My friend messed up too many times..

[SillyKitty]

with her bf..

and he left her..

and after hearing what she did.. me and my other friends told him and her they should be just friends like before..

:o
But ya we kinda feelin guilty about that.. but honestly we didnt know.. that
she was being that stupid cuz she felt helpless, she didnt know how to tell him she loves him :(

So i told her that.. they should be just friends like they all used to.. and she showed me a letter.. that totally changed my mind.. and i seriusly feel soo bad for her.. :( and now we dont know how to give him that letter.. cuz we dont want the guys best friend to see it.. cuz he doesnt like our friend.. he is the one who told him to chose either HIM or my friend..

In that letter..
that she loved him for 3 years.. and why she was bien so stupid, and wierd..


So ya'll what u all think?

I dont know what i should do cuz he is my friend too..
she spoke tohim last night.. and he said "you will find someone who likes u for you"

lol.. its just messed up..

[Unconditional99]

with her bf..

and he left her..

and after hearing what she did.. me and my other friends told him and her they should be just friends like before..

:o
But ya we kinda feelin guilty about that.. but honestly we didnt know.. that
she was being that stupid cuz she felt helpless, she didnt know how to tell him she loves him :(

So i told her that.. they should be just friends like they all used to.. and she showed me a letter.. that totally changed my mind.. and i seriusly feel soo bad for her.. :( and now we dont know how to give him that letter.. cuz we dont want the guys best friend to see it.. cuz he doesnt like our friend.. he is the one who told him to chose either HIM or my friend..

In that letter..
that she loved him for 3 years.. and why she was bien so stupid, and wierd..


So ya'll what u all think?

I dont know what i should do cuz he is my friend too..
she spoke tohim last night.. and he said "you will find someone who likes u for you"

lol.. its just messed up..
woah infomation overload! thats well messed up! Well 1st of all I think your friends boyfriends "friend" is being a prick! Wtf!? You dont make somebody chose over 2 people that mean so much to them! But you never mentioned about how this guy feels about you friend? Judging by what he said over the phone I dont think he wants 2 be with her. :neutral: So I think she should just move on. I know that it is way easier said then done, but i reckon it's for the best.
But if he could be just sayin that because he is in denial of his feelings, like he is confused and doesnt know what to do himself! So you need to find out how he feels.
Let me know what happens!
Hope I helped!

[SillyKitty]

Hahah ya.. i know he is.. a prick..
like he asked her 3 years ago.. and she rejected.. and now he is after me.. :mad:
and tellin her.. "if u fix me up with her(me) then i will fix your relatiosnhip" lol
but i donno if he is serious :sarb:


But ya thanks a Lot hun..

i dono if he is in denial :neutral: thats just confusing.. really..
donno how to find out.. i tried talkin to him.. and he said, tht he is just confused and donno wha todo.. like a week before breakin up with her..

and now he is saying.. that he doesnt want to date till he finds the right girl, and it would be long lasting..

[hurryputher]

What the fuck are you on about, Dangerous Dave?

[:CanDy LuSciOus:]

with her bf..

and he left her..

and after hearing what she did.. me and my other friends told him and her they should be just friends like before..

:o
But ya we kinda feelin guilty about that.. but honestly we didnt know.. that
she was being that stupid cuz she felt helpless, she didnt know how to tell him she loves him :(

So i told her that.. they should be just friends like they all used to.. and she showed me a letter.. that totally changed my mind.. and i seriusly feel soo bad for her.. :( and now we dont know how to give him that letter.. cuz we dont want the guys best friend to see it.. cuz he doesnt like our friend.. he is the one who told him to chose either HIM or my friend..

In that letter..
that she loved him for 3 years.. and why she was bien so stupid, and wierd..


So ya'll what u all think?

I dont know what i should do cuz he is my friend too..
she spoke tohim last night.. and he said "you will find someone who likes u for you"

lol.. its just messed up..

firstly the guys friend is a luloo yah :neutral: why is he getting invloved in their relationship tell him to go suck his left nut... :rolleyes: so basically it seems like this guy doesnt wanna be with her at this moment in time..and yeah she loves him loads so its gonna hurt.. i feel for her :( but she deserves someone whos gonna love her as much as she loves them..shes gotta move on no matter how much its gona take..u gotta be supportive and tell her that but just make sure you're there for her :D i hope everything goes well ..

[(sic)]

friends shouldnt get in the way of a couple full stop

[:CanDy LuSciOus:]

friends shouldnt get in the way of a couple full stop
i agree ^ :sarb:

[suhailio]

with her bf..

and he left her..

and after hearing what she did.. me and my other friends told him and her they should be just friends like before..

:o
But ya we kinda feelin guilty about that.. but honestly we didnt know.. that
she was being that stupid cuz she felt helpless, she didnt know how to tell him she loves him :(

So i told her that.. they should be just friends like they all used to.. and she showed me a letter.. that totally changed my mind.. and i seriusly feel soo bad for her.. :( and now we dont know how to give him that letter.. cuz we dont want the guys best friend to see it.. cuz he doesnt like our friend.. he is the one who told him to chose either HIM or my friend..

In that letter..
that she loved him for 3 years.. and why she was bien so stupid, and wierd..


So ya'll what u all think?

I dont know what i should do cuz he is my friend too..
she spoke tohim last night.. and he said "you will find someone who likes u for you"

lol.. its just messed up..

inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raajeoon :mad:

[Unconditional99]

Hahah ya.. i know he is.. a prick..
like he asked her 3 years ago.. and she rejected.. and now he is after me.. :mad:
and tellin her.. "if u fix me up with her(me) then i will fix your relatiosnhip" lol
but i donno if he is serious :sarb:


But ya thanks a Lot hun..

i dono if he is in denial :neutral: thats just confusing.. really..
donno how to find out.. i tried talkin to him.. and he said, tht he is just confused and donno wha todo.. like a week before breakin up with her..

and now he is saying.. that he doesnt want to date till he finds the right girl, and it would be long lasting..
OMG!
what a jerk!

[SillyKitty]

firstly the guys friend is a luloo yah :neutral: why is he getting invloved in their relationship tell him to go suck his left nut... :rolleyes: so basically it seems like this guy doesnt wanna be with her at this moment in time..and yeah she loves him loads so its gonna hurt.. i feel for her :( but she deserves someone whos gonna love her as much as she loves them..shes gotta move on no matter how much its gona take..u gotta be supportive and tell her that but just make sure you're there for her :D i hope everything goes well ..
:D thanks
ya i am trying.. but u know i feel really guilty for tellin him that "i also think u should be friends" when he said he doest know what to do..

:(

I feel like its my fault ..

So i really wanna help :( but donno howw..

hmm.. well, he just got out of a 2 year old relationship a girl he really loved... she broke his heart..
so he was like its gonna take a LOT for me to fall for any one right now..

but ya..
i really want them together.. but donno how.. should she write him a letter? cuz i donno if he knows about her feelings for him.. :sarb:

[SillyKitty]

friends shouldnt get in the way of a couple full stop

true but the thing is.. that friend is his JAAN lol..

[:CanDy LuSciOus:]

:D thanks
ya i am trying.. but u know i feel really guilty for tellin him that "i also think u should be friends" when he said he doest know what to do..

:(

I feel like its my fault ..

So i really wanna help :( but donno howw..

hmm.. well, he just got out of a 2 year old relationship a girl he really loved... she broke his heart..
so he was like its gonna take a LOT for me to fall for any one right now..

but ya..
i really want them together.. but donno how.. should she write him a letter? cuz i donno if he knows about her feelings for him.. :sarb:

talk to him and tell him that what u said before abt them being friends u didnt mean..cos u found out other stuff..urm tell him how much she digs him i mean if he was heartbroken he should know wht it feels like right and maybe he will give her a chance..either way hun u gotta talk to them both :bhapi:

[SillyKitty]

talk to him and tell him that what u said before abt them being friends u didnt mean..cos u found out other stuff..urm tell him how much she digs him i mean if he was heartbroken he should know wht it feels like right and maybe he will give her a chance..either way hun u gotta talk to them both :bhapi:


AHh i donno
if that will work.. because, they broke up before, cuz she was like.. why dont you find some other girl? ( ya i know she is wierd)
and it was me who told him to give her another chance.. so i feel like i have lost that chance to tell him again..

but do you think if she gives the letter to him ( the letter she showed me) will do any good? :sarb: ..

[SillyKitty]

inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raajeoon :mad: :eek: kya hua ji? can u give me some inputs?

should she give him that letter that she showed me? or something else?
:sarb:

[:CanDy LuSciOus:]

AHh i donno
if that will work.. because, they broke up before, cuz she was like.. why dont you find some other girl? ( ya i know she is wierd)
and it was me who told him to give her another chance.. so i feel like i have lost that chance to tell him again..

but do you think if she gives the letter to him ( the letter she showed me) will do any good? :sarb: ..
yeah i think he should see the letter..maybe that way he will realise how much she does actually love him..if he takes her back then thats great but if not atleast she knows that he doesnt feel the same way so its time to move on..but if u dont give the letter she not gonna know how he feels and she'll keep thinking abt him etc. so yah its better if she knows the truth and him also..do i make sense? :neutral:

[xiahadix]

tell her to give it up... its not gonna happen... and who writes LETTERS? how about actually havin a face to face conversation.... thats usually how i handle problems in a relationship... this way u can see the other persons reaction to whatever ur saying... writing a letter is like some 1960's type ish.... smh ... and dudes friend who said he has to choose him or her... thats some seriously homo sh!t .... maybe they got somethin goin on .. on the DL