I Know This Relates 2 Sex...

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

BUT JUST ANSWER ME PLS :D
IS SEX IMPORTANT WHEN IT COMES 2 A RELATIONSHIP?IF UR BOY/GF WAS SOOOOO DAMN OBSESSED WITH SEX WAT WOULD U DO?

DOESN'T IT MAKE U FEEL LIKE HE/SHE IS JUST WITH U FOR SEX? :no:

[longjohnsilver]

sex is good, making a sex is not so good, I don't do a sex

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

sex is good, making a sex is not so good, I don't do a sex
:rofl:

[Emerald99]

if a girlfriend is obsessed with sex, we DO IT :rofl: But I guess that's like asking someone that loves chocolate, if they would eat free chocolate, haha

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

if a girlfriend is obsessed with sex, we DO IT :rofl: But I guess that's like asking someone that loves chocolate, if they would eat free chocolate, haha

I GUESS ITS DIFF WIT DA GUY
BUT IF UR A GIRL N UR BOY IS CRAZY BOUT SEX THEN WAT? N SHE DOESN'T JUST WANT SEX?

[desi_cynide]

I GUESS ITS DIFF WIT DA GUY
BUT IF UR A GIRL N UR BOY IS CRAZY BOUT SEX THEN WAT? N SHE DOESN'T JUST WANT SEX?

GET THE bf CHECKED

MAY B hez A SEX ADDICT :rofl:

[fr00ti]

most of the time..yes..it feels that way... :neutral:

[sick_o]

dun forget the protection

[americanmohit]

sex is considered to be an important part of love...real joy of sex comes from true love too....also you will have as much sex as you love your partner deeply... :D

[psychodude]

imma kinda in a realtionship liek that my girl is a lil over obsessed but its good as long as she doesnt always jsut wantit

[~desi*baby~]

If my significant other didnt respect the fact that im abstinent... then id dump them.. and i have done that b4

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

GET THE bf CHECKED

MAY B hez A SEX ADDICT :rofl:
:p yes he is

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

If my significant other didnt respect the fact that im abstinent... then id dump them.. and i have done that b4

ya tried dumpign him but doesnt work

[TheSkyIsBlue]

sex at least 3 times a week is really healthy for u and your body. it helps u live longer and keeps u really healthy. it reduces your stress so ya u shud take advantage if u have a bf/gf cuz u dont want 2 go around fucking different guys/girls cuz u dont kno who has STDs :neutral:

[pnp366]

if a girlfriend is obsessed with sex, we DO IT :rofl: But I guess that's like asking someone that loves chocolate, if they would eat free chocolate, haha


um....if you eat chocolate everyday, 3x a day, and drink chocolate milk too, you might not love chocolate as much anymore.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

sex at least 3 times a week is really healthy for u and your body. it helps u live longer and keeps u really healthy. it reduces your stress so ya u shud take advantage if u have a bf/gf cuz u dont want 2 go around fucking different guys/girls cuz u dont kno who has STDs :neutral:
:rofl:

[Hydro786]

BUT JUST ANSWER ME PLS :D
IS SEX IMPORTANT WHEN IT COMES 2 A RELATIONSHIP?IF UR BOY/GF WAS SOOOOO DAMN OBSESSED WITH SEX WAT WOULD U DO?

DOESN'T IT MAKE U FEEL LIKE HE/SHE IS JUST WITH U FOR SEX? :no:
well when me and you were together for that one night....all YOU wanted was sex

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

um....if you eat chocolate everyday, 3x a day, and drink chocolate milk too, you might not love chocolate as much anymore.
:roflbow: choco .vs. sex :p

[pnp366]

:roflbow: choco .vs. sex :p


the point is...its the same with anything...

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

well when me and you were together for that one night....all YOU wanted was sex
noooooo I wanted more then dat :p remember?

