sex, love or lust, what do u want more?

[MrAttitude]

In a relation what do u want more
1)sex
2)lust
3)love

explain your reasons why u want this

[HeppyG]

Its got to be love-wid my ex itwas just sex and although it was good I used to feel cheap afterwards and think there has to be more to this?

[sweetvirgogirl]

definitely love :(

[MrAttitude]

definitely love :(
awww why you sad?

[sweetvirgogirl]

awww why you sad?
coz the guy i'm obsessed with .... i dunno what kind of feelings i have for him... it's definitely not lust/sex.... but it cant be love either coz we dunno each other

[illin]

love, a meaningful relationship cant exist without it.

[Excessive Desi]

love

with love sex and lust follow to have great sex it must be with the one you love

to lust after someone you must feel some sort of feelings

love is the key

[m_o_i_z]

love

with love sex and lust follow to have great sex it must be with the one you love

to lust after someone you must feel some sort of feelings

love is the key
right on.. i totally agree! :applause:

[Desi MC]

no luv shuv....... no sex wex..... no lust wust b4 marriage :p
be nice bachays......
lol

peace

[musicchic33]

Isn't the usual order that at first you find someone attractive, whether it be something physically or personality wise and you begin to lust after them...then you get to know them and you love them..and the sex follows? ..idk I guess ideally, that's how it would work..but which is more important..I'd have to go with love

[mhnzc5]

love of course :love:
but sex physically lol :p

[impactcrew]

In a relation what do u want more
1)sex
2)lust
3)love

explain your reasons why u want this

Jibran bhondo u feeling someone hence reason for thread and whats dhaka saying bro?

[MrAttitude]

Jibran bhondo u feeling someone hence reason for thread and whats dhaka saying bro? heya

[MrAttitude]

Jibran bhondo u feeling someone hence reason for thread and whats dhaka saying bro?nah brotha just had a random thought on mind so thought of seeing peoples points of views abt these thingies, thats it nothing personal related to this thread, anyways hows you been brotha haven't seen you in a while hows everything hanging with you out there?Dhaka's fine and chillen with the chilly chickens around:Pelvic2:

[impactcrew]

nah brotha just had a random thought on mind so thought of seeing peoples points of views abt these thingies, thats it nothing personal related to this thread, anyways hows you been brotha haven't seen you in a while hows everything hanging with you out there?Dhaka's fine and chillen with the chilly chickens around:Pelvic2:

Yeah i knew what u meant and it was a joke bro anyway i am good and been post whorin like mad and hit a few thousand posts right now. Just hungry at mo as fastin and i take it u have finished yr iftar then.

[MrAttitude]

Yeah i knew what u meant and it was a joke bro anyway i am good and been post whorin like mad and hit a few thousand posts right now. Just hungry at mo as fastin and i take it u have finished yr iftar then.
aha post whoring sounds nice bruv..i am thinking abt it too :-P hehe anyways yeah i had mah iftar now just relaxing mahself

[99thpercentile]

yea id say love too.
i guess if ur in love ur gonna express it right. and what better way to do it than have sex? lust...idont know about that. it kinda sucks cuz it doesnt last very long.

[liltrinichick]

love

with love sex and lust follow to have great sex it must be with the one you love

to lust after someone you must feel some sort of feelings

love is the key


well said

[MrAttitude]

love of course :love:
but sex physically lol :plove usually stinks but love iss gud only if there's someone like you :love:

[Mr_MaSaLa]

with LUST its only SEX... no RELATIONSHIP...if one wants RELATIONSHIP then def. need LOVE to get it going and keep on going...

[Arshy]

Has anyone had the balls to say str8 up SEX *****....i dont get's down any otha way lol

[MrAttitude]

Has anyone had the balls to say str8 up SEX *****....i dont get's down any otha way lolyou gonna scare away tha lil chickens :rofl:

[Arshy]

you gonna scare away tha lil chickens :rofl:

Thas ma aim blud!!!

And it don't even matta much does it really.....
I mean most manz in relationships, are always screwin nex galz, and dey neva admit it....

Thas why i sed str8 up...
My version ov love is .....Love takes time...
Lust...well thas just infatuation....u can lust after a gal or a car dun matta'
But sex hell yeh NIGAA thas what im talkin bout!!!

[MrAttitude]

Thas ma aim blud!!!

And it don't even matta much does it really.....
I mean most manz in relationships, are always screwin nex galz, and dey neva admit it....

Thas why i sed str8 up...
My version ov love is .....Love takes time...
Lust...well thas just infatuation....u can lust after a gal or a car dun matta'
But sex hell yeh NIGAA thas what im talkin bout!!!biggup to you mayte :roflbow:

[Arshy]

biggup to you mayte :roflbow:

Now my question to u...
What inspired u to create such a thread?

