How many of you girls constantly suspect your Bf of cheating?

[umairhasmi83]

How come all the girls i get hooked up with always think im upto something even when im not.Do you guys also go in your mans cell phone and make them give you their username/passwords for all their online accounts so u can make sure they arent cheating on u? Why all the insecurity?

[SillyKitty]

LOL Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

To a point where i didnt care any more if any bf of mine cheated on me or not.. lol cuz well i have some limitations .. in a relationship

and i have seen SOOO many guys cheating on their gfs.so i just took it as "THE GUY RULE"

which is to cheat..

[T.Dimera]

LOL Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

To a point where i didnt care any more if any bf of mine cheated on me or not.. lol cuz well i have some limitations .. in a relationship

and i have seen SOOO many guys cheating on their gfs.so i just took it as "THE GUY RULE"

which is to cheat..




i've never cheated on girl in my 20+ years on this planet.
Whoever I end up being in a relationship with, will be one lucky girl...if what you say is true and guys are cheating all over the place.

[XDymeg0tdaflo0wX]

me...................... :dance3:
h3h3z...but i dnt realli dnt care anymore... and i think girlz ..we have 2 do this...casue so0ner or later u kno theyre gonna cheat !! :liar:

[T.Dimera]

me...................... :dance3:
h3h3z...but i dnt realli dnt care anymore... and i think girlz ..we have 2 do this...casue so0ner or later u kno theyre gonna cheat !! :liar:

how old are you?

If you think all guys will cheat sooner or later, your sterotypes must be shapped from the type of guys you have interacted with throughout your life.

This reminds me of....

"show me you're friends, AND I will tell you who you are"

[umairhasmi83]

well its very frustrating when someone literally interrogates you every time you go out with your male buddies or she wants your cell phone so she can see all incoming and outgoing calls.Not to mention the usernames and passwords of all sites you go to so she can make sure you arent messaging females.Its even more painful if you dont call her one night and next morning she calls to ask you who did you fuck last night? :( i cant deal with it anymore but im starting to think i might be the problem since this is the 3rd girl whos doin this to me.

[T.Dimera]

well its very frustrating when someone literally interrogates you every time you go out with your male buddies or she wants your cell phone so she can see all incoming and outgoing calls.Not to mention the usernames and passwords of all sites you go to so she can make sure you arent messaging females.Its even more painful if you dont call her one night and next morning she calls to ask you who did you fuck last night? :( i cant deal with it anymore but im starting to think i might be the problem since this is the 3rd girl whos doin this to me.

one of the few benefits of being single...I went out with my friends last night, and didn't have to answer to no girl asking me questions on who i was with, what i did, and worrying about calling her

[XDymeg0tdaflo0wX]

Im 17.....
But i guess ur rite..all da guyz i usally date turn out 2 b Playerz.... :sarb: hmmmmm i dated ma X for 2 yrz & later found out da guy was cheatin on me :( so0 ya...

[T.Dimera]

Im 17.....
But i guess ur rite..all da guyz i usally date turn out 2 b Playerz.... :sarb: hmmmmm i dated ma X for 2 yrz & later found out da guy was cheatin on me :( so0 ya...

at that age guys/girls are still maturing so yeah...guys can be idiots...but there are guys that have the looks, smarts, and are doing something with their life...it just takes time weeding out all the idiots to find them

[cool_big_sam]

it depends..ive been with my girlfriend for about 2 yrs now..she never suspected and she trusts me a lot..

[XDymeg0tdaflo0wX]

i guess it dependz on how odl da guy is...but wut amazes me is dat ma X was 18...our parents knew bout us going out ...since he told his parents but i dnt understand...why would he cheat on me when my parents & his kno bout us...it just suxz casue i still love him :(

[cool_big_sam]

i guess it dependz on how odl da guy is...but wut amazes me is dat ma X was 18...our parents knew bout us going out ...since he told his parents but i dnt understand...why would he cheat on me when my parents & his kno bout us...it just suxz casue i still love him :(

wht was your age at tht time??

[XDymeg0tdaflo0wX]

Originally Posted by cool_big_sam
wht was your age at tht time??





i broke up wif him like 2 month or 1 1/2 month ago...so0 im still 17 & hez 18....but ya...still it dosent make a big diff...he still hurt me...& i still wonder why?? :(

[jajamooman]

i think its the opposite for me :|


yeah i know, :wtf: , right?

