now here's the kicker:

There's a reason the relationship lost its magic...... which, I'm willing to bet, lead her to be unfaithful....... and the sad part is, it's not HER, it's YOU.


Somewhere along the line in this relationship, you became too predictable, too needy, too "there for her", too submissive, you let HER take control of things, and basically became too much of a wussbag...[I'm saying this in the nicest way possible]...... As a result, you made her forget why she fell in love with you in the first place. Back when you started, you were a LEADER; strong, powerful, unpredictable, CONFIDENT, you were the DOMINANT one in the relationship.



Lesson of the day: NEVER let women take control.

[TheGreatRAJ]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(


Suicide is your answer. Go to her favorite place. Ask her to come with you, if she can. Tell her its something really important. Then write a poem and read it to her when you get there, make it short and sweet. Wear anything she liked... favorite color, hold her fav flowers, wear her fav cologne, etc. Then kill yourself. For the rest of her life, she will experience chills down her spine anytime she comes across any memory of that evening.

Best way to get even.

[jajamooman]

Been there, down that road, every word.... Now here's the kicker:

There's a reason the relationship lost its magic...... which, I'm willing to bet, lead her to be unfaithful....... and the sad part is, it's not HER, it's YOU.


Somewhere along the line in this relationship, you became too predictable, too needy, too "there for her", too submissive, you let HER take control of things, and basically became too much of a wussbag...[I'm saying this in the nicest way possible]...... As a result, you made her forget why she fell in love with you in the first place. Back when you started, you were a LEADER; strong, powerful, unpredictable, CONFIDENT, you were the DOMINANT one in the relationship.



Lesson of the day: NEVER let women take control.


yeah i think you're right man, i was too much of a wussbag, straight up. thats why. I was the "nice guy" that did all the romantic stuff and was always there for her. I genuinely cared for and loved her. Now she knows that she can use me like a tool whenever she wants. And that's the worst part. The fact that I was like that and that she fuked me over so bad. It's totally killing me, whether I was a wussbag or not though :|

[sky_]

yeah the funny thing is, she was so sweet and affectionate in the beginning, I never had a problem trusting her and it was so easy to fall in love with her. I'm so misterable right now, I don't know how I'm going to cope with this. Friends are nearby and being awesome but whenever I stop talking or there's some quiet time where it's just me. all I can do is think of her :(

:(

dude iv been ther tooooooooo

its been 5 years for me
i still think of her
but what can you do

it just one of them things
There bitches out there
but there not all the same

but i know that doesn't help the situation

[jajamooman]

Suicide is your answer. Go to her favorite place. Ask her to come with you, if she can. Tell her its something really important. Then write a poem and read it to her when you get there, make it short and sweet. Wear anything she liked... favorite color, hold her fav flowers, wear her fav cologne, etc. Then kill yourself. For the rest of her life, she will experience chills down her spine anytime she comes across any memory of that evening.

Best way to get even.


uhm. yeah, good call. ill try that, promise...

:ugh2:

[Unconditional99]

Suicide is your answer. Go to her favorite place. Ask her to come with you, if she can. Tell her its something really important. Then write a poem and read it to her when you get there, make it short and sweet. Wear anything she liked... favorite color, hold her fav flowers, wear her fav cologne, etc. Then kill yourself. For the rest of her life, she will experience chills down her spine anytime she comes across any memory of that evening.

Best way to get even.
:slap: gaandu

[Space-Cowboy]

Suicide is your answer. Go to her favorite place. Ask her to come with you, if she can. Tell her its something really important. Then write a poem and read it to her when you get there, make it short and sweet. Wear anything she liked... favorite color, hold her fav flowers, wear her fav cologne, etc. Then kill yourself. For the rest of her life, she will experience chills down her spine anytime she comes across any memory of that evening.

Best way to get even.


I'll try and translate what he's trying to say:

It's OVER between you and her, NOTHING will come out of it... no use hoping, no use letting it eat you up inside.

Raj is right about one thing,..... you have two options:

1) The one I prefer: let it go, make sure she knows that this break up doesn't bother you, and that you're getting along fine with out her.... and make HER feel like she's missing out on not being with you.

2) SHOCK her: Do something that's going to make her remember you, for better or worse [most definitely worse], for the rest of her natural life.

[Aztirno]

um...

[Aztirno]

Been there, down that road, every word.... Now here's the kicker:

There's a reason the relationship lost its magic...... which, I'm willing to bet, lead her to be unfaithful....... and the sad part is, it's not HER, it's YOU.


Somewhere along the line in this relationship, you became too predictable, too needy, too "there for her", too submissive, you let HER take control of things, and basically became too much of a wussbag...[I'm saying this in the nicest way possible]...... As a result, you made her forget why she fell in love with you in the first place. Back when you started, you were a LEADER; strong, powerful, unpredictable, CONFIDENT, you were the DOMINANT one in the relationship.



Lesson of the day: NEVER let women take control.

Cudnt have said it better myself. The lesson that ive learned from the past is that if somehow U, the dude, is the dumpee, TRY to remain friends with the chick, aka the dumper. Now jus hear me out. You dont wanna be friends jus cuz ur pussywhipped n cant stay away from her. Thas the reason why she probably left ur ass to begin with. You jus wanna be friends so maybe a week or so after she breaks up with u..u call her and tell her u found someone else and how great the new chick is @ make out.. let another week pass and call ur ex back and say that uve nver had better sex than with this new girl of yours. Simply put, ur ex is gonna feel like a moron cuz u moved on rather quickly and u get to say to her, in the most subliminal way, that she wasnt worth cryin ovr. --which she really isnt to begin with. annnd btw this whole new girl finding thing..trry not to fake it. bitches have this ability to spot a lie sometimes..and sometimes @ the most inopportune moment...i.e try to actually do find a girl

[krazii aqqie]

Suicide is your answer. Go to her favorite place. Ask her to come with you, if she can. Tell her its something really important. Then write a poem and read it to her when you get there, make it short and sweet. Wear anything she liked... favorite color, hold her fav flowers, wear her fav cologne, etc. Then kill yourself. For the rest of her life, she will experience chills down her spine anytime she comes across any memory of that evening.

Best way to get even.


WHO NOT TO GO TO WHEN YOU NEED DESPERATE ADVICE.

[suga suga]

Suicide is your answer. Go to her favorite place. Ask her to come with you, if she can. Tell her its something really important. Then write a poem and read it to her when you get there, make it short and sweet. Wear anything she liked... favorite color, hold her fav flowers, wear her fav cologne, etc. Then kill yourself. For the rest of her life, she will experience chills down her spine anytime she comes across any memory of that evening.

Best way to get even.
ur a creep n need a damn shrink :rolleyes:

[Princezz1982]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(


*Edit* this was a long distance relationship, too. She's in queens, NYC, I'm in Fredericksburg, VA, a good 300miles between us.


That's Weird ... Ususally It's Guys That Pull That One On A Girl...

She Wasn't Worth It.. Move On... But Fuck.. Five Years Eh? Long Time.. It's Gonna Take You About 1-2 Years To Get Over This One For Sure.

Good Luck. :neutral:

[Princezz1982]

Suicide is your answer. Go to her favorite place. Ask her to come with you, if she can. Tell her its something really important. Then write a poem and read it to her when you get there, make it short and sweet. Wear anything she liked... favorite color, hold her fav flowers, wear her fav cologne, etc. Then kill yourself. For the rest of her life, she will experience chills down her spine anytime she comes across any memory of that evening.

Best way to get even.


Hopefully This Was A Joke.............. If Not, Your A Big Assole. :mad:

[sky_]

.. It's Gonna Take You About 1-2 Years To Get Over This One For Sure.

Good Luck. :neutral:


its gonna take a lot longer than that to get over it

[Princezz1982]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(


*Edit* this was a long distance relationship, too. She's in queens, NYC, I'm in Fredericksburg, VA, a good 300miles between us.


Wait.... According To Your Profile Your Only 20... 5 Years? .. So You Two Been Together Since You Were Like 15???

Maybe She Just Grew Up? ...... :neutral:

[desipride24o7]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(




*Edit* this was a long distance relationship, too. She's in queens, NYC, I'm in Fredericksburg, VA, a good 300miles between us.


omg omg u live in virginia lol i doo to



and im sorry abot ur gf

[jajamooman]

wow this is killin' me.

[BeaZy]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(


*Edit* this was a long distance relationship, too. She's in queens, NYC, I'm in Fredericksburg, VA, a good 300miles between us.
i think i fucked ur girl.

[zuiwaziri]

I myself am going thru a similar situation.
Read my thread....Please Help mend a broken Heart
http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=113464

Mine was long distance too. but the think to remember is tht everything happens for a reason and All Mighty God will make things better.
Dont look for revenge, remember u loved this gurl, so there must be good inside of her. The best thing is to give it time, cuz if u still wanna be wit her, then u hav to let her realise it for herself.
If not then just remember your own charactor, and use that to prove to every other female on the planet tht she will be lucky to have u.
Thts wht i am doin now. I still miss n love my ex. So dont expect tht to go, ur heart will always hav a place for her, jus accept tht. but use it to build ur trust for women again. Even tho they are extremly untrustworthy.
Hope u feel better n read my thread too n gimmi sum advise too.
Take care bro

[cold-hearted]

...and she leaves me. I loved her to death and I thought she loved me. We had plans for the future and everything. Now she is gone. She may have been unfaithful to me recently... My world feels like its falling apart, piece by piece. My heart hurts and I don't know what to do. Please advise?
:( :( :(


*Edit* this was a long distance relationship, too. She's in queens, NYC, I'm in Fredericksburg, VA, a good 300miles between us.

fuck when I hear stuff like this, i wonder if I ever wanna fall in love with a girl, what if the same shit happens to me and instead of 5 years, we are married, she leaves me and tells me the kid i'm raising probably ain't mine ... fuck love.