question for everyone

[aximx50]

If you had a one night stand will you mention it to your boyfriend/girlfriend if it is bothering you or is it better left unsaid?

[ohasanzoladiiio]

That is the question to end all questions... it's a hard decision... if you care about them you don't wanna hurt them but you also don't wanna keep somethin from them... I think it's like a go with your gut kinda thing...

[TigerLily]

If you had a one night stand will you mention it to your boyfriend/girlfriend about it if it is bothering you or is it better left unsaid?

do you mean you did it while you were dating someone else?

[aximx50]

do you mean you did it while you were dating someone else?

yea

[TigerLily]

I would probably never do that, but if I did I think I would tell my bf bc I would want him to tell me if he did that. I hate lies in a relationship.

[aximx50]

I would probably never do that, but if I did I think I would tell my bf bc I would want him to tell me if he did that. I hate lies in a relationship.

- don't you think mentioning that to your partner will cause more harm than good. isn't it more or less digging a deep grave so to speak?

[TigerLily]

- don't you think mentioning that to your partner will cause more harm than good. isn't it more or less digging a deep grave so to speak?

I dont know, if it ever came out later in the relationship, that would be really really bad. Personally, I am all about being honest, but I guess it can also depend on how serious the relationship is.

[*spoilt_brat*]

wat while wiv ur bf/gf?..or did but then u got a bf!??..lol nways yer it is gd to tell the truth but they cod always seem to get jelouse...talkin from experiance....*coughs* :rolleyes:

[Emerald99]

Yeah, let them take the hit, they probably have skeletons in their closet too. And if not, whatever.