[cool_big_sam]

i broke up wif him like 2 month or 1 1/2 month ago...so0 im still 17 & hez 18....but ya...still it dosent make a big diff...he still hurt me...& i still wonder why?? :(

age doesnt matter at all..my gf is 17 and im 18..

love hurts!! ....time will heal wounds..thts all i can say

[Shashanna]

well its very frustrating when someone literally interrogates you every time you go out with your male buddies or she wants your cell phone so she can see all incoming and outgoing calls.Not to mention the usernames and passwords of all sites you go to so she can make sure you arent messaging females.Its even more painful if you dont call her one night and next morning she calls to ask you who did you fuck last night? :( i cant deal with it anymore but im starting to think i might be the problem since this is the 3rd girl whos doin this to me.


I didn't go as far as asking for his username and password. (lol). I just knew...that guy was a myspace fiend..and i was soo right. I guess because men are greedy when it comes to the opposite sex. It seems like women are more loyal in a relationship...that's one of the MANY things i hate about having a relationship...(from a female pov and it's def true) always stressing why he hasn't called or how long he's going to stay(but it also depends on what kind of guy we THINK he is to make us think this way, for instance, really good looking BUT he knows it, internet obsessed,confidence,busy,party goer etc.).

It sux for the guys that don't do a thing. but it happens ya know. Maybe this girl of yours has had bad experinces in the past and she's just being more cautious about whose she's dating which is smart but i know how u feel. Prove her wrong by just being there for her.
Hope things work out for you.

[banshod]

LOL Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

To a point where i didnt care any more if any bf of mine cheated on me or not.. lol cuz well i have some limitations .. in a relationship

and i have seen SOOO many guys cheating on their gfs.so i just took it as "THE GUY RULE"

which is to cheat..

lol same here. It seems to be that everybody does it, so i just assume the other person im with is doing it, to the point where i even try to accept it, even though i dont like it. and if the oppurunity arose, hell i'd cheat as well..

[1coolguy]

lol same here. It seems to be that everybody does it, so i just assume the other person im with is doing it, to the point where i even try to accept it, even though i dont like it. and if the oppurunity arose, hell i'd cheat as well..

but what if he isn't cheating on u. would u cheat on him?

honeslty, i dont think i would ever cheat with my g/f. if i dont love teh girl, the least i can do is to tell her and let her know the relationship is off/or not interested in her/ or whatever resasons i have.... But i wouldn't wanna back stab her. same should apply for everyone imo.

[Grizzley]

If my gf suspected me of cheating, suffice to say I wouldnt be standing

[MURDERTIME]

girls are lieing hoes

[Shashanna]

If my gf suspected me of cheating, suffice to say I wouldnt be standing
LOL!

[banshod]

but what if he isn't cheating on u. would u cheat on him?

honeslty, i dont think i would ever cheat with my g/f. if i dont love teh girl, the least i can do is to tell her and let her know the relationship is off/or not interested in her/ or whatever resasons i have.... But i wouldn't wanna back stab her. same should apply for everyone imo.

i'm not one to look through phonebooks, question "hanging out with the guys"or any of that crap,but i do always suspect them of cheating, just because the type i date are not the nice guy type, also I've been "the other woman" in numerous relantionships of other people and i didnt even know! all my guy friends cheat..i mean im surrounded by cheaters so its natural to be suspicious. and because im not trusting, i will cheat myself, only because i suspect the other person of doing the same, it's like a mechanism for not getting hurt...

[1coolguy]

lol same here. It seems to be that everybody does it, so i just assume the other person im with is doing it, to the point where i even try to accept it, even though i dont like it. and if the oppurunity arose, hell i'd cheat as well..

and correct me if im wrong, so ur saying that if every1 u see who does cheat on their gf, that means u will too??

[1coolguy]

i'm not one to look through phonebooks, question "hanging out with the guys"or any of that crap,but i do always suspect them of cheating, just because the type i date are not the nice guy type, also I've been "the other woman" in numerous relantionships of other people and i didnt even know! all my guy friends cheat..i mean im surrounded by cheaters so its natural to be suspicious. and because im not trusting, i will cheat myself, only because i suspect the other person of doing the same, it's like a mechanism for not getting hurt...

o ok. then y don't u go for the nice guys? lol

[Shashanna]

o ok. then y don't u go for the nice guys? lol

Good Question. Not always easy for girls..I've heard the men in the forums complaing about how women don't choose nice guys...maybe its because they're shy? :shrugs:

[1coolguy]

of course people are quite shy when u don't know them. that's natural. but not every1 is shy all the time. once u get to know them, u will truley see his/her inner personality. i used to be like that. the same ol girls think that im not a shy guy after all that i used to be in h.s., and im college now. and i knew her since h.s. years.