[Hydro786]

noooooo I wanted more then dat :p remember?
true, but thats cuz you told me it tasted nice :p

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

the point is...its the same with anything...
how so? I don't get it :scratch:

[desi_cynide]

:p yes he is

SEND HIM TO SEX REHAB PLACE

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

true, but thats cuz you told me it tasted nice :p

remember i :Puke: :Puke: :Puke:

[pnp366]

too much of anything is not a good thing.... ;)

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

SEND HIM TO SEX REHAB PLACE
im sending him 2 u :p

[poojasxy]

handjobs.


they have gotten me out of a lot of sticky situations like getting rides home from work and my bf wanting "it" when i have a headache.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

too much of anything is not a good thing.... ;)


ok ok..ya true true

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

:p handjobs.


they have gotten me out of a lot of sticky situations like getting rides home from work and my bf wanting "it" when i have a headache.
:p :p grossssssss

[danemane]

BUT JUST ANSWER ME PLS :D
IS SEX IMPORTANT WHEN IT COMES 2 A RELATIONSHIP?IF UR BOY/GF WAS SOOOOO DAMN OBSESSED WITH SEX WAT WOULD U DO?

DOESN'T IT MAKE U FEEL LIKE HE/SHE IS JUST WITH U FOR SEX? :no:
Well if he is caring, loves you, is always there for you, does not let you fall then he is a good man. So I would suggest that if he is obssessed with sex then why not go ahead and please him once in a while if that makes him happy.

If my girl friend was caring, loving and was obssesed with sex then I would not mind doing things that make her happy.

[Hydro786]

remember i :Puke: :Puke: :Puke:
thats only cuz my large count of semen made you gag

[danemane]

handjobs.


they have gotten me out of a lot of sticky situations like getting rides home from work and my bf wanting "it" when i have a headache.
That works fine.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Well if he is caring, loves you, is always there for you, does not let you fall then he is a good man. So I would suggest that if he is obssessed with sex then why not go ahead and please him once in a while if that makes him happy.

If my girl friend was caring, loving and was obssesed with sex then I would not mind doing things that make her happy.
very true..ur absolutely rite...thankz

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

thats only cuz my large count of semen made you gag


but u only :jerkit: remember? n ur semen was like da size of sachins lulli

[TheSkyIsBlue]

handjobs.


they have gotten me out of a lot of sticky situations like getting rides home from work and my bf wanting "it" when i have a headache.

ic. dont forgets blowjobs :p

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

ic. dont forgets blowjobs :p
wats da diff between handjobs n blowjobs? :scratch:

[danemane]

wats da diff between handjobs n blowjobs? :scratch:
Dont tell us you dont know? :eek:

[desi_cynide]

im sending him 2 u :p

I CLEARLY WROTE TO SEND HIM TO
sex rehab place

IF HE COMEZ HERE HE GONA TURN MY OFFICE PPZ CRAZY

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Dont tell us you dont know? :eek:
I know :p just wanted him to explain :p

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

I CLEARLY WROTE TO SEND HIM TO
sex rehab place

IF HE COMEZ HERE HE GONA TURN MY OFFICE PPZ CRAZY
u mean da girls crazy

[danemane]

I know :p just wanted him to explain :p
Well then handjobs are done with your hands while your mouth is used to give blowjobs. Happy? :p

[TheSkyIsBlue]

wats da diff between handjobs n blowjobs? :scratch:

dont be silly. u kno u have given handjobs n blowjobs before :neutral:

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Well then handjobs are done with your hands while your mouth is used to give blowjobs. Happy?

show me :p don't get it still

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

dont be silly. u kno u have given handjobs n blowjobs before :neutral:
No, I have not :angel:
im sure u have tossed a few salads

[bangaliplayar]

heyy dimple......umm it shouldn't matter...if the other person loved u then they would understand!

[danemane]

show me :p don't get it still
Hahahah you are funny, Well we ned a girl to ddo it and right now I'm all alone. I can't use my hands but will prefer if some one else does it. Do you want to? :dance3:

[cash$]

hand jobs are good untill u sprain ur wrist

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

:dancen: Hahahah you are funny, Well we ned a girl to ddo it and right now I'm all alone. I can't use my hands but will prefer if some one else does it. Do you want to? :dance3:

show me show me :dancen:
all alone aww poor u :p
yes I want 2 ;)

[danemane]

No, I have not :angel:
im sure u have tossed a few salads
And I think I'm not that ugly. I'm a good looking guy. So do you mind? :dance3:

[TheSkyIsBlue]

No, I have not :angel:
im sure u have tossed a few salads

nah. i've never gone back in there :ugh:

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

heyy dimple......umm it shouldn't matter...if the other person loved u then they would understand!


ummm right...but he doesn't understand that...i see this after saying no :(

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

hand jobs are good untill u sprain ur wrist
:p :p well a foot would work after spraining ur wrist or mouth

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

nah. i've never gone back in there :ugh:
good...don't :Puke:

[danemane]

:dancen:

show me show me :dancen:
all alone aww poor u :p
yes I want 2 ;)
Oh and you are not far away from wherre I live. San Jose yes. But there is a problem. I' not not in USA right now. Damn :(

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Oh and you are not far away from wherre I live. San Jose yes. But there is a problem. I' not not in USA right now. Damn :(
lol

where u at?
anyhoo I was jk..im not gonna sit here n ask for hand/blowjobs

[danemane]

BUT JUST ANSWER ME PLS :D
IS SEX IMPORTANT WHEN IT COMES 2 A RELATIONSHIP?IF UR BOY/GF WAS SOOOOO DAMN OBSESSED WITH SEX WAT WOULD U DO?

DOESN'T IT MAKE U FEEL LIKE HE/SHE IS JUST WITH U FOR SEX? :no:
Ok seriously so you have a boy freind who is obssessed with sex? IS he caring and loving or is he just there for sex?

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Ok seriously so you have a boy freind who is obssessed with sex? IS he caring and loving or is he just there for sex?

hes everything....very caring but I don't like da fact hes always after sex :mad:

[danemane]

lol

where u at?
anyhoo I was jk..im not gonna sit here n ask for hand/blowjobs
I live in SF but right now I'm in Europe.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

I live in SF but right now I'm in Europe.

oh cool..like 45 min away from me
y r u in europe rite now?

[danemane]

hes everything....very caring but I don't like da fact hes always after sex :mad:
But if he is caring, loving, romantic, makes sure you arre alright then what is wrong with it? Why dont you like the fact that he wants sex? You are pretty and obviously he would want some thing.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

But if he is caring, loving, romantic, makes sure you arre alright then what is wrong with it? Why dont you like the fact that he wants sex? You are pretty and obviously he would want some thing.


SOMETIMES I JUST WANT 2 SIT N RELAX U KNOW...HE WANTS IT LIKE AGAIN N AGAIN..I HATE IT...HIS DICK MIGHT NOT HURT BUT MINE STARTS 2 HURT

[danemane]

oh cool..like 45 min away from me
y r u in europe rite now?
My Dad has sent me down here. He runs a trading company and we supply USA, Canadian, South American agro commodities to many countries in Africa. But we can not catch up sitting in USA because of time issues. So I have to be in Europe sincce the time zoe is almost the same.

[Mr.Scorpion]

BUT JUST ANSWER ME PLS :D
IS SEX IMPORTANT WHEN IT COMES 2 A RELATIONSHIP?IF UR BOY/GF WAS SOOOOO DAMN OBSESSED WITH SEX WAT WOULD U DO?

DOESN'T IT MAKE U FEEL LIKE HE/SHE IS JUST WITH U FOR SEX? :no:

Sex is obsession, the less you get, the more you want, the more you get, the more you want to explore and the more you have explored, the more there is left to. In over 80% of instances, its the boys who demand and the girl who submit themselves to it, from smooching and feeling up to all the explorations of new horizons, so its imperative for a girl to feel that he is with her for one purpose, as she is the one to surrender to his demands and obsessions, willingly or not. At times she may even feel intimidated which again will cause her to take a step back and re-think the analogy of the relationship, but you know what - when a man loves a woman, its different! You will willingly give it all to him whence he makes you feel deep in your bones that he loves you and there is no one above you, when he cant live without you, you may even go to Victoria's Secret shopping 3 times a week for him, just so that he is ready for some sexual healing every night. Its all about how he makes you feel deep down, not what he talks about. By the way - if a girl over did it with me, she would become repulsive to me!

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

My Dad has sent me down here. He runs a trading company and we supply USA, Canadian, South American agro commodities to many countries in Africa. But we can not catch up sitting in USA because of time issues. So I have to be in Europe sincce the time zoe is almost the same.
WHEN R U COMIGN BACK?

[Mr.Scorpion]

SOMETIMES I JUST WANT 2 SIT N RELAX U KNOW...HE WANTS IT LIKE AGAIN N AGAIN..I HATE IT...HIS DICK MIGHT NOT HURT BUT MINE STARTS 2 HURT

HAHAHHAHAHHA!!!!!!!!! RE-READ THAT SENTENCE! :p

[danemane]

SOMETIMES I JUST WANT 2 SIT N RELAX U KNOW...HE WANTS IT LIKE AGAIN N AGAIN..I HATE IT...HIS DICK MIGHT NOT HURT BUT MINE STARTS 2 HURT
Well then thats a bit of a problem. The guy is obssesed with it really bad. If you dont give him what he wants, he might resort to other women because he wants it bad. Kind of complicated.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Sex is obsession, the less you get, the more you want, the more you get, the more you want to explore and the more you have explored, the more there is left to. In over 80% of instances, its the boys who demand and the girl who submit themselves to it, from smooching and feeling up to all the explorations of new horizons, so its imperative for a girl to feel that he is with her for one purpose, as she is the one to surrender to his demands and obsessions, willingly or not. At times she may even feel intimidated which again will cause her to take a step back and re-think the analogy of the relationship, but you know what - when a man loves a woman, its different! You will willingly give it all to him whence he makes you feel deep in your bones that he loves you and there is no one above you, when he cant live without you, you may even go to Victoria's Secret shopping 3 times a week for him, just so that he is ready for some sexual healing every night. Its all about how he makes you feel deep down, not what he talks about. By the way - if a girl over did it with me, she would become repulsive to me!



WOW! very well said

[danemane]

WHEN R U COMIGN BACK?
I'm coming back in December. I really want it to be early though because its really hot here in Malta.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Well then thats a bit of a problem. The guy is obssesed with it really bad. If you dont give him what he wants, he might resort to other women because he wants it bad. Kind of complicated.
I know he wont resort 2 other women but he gets this sad look n I hate it n just wanna leave him

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

I'm coming back in December. I really want it to be early though because its really hot here in Malta.
wow..december is far away...Malta is in Europe rite? wats da place like?

[danemane]

I know he wont resort 2 other women but he gets this sad look n I hate it n just wanna leave him
Hey, if he is so good then you should reconsider. Dont leave him just because he wants sex.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Hey, if he is so good then you should reconsider. Dont leave him just because he wants sex.
:bigok:

[danemane]

wow..december is far away...Malta is in Europe rite? wats da place like?
Malta is in South of Europe, a couple miles from Sicily. You can go to Italy on a speed boat in 5 hours. Its nice in a way because its a tourist destination and loads of tourists from Germany, UK and othe European countries show up.

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Malta is in South of Europe, a couple miles from Sicily. You can go to Italy on a speed boat in 5 hours. Its nice in a way because its a tourist destination and loads of tourists from Germany, UK and othe European countries show up.


oh wow..I wanna see one day

[danemane]

:bigok:
Thats good but you need to teach him that his sexual behaviour is not so normal and he should try controlling himself.

[gujulicious]

okay well i also made a thread like this a while ago becuase my bf at that time also thought that sex in a relationship is VERY important, but i didn't think so.
anyways although i wasn't too happy with his thinkin, i was gonna give in just to make him happy, but thank the lord i didnt.
all i wanna say is that you gotta stand up for what YOU believe in.
look at him...hes trying to make you do it because HE thinks its good for the relationship, then why dont you also become selfish and think for YOURSELF and tell him that thats not what you want right now.
if he doesn't respect your decision then yes he's only wiht you for sex.
goodluck

[danemane]

oh wow..I wanna see one day
Yeah Why dont you show up with your boy friend? Its would have been differrent if I was the one because then I would have taken you to better places. So sad I 'm not the one. :(

[danemane]

okay well i also made a thread like this a while ago becuase my bf at that time also thought that sex in a relationship is VERY important, but i didn't think so.
anyways although i wasn't too happy with his thinkin, i was gonna give in just to make him happy, but thank the lord i didnt.
all i wanna say is that you gotta stand up for what YOU believe in.
look at him...hes trying to make you do it because HE thinks its good for the relationship, then why dont you also become selfish and think for YOURSELF and tell him that thats not what you want right now.
if he doesn't respect your decision then yes he's only wiht you for sex.
goodluck
Yeah but she is saying that the guy is not therre just for sex. He is caring, loving and everything. Its just that he is in dire need of sex.

It does not mean if a guy is a perfect man for you but wants sex, you leave him. Why dont you give him what he wants every once in a while?

In your case it was ok because the guy was there for sex and only sex perhaps.

[bangaliplayar]

ummm right...but he doesn't understand that...i see this after saying no :(
dame.... :neutral:

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Thats good but you need to teach him that his sexual behaviour is not so normal and he should try controlling himself.
:rofl: i'll try

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Yeah Why dont you show up with your boy friend? Its would have been differrent if I was the one because then I would have taken you to better places. So sad I 'm not the one. :(
lol take me anywhere...ill leave him :p

[danemane]

lol take me anywhere...ill leave him :p
Thats the problem because I dont want you to leave him. I 'm not a hater you see so why should I hurt some dude if he loves his girl.

It would have been different if you never had a boy friend then I would have taken you for a cruise in the carribean. A romantic destination for lovers.

But I cant :(

[gujulicious]

Yeah but she is saying that the guy is not therre just for sex. He is caring, loving and everything. Its just that he is in dire need of sex.

It does not mean if a guy is a perfect man for you but wants sex, you leave him. Why dont you give him what he wants every once in a while?

In your case it was ok because the guy was there for sex and only sex perhaps.

but you know what? a guy will act nice, caring, loving and all that until he gets what he wants...and watch after that he'll change COMPLETELY.

but the thing is that if he truly loves you then he's gonna respect your decision and wait. because sex isnt something you can do just like that. you both have to be 100% willing, and if the girl isnt 100% willing then i dont even know how the guy would like to do that...


i mean do you understand what im saying?

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

Thats the problem because I dont want you to leave him. I 'm not a hater you see so why should I hurt some dude if he loves his girl.

It would have been different if you never had a boy friend then I would have taken you for a cruise in the carribean. A romantic destination for lovers.

But I cant :(
:hand:

[BaByBLuEMiRcHy2]

but you know what? a guy will act nice, caring, loving and all that until he gets what he wants...and watch after that he'll change COMPLETELY.

but the thing is that if he truly loves you then he's gonna respect your decision and wait. because sex isnt something you can do just like that. you both have to be 100% willing, and if the girl isnt 100% willing then i dont even know how the guy would like to do that...


i mean do you understand what im saying?


ya I agree with her

[Arshy]

i done tha whole damn fingering, sucking, i had the handjobs done kinda most shit apart from havin intercourse,

im savin myself for my wifey type of thing but i think sex is over rated...
i mean it "might" be a good feeling but it is mentioned everywhere...

if only so much importance was paid to marriages then we wudnt have so much divorces....