[MrAttitude]

Now my question to u...
What inspired u to create such a thread?just had a random thought on mah mind so thought of creating a thread like and see what are the others points of views abt this lovey dovey thingies

[Arshy]

just had a random thought on mah mind so thought of creating a thread like and see what are the others points of views abt this lovey dovey thingies

Ayt blud!!!

[mhnzc5]

love usually stinks but love iss gud only if there's someone like you :love:
awww....but trust me love isnt the only thing i wanna show u :naughty:

[Excessive Desi]

well said


:colors: :colors: :colors:


thank u

[sara khan]

Love

[Arshy]

Love, i need love nothing else. And the one i will love id lust to have hot :Pelvic2: k :rolleyes: that explains it

"Love aint a feeling, it's an expression, it's in the way i view you, it's in the way i choose to lead a life in accordance to you, love aint tha way that u smile back at me but wit me, love aint real, love is almost as close to heaven as i am as far from it" ~Arshy~

[sara khan]

"Love aint a feeling, it's an expression, it's in the way i view you, it's in the way i choose to lead a life in accordance to you, love aint tha way that u smile back at me but wit me, love aint real, love is almost as close to heaven as i am as far from it" ~Arshy~
beutiful arshy ;)


and you quoted me. i edited it lol i got owned :Oops:

[MrAttitude]

awww....but trust me love isnt the only thing i wanna show u :naughty:what else you wanna show me Booo a peice of paradise on earth:naughty:

[Arshy]

beutiful arshy ;)


and you quoted me. i edited it lol i got owned :Oops:

owned hahaha

hahaha ive just made a poetry thread check it out...u can tell im bored lol

[mhnzc5]

what else you wanna show me Booo a peice of paradise on earth:naughty:

yea a piece of paradise located in my bedroom :naughty: lol haha

[MrAttitude]

yea a piece of paradise located in my bedroom :naughty: lol hahamushy mushy:kiss:

*Jumps on da bed with mehnaz and starts discovering the beautiful paradise*
lets rock da boat baibeh eeehhhaaaaaaaa :Pelvic2:

[dopekhor]

In a relation what do u want more
1)sex
2)lust
3)love

explain your reasons why u want this
all of the above, cuz hey thats how nature programed us to be :|

[MrAttitude]

all of the above, cuz hey thats how nature programed us to be :|but some humans are just sex freaks, they dont care for a gurls sentiments, all they care is for a good banging

[Arshy]

but some humans are just sex freaks, they dont care for a gurls sentiments, all they care is for a good banging


Not true....

coz these days most not "all" gals want a good banging!!!

[mwahhhhhhhh]

i wud go 4 love

[Arshy]

i wud go 4 love

But love is a game...!

[mwahhhhhhhh]

But love is a game...!
hav u ever been in love.. i thikn u havent otherwise u wudnt say dat.....
but i'll finish ur phrase
love is a game and it has far 2 many playas

[Arshy]

hav u ever been in love.. i thikn u havent otherwise u wudnt say dat.....
but i'll finish ur phrase
love is a game and it has far 2 many playas

Im not not bothered as to how many players it has and i dont have any disrespect for the game neither....

My view on love would be...Love is a game and it needs to be played out equally by two people...

Not 3 not 4 or 5 which these days seems to be the constant case!!

And as for me whether i have been in love or not....well me and love dnt get on..."WE bitch, so we quit"

[mwahhhhhhhh]

Im not not bothered as to how many players it has and i dont have any disrespect for the game neither....

My view on love would be...Love is a game and it needs to be played out equally by two people...

Not 3 not 4 or 5 which these days seems to be the constant case!!

And as for me whether i have been in love or not....well me and love dnt get on..."WE bitch, so we quit"
if its 3 or 4 in a relationship then i wont class dat as love i wud b more lust i wud say love is wen 2 ppl wud do anythin 2 b wid each other

[Arshy]

if its 3 or 4 in a relationship then i wont class dat as love i wud b more lust i wud say love is wen 2 ppl wud do anythin 2 b wid each other

lol

[mwahhhhhhhh]

lol
orite bro im out now c u around

[Arshy]

orite bro im out now c u around
L8Rz

[ezbreezyfresh]

all three
:Pelvic2: :Pelvic2:

[d-wal]

meh...lust will do for now :p

[SexyTemptress]

love

[SIXPAK GQ]

a little bit of everything

[MrAttitude]

Not true....

coz these days most not "all" gals want a good banging!!!TRUE TRUE

most of em gurls want some good shaggin these dayz!:Pelvic2:

[Arshy]

TRUE TRUE

most of em gurls want some good shaggin these dayz!:Pelvic2:

I still don't try n get caught up....

"But we ain't come here to start no drama
We just lookin for our future baby mamas"

[MrAttitude]

I still don't try n get caught up....

"But we ain't come here to start no drama
We just lookin for our future baby mamas"thats "heavy" mun :rofl:

[Arshy]

thats "heavy" mun :rofl:

any gals postin that have agreed to tha lust section....?
Or u still got most tha one's afta SEX?

[xprietyjii]

def love :)

[Arshy]

def love :)

Yeh defo love!!!!

it's all good in da hood!!!

[MrAttitude]

any gals postin that have agreed to tha lust section....?
Or u still got most tha one's afta SEX?none with the lust yet, all looking for LOVE dunno whats behind the love is it the LUST or the SEX :think:

[Arshy]

none with the lust yet, all looking for LOVE dunno whats behind the love is it the LUST or the SEX :think:

Its neitha blud it's commitment, Gyal wants a man whose faithful...
Which in fairness is ayt coz wen we wanna settle down we want gyals dat is kinda simple and not hoes right?

So i guess it's time to big up dem laydeez dat reppin wife material!!!

[_A-s-H-i_]

allllll :)

[Arshy]

allllll :)

At last a woman who wants it ALL!!!!

[_A-s-H-i_]

At last a woman who wants it ALL!!!!

am happy to admit it :)

:scratch: lol

[Arshy]

am happy to admit it :)

:scratch: lol

ur happiness is all we need....
imagine if every gal was happy.....we'd have orgies :dance3:

[_A-s-H-i_]

lol u :cuddle: ur cute u no :rolleyes:

[Arshy]

lol u :cuddle: ur cute u no :rolleyes:

im not cute at all......
but we do have names that kinda sound da same...

u stick to da gyal side n i be stickin to da man side ayt...

oh and ur cute u no!!

[_A-s-H-i_]

im not cute at all......
but we do have names that kinda sound da same...

u stick to da gyal side n i be stickin to da man side ayt...

oh and ur cute u no!!

:yes: me name is simular lol
:slap: u is coooooote
;););) :D :Pelvic2:

[Arshy]

:yes: me name is simular lol
:slap: u is coooooote
;););) :D :Pelvic2:

that many icons...baby im confused....
one at a time plz....

Slow down i just wanna get to know u.... :Pelvic2:

[_A-s-H-i_]

that many icons...baby im confused....
one at a time plz....

Slow down i just wanna get to know u.... :Pelvic2:

are they mekin ur eyes go :yikes: lol

[Arshy]

are they mekin ur eyes go :yikes: lol

yeh kinda....
im actually kinda surprised it's just me and u in tha room all alone ...
Amongst all these messages ...

How e-xciting :sarb:

[_A-s-H-i_]

yeh kinda....
im actually kinda surprised it's just me and u in tha room all alone ...
Amongst all these messages ...

How e-xciting :sarb:

:Poke: :Pelvic2: :Pelvic2:

hum tum ek karai main bandhan ho :)

very e-xcitin :)

[Arshy]

:Poke: :Pelvic2: :Pelvic2:

hum tum ek karai main bandhan ho :)

very e-xcitin :)

i'd tie you up and.................

[_A-s-H-i_]

i'd tie you up and.................

i PM u and...... ;)
give u ma msn addy then we.......
:yum:

[Arshy]

i PM u and...... ;)
give u ma msn addy then we.......
:yum:

then we discuss.....

[_A-s-H-i_]

then we discuss.....

;) ur place or mine ;)

[Arshy]

;) ur place or mine ;)

neitha......

I was gna whisk u away....

[_A-s-H-i_]

neitha......

I was gna whisk u away....

ooooo where where?? lol

[Arshy]

ooooo where where?? lol

cant share...see u there lol

[_A-s-H-i_]

cant share...see u there lol

lets run away to nandos :)

[Arshy]

lets run away to nandos :)

ok good idea....
u lead ill follow......

[_A-s-H-i_]

ok good idea....
u lead ill follow......

u live in mani u shud no lol
i live in the leeds area lol :D

[Arshy]

u live in mani u shud no lol
i live in the leeds area lol :D

da person who created this thread was chattin bout sex lust n luv...

n here's me and u chattin bout Nandos

Gr8 stuff i say :p

[_A-s-H-i_]

da person who created this thread was chattin bout sex lust n luv...

n here's me and u chattin bout Nandos

Gr8 stuff i say :p

:yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:
:dribble::drool::yum: :dribble::drool::yum: :dribble::drool::yum:
mmmmmmmmm....... yum i am lustin for sum taco bell

[Arshy]

:yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:
:dribble::drool::yum: :dribble::drool::yum: :dribble::drool::yum:
mmmmmmmmm....... yum i am lustin for sum taco bell

hahaha phat icons maaan
ur confusin me again lol

gna have to get da whip out!!!

[_A-s-H-i_]

hahaha phat icons maaan
ur confusin me again lol

gna have to get da whip out!!!

meeeeeeeeeeeow :neutral: :Pelvic2:

[Arshy]

meeeeeeeeeeeow :neutral: :Pelvic2:

ooo ashi u'r cruisin for a bruisin!!!

[_A-s-H-i_]

ooo ashi u'r cruisin for a bruisin!!!

:sex: :boink: :naughty: :blowme: :love:

[Arshy]

:sex: :boink: :naughty: :blowme: :love:

hahaha expect a knock on ur door very very soon!!!

[jazmine_0313]

Arsh I have to agree with you...First off I'm married...so i can talk about this topic through expereince. Love is an abstact idea, my take on it is that Love is a Habit, thus we love our parents, brothers, sisters, family etc. When you get married you develop a habit of that person. Lust does not necessarily have to exist in order to Love a person. So lets say in a case like mine...in an arranged marriage you don't really get to lust or be infatuated with the person because its pre-determined that you are marrying that person, you don't get the same typa butteflies in your tummy and stuff until the wedding night ofcourse!! But then again since Love is not existent at the point in time, the sex cannot be as enjoyable. I don't know i have to say that LOVE is not such a great feeling...Lust is better because you don't have to fully comply to your partners nonsense, their is no obligation and commitment, only pure feeling. You lust a person because you are attracted to them, you want to pursue them and when you get them that must be the best feeling in the world when you make Love to them ( point to be noted: love in this context differs from the abstract meaning of love) Making love is a physical action=sex that you have with a person you desire. Jis ki chahat hoti hai. There is a difference between chahat and pyar, i have to say PYAR gets boring laikan chahat ka apna hi maza hai...do i even make sense.... :?:

[Arshy]

Arsh I have to agree with you...First off I'm married...so i can talk about this topic through expereince. Love is an abstact idea, my take on it is that Love is a Habit, thus we love our parents, brothers, sisters, family etc. When you get married you develop a habit of that person. Lust does not necessarily have to exist in order to Love a person. So lets say in a case like mine...in an arranged marriage you don't really get to lust or be infatuated with the person because its pre-determined that you are marrying that person, you don't get the same typa butteflies in your tummy and stuff until the wedding night ofcourse!! But then again since Love is not existent at the point in time, the sex cannot be as enjoyable. I don't know i have to say that LOVE is not such a great feeling...Lust is better because you don't have to fully comply to your partners nonsense, their is no obligation and commitment, only pure feeling. You lust a person because you are attracted to them, you want to pursue them and when you get them that must be the best feeling in the world when you make Love to them ( point to be noted: love in this context differs from the abstract meaning of love) Making love is a physical action=sex that you have with a person you desire. Jis ki chahat hoti hai. There is a difference between chahat and pyar, i have to say PYAR gets boring laikan chahat ka apna hi maza hai...do i even make sense.... :?:

where hav u been all these years?

ur' bang on i cudnt have put it any betta than that....

"love is a creation ov tha mind not tha heart,
for what tha heart felt was neva understood by tha mind"

[jazmine_0313]

wow thats deep arsh!! def gotta agree with you...the mind is so powerful, it controls our emotions. Love develops in the mind and thats when it affects out heart, same goes for hate. People whether you are in love, lusting or just plain ol F'in, remember in order for you to be happy, you have to take control of your MIND, if you can control your thoughts, you will control your actions and hence your feelings.

[Arshy]

wow thats deep arsh!! def gotta agree with you...the mind is so powerful, it controls our emotions. Love develops in the mind and thats when it affects out heart, same goes for hate. People whether you are in love, lusting or just plain ol F'in, remember in order for you to be happy, you have to take control of your MIND, if you can control your thoughts, you will control your actions and hence your feelings.

"isnt it ironic, how we blame destiny when things go wrong, yet wen things are going right it's put down to hard work, luck is made by us, as is destiny, fortune favours the brave, and faith moves mountains yet doubt can create them"

[jazmine_0313]

"isnt it ironic, how we blame destiny when things go wrong, yet wen things are going right it's put down to hard work, luck is made by us, as is destiny, fortune favours the brave, and faith moves mountains yet doubt can create them"
are u an english major or something? how did you get into poetry?

[Arshy]

are u an english major or something? how did you get into poetry?

nah im no english major maan
i dnt even do much poetry i just write what i think....

[jazmine_0313]

nah im no english major maan
i dnt even do much poetry i just write what i think....
Boy...your still on? I pm'd you when i was at work ...

[Arshy]

Boy...your still on? I pm'd you when i was at work ...

well funnily i managed to have a 4 hour break coz i just got in ...i went out for a bit.....

but yeh im back on for a lil while....