[1coolguy]

but i understand what u mean. i avoid shy girls too for some reason. i always feel like ima say something stupid or act stupid in front of them... lol

[Shashanna]

of course people are quite shy when u don't know them. that's natural. but not every1 is shy all the time. once u get to know them, u will truley see his/her inner personality. i used to be like that. the same ol girls think that im not a shy guy after all that i used to be in h.s., and im college now. and i knew her since h.s. years.

true.

I'll admit I can be pretty shy. If a guy takes the time to get to know me my personality comes out more.
but sames goes for me...don't know what to say, especially around shy people.

[T.Dimera]

i'm not one to look through phonebooks, question "hanging out with the guys"or any of that crap,but i do always suspect them of cheating, just because the type i date are not the nice guy type, also I've been "the other woman" in numerous relantionships of other people and i didnt even know! all my guy friends cheat..i mean im surrounded by cheaters so its natural to be suspicious. and because im not trusting, i will cheat myself, only because i suspect the other person of doing the same, it's like a mechanism for not getting hurt...

'show me your friends and I will tell you who you are'

if you're around people like that, its no surprise

[T.Dimera]

i guess it dependz on how odl da guy is...but wut amazes me is dat ma X was 18...our parents knew bout us going out ...since he told his parents but i dnt understand...why would he cheat on me when my parents & his kno bout us...it just suxz casue i still love him :(

yea you guys are teenagers, and we'll teenage guys are still young so the idea of commitment at an early age is scary. Ah well, his infidelity is his loss,
and maybe one day you'll meet the perfect guy for you that will be loyal. It's your job not to mess it up when you do.

[XDymeg0tdaflo0wX]

yupp...yuppp i agree wif u ....
i guess 1 day i might just meet him...i dunno0 when ...hehe but i will 1day
until den "enjoy lyfe"

[sweetnsexy05]

with a bf/gf comes drama, mistrust, jealousy...etc...

[sweetnsexy05]

my bad..

[RoMeO6969]

i have never asked a gurl is shes cheated on me until my current realtionship, the only reason i do it is so i no im safe, im jus scared i dated a gurl for over 4 years and she cheated on me so im scared, i love my gf but im jus tryin to stay safe, shes the most innocent, sweet, shy gurl in the world and i love her but u can never b too cautious

[Shashanna]

honeslty, i dont think i would ever cheat with my g/f. if i dont love teh girl, the least i can do is to tell her and let her know the relationship is off/or not interested in her/ or whatever resasons i have.... But i wouldn't wanna back stab her. same should apply for everyone imo.

That would be the courteous thing to do. But most men want it all. They want to eat their cake and eat it too.

[akshae]

i would not called it cheating, many girls over exaggerates the situation.

[T.Dimera]

yupp...yuppp i agree wif u ....
i guess 1 day i might just meet him...i dunno0 when ...hehe but i will 1day
until den "enjoy lyfe"

you may be 17 but you're pretty intellegent since you agreed with me :p

[Bipasha Basu]

Well I did, I don't know why but it seen to make sence

I suspected my BF John Abraham of cheat with Esha Deol........I really love John

[Sweet Miasma]

Well I did, I don't know why but it seen to make sence

I suspected my BF John Abraham of cheat with Esha Deol........I really love John
why would john cheat on u with esha....
ur much prettier :rolleyes:

[Shashanna]

why would john cheat on u with esha....
ur much prettier :rolleyes:

what does being pretty have anything to do with it? We know men.. they're going to the girl who will give him whatever he wants. :Pelvic2:
besides, everyone has their own definition of what beautiful is...

[illin]

never cheated never will.
if you love and respect your woman, you wont cheat...its called honour.
on another note, fuck all that nice guy bullshit, some guys are bitches.

[Indian_Eyess]

my gf asked for my AIM password, I gave it to her, one of my female friends said 'hey sexy' :neutral:

she played along

[TheGreatRAJ]

i do that. but im right half the time so i guess its okay.

[. K . K .]

my gurl thinks i am fuckin anythin that says oh you are so cute

[liltrinichick]

How come all the girls i get hooked up with always think im upto something even when im not.Do you guys also go in your mans cell phone and make them give you their username/passwords for all their online accounts so u can make sure they arent cheating on u? Why all the insecurity?

umm...ummm..
No :sarb: :liar2:

[Sweet Miasma]

my gf asked for my AIM password, I gave it to her, one of my female friends said 'hey sexy' :neutral:

she played along
lol...thats why i try my best to keep my husband off my laptop

[Indian_Eyess]

lol...thats why i try my best to keep my husband off my laptop
she accused me of hiding something, so i gave her my password for everything, she sent an email to my mom's email at work saying that Arab girls make nice wives :neutral: