Marry your own relative...

[Street_Scholar]

Errm I just want to know whether you'd marry a girl you really, really liked had only seen her a couple of times and she was kinda related to you. To be more specific say she is your dads, nephews daughter? the point I am trying to make is you both are the same age, you have never lived with her.

I'm asking this because I have a very good mate who is in love with one. Yeah he is a really a very good mate of mine he tell me everything, like girl issues and shit.

Basically this all started like about 4 years ago when he was watching a wedding movie of his relative and he had seen this girl and kinda liked her and then he went to Pakistan and realizes she is related to him, anyway he really started falling on love with her, he would go round there house just to see her like he would make elaborate excuses saying oh errm yeah I need to see someone at there house or something like that. Anyway he kinda had a feeling she likes him to although he is not sure she is in love with him like he is in love with her.

What do ya,ll reckon he should do?

[Space-Cowboy]

Errm I just want to know weather you'd marry a girl you really, really liked had only seen her a couple of times and she was kinda related to you. To be more specific say she is your dads, nephews daughter? the point I am trying to make is you both are the same age, you have never lived with her.

I'm asking this because I have a very good mate who is in love with one. Yeah he is a really a very good mate of mine he tell me everything, like girl issues and shit.

Basically this all started like about 4 years ago when he was watching a wedding movie of his relative and he had seen this girl and kinda liked her and then he went to Pakistan and realizes she is related to him, anyway he really started falling on love with her, he would go round there house just to see her like he would make elaborate excuses saying oh errm yeah I need to see someone at there house or something like that. Anyway he kinda had a feeling she likes him to although he is not sure she is in love with him like he is in love with her.

What do ya,ll reckon he should do?


By "he" you mean *You* ? Don't get involved with people you are related to. It's not healthy for your gene pool.

[Street_Scholar]

Oh yeah and she looks like a hot ass bitch. Literally probably the hottest girl I have seen in Pakistan. She looks a proper Indian actress I was taken back when he showed me the movie. Yeah and she has a stutter and that makes her fucking sound so sexy its unbelievable.

[akuza]

whether not weather

[Street_Scholar]

By "he" you mean *You* ? Don't get involved with people you are related to. It's not healthy for your gene pool.

No by he I mean he. However I don't believe there would be much gene contamination, also I really have to see more evidence of gene contamination from marrying close relatives. Believe me dude, if you see her the last thing on your mind will be "genes" :D

[Street_Scholar]

whether not weather


my bad. Stupid ass English people if you ask me sounds the same however its spelled in a different way. I mean couldn't they have use alternative words?

[Space-Cowboy]

No by he I mean he. However I don't believe there would be much gene contamination, also I really have to see more evidence of gene contamination from marrying close relatives. Believe me dude, if you see her the last thing on your mind will be "genes" :D


If it's GENUINE love, then the FIRST thing on your mind should be how badly the genes are gonna screw up your future kids...... trust me it WILL happen.... why do you think there are so many fucking retarded Yankee hicks living in the bible belt, right down to the American badlands and swamps in places like Alabama and Mississippi? They're all in-bred hick motherfuckers........

[tamil_desi]

Errm I just want to know whether you'd marry a girl you really, really liked had only seen her a couple of times and she was kinda related to you. To be more specific say she is your dads, nephews daughter? the point I am trying to make is you both are the same age, you have never lived with her.

I'm asking this because I have a very good mate who is in love with one. Yeah he is a really a very good mate of mine he tell me everything, like girl issues and shit.

Basically this all started like about 4 years ago when he was watching a wedding movie of his relative and he had seen this girl and kinda liked her and then he went to Pakistan and realizes she is related to him, anyway he really started falling on love with her, he would go round there house just to see her like he would make elaborate excuses saying oh errm yeah I need to see someone at there house or something like that. Anyway he kinda had a feeling she likes him to although he is not sure she is in love with him like he is in love with her.

What do ya,ll reckon he should do?


Depends. It's culturally acceptable in India or in Pakistan, but I don't know how it would be percieved in the US. I personally wouldn't. As far as people talking about the genes factor, someone told me that many of those so called genetic disorders were proven incorrect.

[Loose]

If it's GENUINE love, then the FIRST thing on your mind should be how badly the genes are gonna screw up your future kids...... trust me it WILL happen.... why do you think there are so many fucking retarded Yankee hicks living in the bible belt, right down to the American badlands and swamps in places like Alabama and Mississippi? They're all in-bred hick motherfuckers........


werd. That blood's too close for comfort...very strong possibilty of physical or mental retardation. Simple as that.

[Loose]

Depends. It's culturally acceptable in India or in Pakistan, but I don't know how it would be percieved in the US. I personally wouldn't. As far as people talking about the genes factor, someone told me that many of those so called genetic disorders were proven incorrect.


'someone told you' that genetic disorders were proven incorrect? Is this someone a biochemist? Believe me - it's NOT incorrect. Genetic defects occur very frequently when family blood is mixed. Do you want them to have kids with stumps for limbs or to be lame or slow-witted? I don't think they'd like that much.

[Desi Daru]

Errm I just want to know whether you'd marry a girl you really, really liked had only seen her a couple of times and she was kinda related to you. To be more specific say she is your dads, nephews daughter? the point I am trying to make is you both are the same age, you have never lived with her.

I'm asking this because I have a very good mate who is in love with one. Yeah he is a really a very good mate of mine he tell me everything, like girl issues and shit.

Basically this all started like about 4 years ago when he was watching a wedding movie of his relative and he had seen this girl and kinda liked her and then he went to Pakistan and realizes she is related to him, anyway he really started falling on love with her, he would go round there house just to see her like he would make elaborate excuses saying oh errm yeah I need to see someone at there house or something like that. Anyway he kinda had a feeling she likes him to although he is not sure she is in love with him like he is in love with her.

What do ya,ll reckon he should do?
dude that is just plain nasty.. how the fuck do you look at your relative and say i want some of that ??? tell your friend open his eyes and look around, there are more girls other than relatives. incest will kill ya !!!!!!

[pnp366]

if shes his dads brothers sons daughter, that means shes his cousins daughter, 2nd cousin. go for it

[miss_kuti_kamini]

If they have not interacted much, live 'geographically apart', and have'nt lived together / been brought up together in the same area etc, then whats the problem...
in our culture....marryin a distant relative seems kinda normal to me , it happens :neutral:

[Desi Daru]

if shes his dads brothers sons daughter, that means shes his cousins daughter, 2nd cousin. go for it


who gives a shit if they are 1st or 3rd or 5th cousin,,,she still his sister however you look at it. baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarf

[ohasanzoladiiio]

Wouldn't your dad's nephew's daughter be about your daughter's age, as your father's nephew is your cousin...

[ron mexico]

shit is gross.

[sweetest_sin]

:weirdfac: ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww :Puker: :no:

[Loose]

If they have not interacted much, live 'geographically apart', and have'nt lived together / been brought up together in the same area etc, then whats the problem...
in our culture....marryin a distant relative seems kinda normal to me , it happens :neutral:


I'd hardly call 2nd cousins (if that's what they are) 'distant relatives'

[illin]

never

[Lumbi]

Its all good, cousin love is the best love lol.

[xprietyjii]

cousins n relatives marrying each other..ummm :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[miss_kuti_kamini]

I'd hardly call 2nd cousins (if that's what they are) 'distant relatives'

count ure blessings, id b thankful it aint a 1st cousin

[ezbreezyfresh]

if shes his dads brothers sons daughter, that means shes his cousins daughter, 2nd cousin. go for it

she'a his niece then.. :neutral:

[Street_Scholar]

if shes his dads brothers sons daughter, that means shes his cousins daughter, 2nd cousin. go for it


His sisters, son's daughter!

[Street_Scholar]

Wouldn't your dad's nephew's daughter be about your daughter's age, as your father's nephew is your cousin...


I don't know about all that, however my mates dad has kids at a later stage so them both are same age.

[Street_Scholar]

she'a his niece then.. :neutral:

Well, shit happens. I've seen, mothers marrying their daughters to their brothers sons or vise versa. I mean if thats alright in India/Pakistan then why not.

I told him to go for it, as the girls family is looking to get her married off. Soon, so I told him to get his dad to ask for the rishta.

[immortals]

Depends. It's culturally acceptable in India or in Pakistan, but I don't know how it would be percieved in the US. I personally wouldn't. As far as people talking about the genes factor, someone told me that many of those so called genetic disorders were proven incorrect.

who told you that? some stupid ass white so called "christian" who likes to inbreed his family. You clearly need to read books instead of accepting the bull**** you hear from ignoramouses. When you have two closely related people having a child, there genomes will be very simmilar so they can end up having a high frequency of homozygous recessive alleles in their offspring. Recessive alleles often lead to genetic disorders. read instead of spitting ignorant BS.

thanks.

[pnp366]

you know, theres this sect (apparently) in hinduism, where first, you have to ask the mothers brother if he wants to marry her daughter. this would apply here no?

but ew no, his niece? marrying is niece? eww

[Street_Scholar]

you know, theres this sect (apparently) in hinduism, where first, you have to ask the mothers brother if he wants to marry her daughter. this would apply here no?

but ew no, his niece? marrying is niece? eww


So she's his niece? It doesn't really matter, we all come from Adam an Eve we are all related and not many of us are retarded.

[Princezz1982]

Errm I just want to know whether you'd marry a girl you really, really liked had only seen her a couple of times and she was kinda related to you. To be more specific say she is your dads, nephews daughter? the point I am trying to make is you both are the same age, you have never lived with her.

I'm asking this because I have a very good mate who is in love with one. Yeah he is a really a very good mate of mine he tell me everything, like girl issues and shit.

Basically this all started like about 4 years ago when he was watching a wedding movie of his relative and he had seen this girl and kinda liked her and then he went to Pakistan and realizes she is related to him, anyway he really started falling on love with her, he would go round there house just to see her like he would make elaborate excuses saying oh errm yeah I need to see someone at there house or something like that. Anyway he kinda had a feeling she likes him to although he is not sure she is in love with him like he is in love with her.

What do ya,ll reckon he should do?


"Their" Kids Would Be Gimped. :neutral:

[Z4K5T4R]

Yeh my mate's marrying his nice but she aint blood related more like his brother in laws niece so she will always call my mate her uncle but they just not blood related.

I think in this situation they aren't close relative so the worry of the future children having a disability will be a lower percentage.

If he likes her so much he might as well go for it. What's there to lose for speaking up what he wants?

[vimi]

ewwwwwwwwwwww NO
PERIOD

[musicchic33]

Well I know it's allowed in Islam to marry distant relatives..but idk I wouldn't go down that route personally...I just think it's weird :neutral:

[nyc_craziest]

i duno man maybe ur friend is jsut going through a hormonal phase.

[Lust Buster]

So she's his niece? It doesn't really matter, we all come from Adam an Eve we are all related and not many of us are retarded.
Adam & Eve didn't have a choice, and I bet their genes were mad different.

[Lumbi]

The whole retarded factor is a misconception. I have seen double cousins from both sides of the family marry double cousins who end up having kids that are just fine. Kids that end up retarded are rare cases. In fact there are many cases where fathers have children with their daughters in the southern parts of the United States, and these children are actually 100% normal. The only thing that you are doing is increasing your chances of having certain disorders passed onto your children. For example, a higher chance of strokes, or diabetes being passed on.

[BC_Broad]

i think your friend should swim outside his own gene pool. that's so unbelievably gross.

[Sikh4Lyfe]

i think your friend should swim outside his own gene pool. that's so unbelievably gross.

To reiterate with the above agreed statement, its fucking nasty and sick and is so unbelievably fucked up.

[BC_Broad]

The whole retarded factor is a misconception. I have seen double cousins from both sides of the family marry double cousins who end up having kids that are just fine. Kids that end up retarded are rare cases. In fact there are many cases where fathers have children with their daughters in the southern parts of the United States, and these children are actually 100% normal. The only thing that you are doing is increasing your chances of having certain disorders passed onto your children. For example, a higher chance of strokes, or diabetes being passed on.

chances of having a retarded kid aside, its SICK to marry a relative...if that's not disgusting and twisted then i don't know what is.

[Sikh4Lyfe]

Listen to her ^^ she's a doctor.

[BC_Broad]

Listen to her ^^ she's a doctor.

hello there :cheers:

[Sikh4Lyfe]

hello there :cheers:

I noticed we both share a real passion for hating cousin fucking aka incest.

Rock on, I like the way you roll :rockon:

[tamil_desi]

who told you that? some stupid ass white so called "christian" who likes to inbreed his family. You clearly need to read books instead of accepting the bull**** you hear from ignoramouses. When you have two closely related people having a child, there genomes will be very simmilar so they can end up having a high frequency of homozygous recessive alleles in their offspring. Recessive alleles often lead to genetic disorders. read instead of spitting ignorant BS.

thanks.

Chillax dude Chillax.

[Loose]

The whole retarded factor is a misconception. I have seen double cousins from both sides of the family marry double cousins who end up having kids that are just fine. Kids that end up retarded are rare cases. In fact there are many cases where fathers have children with their daughters in the southern parts of the United States, and these children are actually 100% normal. The only thing that you are doing is increasing your chances of having certain disorders passed onto your children. For example, a higher chance of strokes, or diabetes being passed on.


Judging from many of the people on RD alone, I beg to differ.

In all seriousness, do they want their kids to end up looking like Flipper? (that's a dolphin, in case you don't know)

[Lust Buster]

The whole retarded factor is a misconception. I have seen double cousins from both sides of the family marry double cousins who end up having kids that are just fine. Kids that end up retarded are rare cases. In fact there are many cases where fathers have children with their daughters in the southern parts of the United States, and these children are actually 100% normal. The only thing that you are doing is increasing your chances of having certain disorders passed onto your children. For example, a higher chance of strokes, or diabetes being passed on.You make it sound like it's OK.

[Lumbi]

Dont get me wrong. There is no way that i am going to be marrying a cousin. The only reason why I am pointing this out is because I know quite a few cousin love relationships and their kids are just fine.

[Lust Buster]

I think people should NOT marry within their own race. Interracial marriages must occur until humanity is raceless.

[xprietyjii]

out of all the people in this world umm y would u find ur relative "hot" n then y would u want to "marry" them um that would be called "retarded" :mad:

[xprietyjii]

The whole retarded factor is a misconception. I have seen double cousins from both sides of the family marry double cousins who end up having kids that are just fine. Kids that end up retarded are rare cases. In fact there are many cases where fathers have children with their daughters in the southern parts of the United States, and these children are actually 100% normal. The only thing that you are doing is increasing your chances of having certain disorders passed onto your children. For example, a higher chance of strokes, or diabetes being passed on.


fathers have children with there daughters? eww :anger: :no:

[Lumbi]

fathers have children with there daughters? eww :anger: :no:

Yeh its pretty dang gross if you think about it. And its sooo crazy that these kids are so normal looking. You would never guess that it was a case of nasty incest. If fact a couple of months back they arrested this guy in I believe fresno california for living with his daughters and having sexual relations with them and then having kids with his daughters. He was some sort of freak with like a colt.

[falloutboy]

ummmm

[1coolguy]

i have this friend who says most of his family marry their own cousins. and he's a pakistan.

[zuiwaziri]

I kno few ppl who hav married 1st cuzins. Sum were arranged and sum were love marrage's. All couples are happy and all hav healthy normal and may i add cute children.

Rember Allah is the only person who determines who we end up with, its in our Kismaat. He chose our partners at birth and we hav to accept who we end up with cuz end of the day Allah knos best and everything in our Kismaat is for our own betterment.