one thing i learned about men.....helpful advice

[SexyTemptress]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.

discuss.

[Leon 007]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.

discuss.
anything else you wanna add on to the list

[SexyTemptress]

^ hmmm...that will do for now

[ladoo ram]

well u cant compare all men on the same scale coz most men do treat their women like ho but there r few who treat em like a queen, what good is man who cant keep her woman happy, so if the woman aint happy how can the man be happy. Life is a ping pong table n ur the ball so sometimes ur either on this side or the other

[Fallen-Angel]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.

discuss.

i just avoid those guys, even if i stay single :neutral:

[Adnan786]

theres exceptions to every rule, i.e not all guys are the same, people have different agenda's, and maybe are good deceptors :dunno:

[Robiul]

Hmmm, ok

[roh@n]

gyal all i can say is dat well...............its de way u pick dem.

same wit gurls man do de same . its all 50/50

[SIXPAK GQ]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.

discuss.

i agree.......but nice guys finish last and in ur case, u snatch that nice guy who did finish last.....

[selina_786]

Can someone elaborate on the bad guys and not come out with the same bullshit that not all guyz are the same.. i think we all know that... the focus here is on the more experienced men who think they are better...:doh:

[SIXPAK GQ]

Can someone elaborate on the bad guys and not come out with the same bullshit that not all guyz are the same.. i think we all know that... the focus here is on the more experienced men who think they are better...:doh:
there has been countless threads on this topic...u might want to do some research, could take a while though.....

[selina_786]

there has been countless threads on this topic...u might want to do some research, could take a while though.....

Lol i kno... i ment for the help she needs.... im ok thanx...

[j_a_l]

Not every apple on a tree is the same. Meaning not every guy is the same. Just like all girls aren't same either. Many girls are sweet and caring while others are stuck up, have attitude problems and like create drama.

[SIXPAK GQ]

Lol i kno... i ment for the help she needs.... im ok thanx...


tempress has quite an experience and knows what she is talking about. i dont think she needs any help

[blackecho]

Like some1 who said above you cant judge all guys with the same rules. there are more experienced guys out there who wanted to know what is out there. but they might be bored of the numerous girls and want to settle down... there is also the opposite side of the spectrum where guys just use girls as kleenex and move on... this also implies to girls but u just dont hear about them as much....

[Shashanna]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.


Your absolutely right, you know :neutral:

[Xiolin]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.

discuss.

Too long to read and don't got the time.
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[musicchic33]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.
discuss.

idk about that..maybe it's troo..but it sounds like settling :think:

[{RaiN}]

i had no idea u felt dat way
aw well
u just came outta bad relationship

[Notorious_Stud]

Well what can i say, im nearly 17, and a im a Virgin (and i plan to stay one till im married), the first girl i ever dated and kissed was 2 weeks ago, and im still dating her! i havent even thought about going out with her for any of the wrong reasons, because thats just wrong, i started going out with her because she was a nice person, had a nice personality, and we just clicked! So Not all guys DATE or USE gals for the wrong reasons! Its just the ones who have no respect for gals at all! Treat a girl like a queen!!! so shes happy and not like a bitch for ure own plesure!!!

[impactcrew]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.

discuss.

what about bedroom skills does that feature? What if the guy is boring in bed? do u stick to him or dump him then?

[miss_kuti_kamini]

but u can avoid 'that type ' of man if ure sensible,,,

the type of girl you are reflects the type of guy you attract..usually

[Notorious_Stud]

but u can avoid 'that type ' of man if ure sensible,,,

the type of girl you are reflects the type of guy you attract..usually

true, watch what u catch, many guys fly like a butterfly but sting like a bee, so pretty much, like she said, if ure sensible dont go for the guy that seems like a player! go for the quiet one! and most of all, dont go into temptaion of sex! many guys just use gals for that !
so it depends on teh type of person u r and how strong u can b!

[Notorious_Stud]

lolz, look at me, being all mature lmao, jeeze this stuff for older people, lolz im outtt, have funn!! lolz :dance3:

[ShivaChrist]

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.


You're 100% right but that never seems to go that way. :)

[OneSignataNach]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.

discuss.

The guys you're talking about are jerks. They'd be jerks even if they were boring and inexperienced - they've been jerks since they were in diapers.

True - Some guys that have had too many relationships, resulting in "too much" experience (not always a turn off to girls I've heard) are just narcissistic. They can't help but look out for themselves. Then again, the same guys wouldn't be relationship material even if they had never touched a girl in their life.

There are few things that need to click for two people to have a good relationship together - you'll notice that self-centered people will have a hard time finding a relationship because of this:

1. They need to be attracted to each other.
2. They both need to be in the phase of their life where they are "looking".
3. They both need to be in the phase of their life where they are serious about settling down.
4. They need to respect one another.
5. They need to enjoy the time they spend together - not just sexually, but mentally (grow from eachothers worldly knowledge as your brought up earlier)

I was experienced with a lot of relationships when I met my girl. The problem was that the girls I was with were not ready to settle. If my wifey took my experience at face value, she'd probably not go for me. Now we've been together for over 5 years and got married when i graduated college.

The reason I say all this is so you don't settle for sub-par. Maybe you've had some bad experiences - but that makes YOU the experienced one now - and that's not a bad thing, right? So, though experience can often times build somebody's ego, it can quite often result in maturity and wisdom.

Good luck - find a guy that makes you happy from the get-go.

-Nach

[SexyTemptress]

The guys you're talking about are jerks. They'd be jerks even if they were boring and inexperienced - they've been jerks since they were in diapers.

True - Some guys that have had too many relationships, resulting in "too much" experience (not always a turn off to girls I've heard) are just narcissistic. They can't help but look out for themselves. Then again, the same guys wouldn't be relationship material even if they had never touched a girl in their life.

There are few things that need to click for two people to have a good relationship together - you'll notice that self-centered people will have a hard time finding a relationship because of this:

1. They need to be attracted to each other.
2. They both need to be in the phase of their life where they are "looking".
3. They both need to be in the phase of their life where they are serious about settling down.
4. They need to respect one another.
5. They need to enjoy the time they spend together - not just sexually, but mentally (grow from eachothers worldly knowledge as your brought up earlier)

I was experienced with a lot of relationships when I met my girl. The problem was that the girls I was with were not ready to settle. If my wifey took my experience at face value, she'd probably not go for me. Now we've been together for over 5 years and got married when i graduated college.

The reason I say all this is so you don't settle for sub-par. Maybe you've had some bad experiences - but that makes YOU the experienced one now - and that's not a bad thing, right? So, though experience can often times build somebody's ego, it can quite often result in maturity and wisdom.

Good luck - find a guy that makes you happy from the get-go.

-Nach

wow u brought up some good points.

[zuiwaziri]

I am 20 yrs old and only had one gf.
She was the love of my life n we only jus broke up after a 2 yr relationship.
We were ready to settle and both of us wanted marriage.
The only problem were my parents who told me i was too young and NOT experienced enough.
They didnt want me to settle on the first girl i met and also told me tht i was still a kid and marriage wud be atleast 3 yrs away.
This ended up meaning my gf thinking tht my parents didnt like her and after all the argueing and fighting between me, and my dad, and consequently me and her famly, we ended up breaking up.
She decided tht i wasnt the right guy for her and broke my heart.
She claims tht my parents disrespected her and tht is wht she believes and therefore doesnt even want to marry into my famly anymore.

So being "unexperienced" and being a "nice" guy definately worked against me.

[sWeEtnDsOuR]

i'm in my early 20's and after all these years there is one thing i've learned about men. men that are too experienced and have had too many relationships are not worth it. they will always think they can get better, and they will always think they know more about the world and life experiences than you do. a lot of them treat a lady like a ho and a ho like a lady. they dont have respect for a girl who wants to wait until marriage & they try to treat respectable women badly and bring them down to their level to make themselves feel good.

best thing to do is go for a simple somewhat "boring" guy whose got a stable job, education, etc. their easier to keep, and dont cause that much trouble. sure they might seem boring in the beginning, but they will grow on you.

discuss.


dun't agree. ma baby has been in a LOTTA relationships in da past buh he treats me like a **QUEEN** nd we've been 2gether 4 a while..i kno hez beein true nd im happy...all guys come around EVENTUALLY...

[roh@n]

well we sorry but..... hav u meet all men in dis world or should i say all desi men to make such a statement??/? i mean i see the most sweetest gurls out there going out wit a guy dat is not gud for dem. tell me y is dis??

most of gurls go out wit de guy who is rich or hav parents dat hav money, or de guy is really gud looking.

u wont c a guy like , who is not rich hav a gud job going to skool or he is really a sweet guy finding a gurl real soon. becuz dey hav no time. so wat r de chances??



im 18 and never had a gf yess i know its sad i guess.......

oh well

[<3 butterfly <3]

true, watch what u catch, many guys fly like a butterfly but sting like a bee, so pretty much, like she said, if ure sensible dont go for the guy that seems like a player! go for the quiet one! and most of all, dont go into temptaion of sex! many guys just use gals for that !
so it depends on teh type of person u r and how strong u can b!
quiet ones are the worst ones.

[Aroosa]

(Unfortunatly) I have to agree

[SIXPAK GQ]

well we sorry but..... hav u meet all men in dis world or should i say all desi men to make such a statement??/? i mean i see the most sweetest gurls out there going out wit a guy dat is not gud for dem. tell me y is dis??

most of gurls go out wit de guy who is rich or hav parents dat hav money, or de guy is really gud looking.

u wont c a guy like , who is not rich hav a gud job going to skool or he is really a sweet guy finding a gurl real soon. becuz dey hav no time. so wat r de chances??



im 18 and never had a gf yess i know its sad i guess.......

oh well

ok i did not have a g/f till i was 22.....u are very young..so u should not worry about having a girl anyways.........the statements u made above are very true unfortunately.........


i use to be poor but now i am a baller.....i worked for it...but i never let any girl use me for money or anything materialistic b/c i control my own destiny now and have the pick of the crops...