[Arshy]

oh by da way bigup da male V krew lol

[gujulicious]

ya I agree with her

so yeah....def DONT give in until YOU personally think its right to do it.

and if you haven't been brought up that way then your thinkin shouldn't even change.

you need to wait along for the right one....


sometimes you may love the guy SO much that you'd do ANYTHING to keep him happy and have him stay by your side, but honestly if hes only there for one thing then hes gonna leave you after doing it so either way you're gonna be fucked...but in this case the emotinal wounds will be deeper only because you gave away yourself to him both physically AND emotionally...

not fun..

[danemane]

so yeah....def DONT give in until YOU personally think its right to do it.

and if you haven't been brought up that way then your thinkin shouldn't even change.

you need to wait along for the right one....


sometimes you may love the guy SO much that you'd do ANYTHING to keep him happy and have him stay by your side, but honestly if hes only there for one thing then hes gonna leave you after doing it so either way you're gonna be fucked...but in this case the emotinal wounds will be deeper only because you gave away yourself to him both physically AND emotionally...

not fun..
Well lets put it plain and simple. I'm not the kind of man who would think that a woman is a slut if she slept with me before marriage. And yes you are right and you have a point and I agree that some times you can not know if a guy really cares or is a fake who is just there for sex.

But then I dont think if you sleep with him thinking he loves you and all that but he doesn't then that does not make you a slut but makes him a loser for using a girl who loved him.

Again I would add that most men like to have sex before marriage these days. They are not necessarily wierdos but some arre truely sincre.yes you need to watch when you hang with desis.

[haya*]

BUT JUST ANSWER ME PLS :D
IS SEX IMPORTANT WHEN IT COMES 2 A RELATIONSHIP?IF UR BOY/GF WAS SOOOOO DAMN OBSESSED WITH SEX WAT WOULD U DO?

DOESN'T IT MAKE U FEEL LIKE HE/SHE IS JUST WITH U FOR SEX? :no:

den dat guy wont b my bf! bc sex is not everything!

[danemane]

den dat guy wont b my bf! bc sex is not everything!
Yes you are absolutely right but you dont understand the problem here. This man is the perfect man for her as she said. He loves her, her cares for her, he is always there for her, he never lets her cry, he makes sure she is happy, he might also shower her with gifts (atleast I would). The only problem is that he is addicted so cant you girls do some thing to make him happy too?

[haya*]

Yes you are absolutely right but you dont understand the probelm herre. This man is the perfect man for her as she said. He loves herr, her cares for her, he is alwasy therre for her, he never lets her cry, he makes sure she is happy, he might also shower her with gifts (atleast I would). The only problem is that he is addicted so cant you girls do some thing to make him happy too?

if i were her..i wud run away frm him! i knw a lot of guys like him! belve me once dey get sex dey 4get all da pyaar vyaar! belve on me on dis one! ive seen a lot of cases like dese!
let me giv u anotha xample...dis one is very common!
a girl whos very rich n shes da spoiled brat ! she gets nething she wants! so da guy wud go out wit her n etc....but if she eva told him listen lets get married n not take a penny frm my dad! if hes a true lover he wud say yes n if not duh say no!
same ting applies herE! hes a jerk!

[danemane]

if i were her..i wud run away frm him! i knw a lot of guys like him! belve me once dey get sex dey 4get all da pyaar vyaar! belve on me on dis one! ive seen a lot of cases like dese!
let me giv u anotha xample...dis one is very common!
a girl whos very rich n shes da spoiled brat ! she gets nething she wants! so da guy wud go out wit her n etc....but if she eva told him listen lets get married n not take a penny frm my dad! if hes a true lover he wud say yes n if not duh say no!
same ting applies herE! hes a jerk!
OK I can understandd your point well. But again not every one is the same Haya. I dont need any money from my gfs parents because that to be is a shame and I would feel like a loser.

Now its the same in sex, if the girl wants it then its ok but if she doesnt then I can wait. Now I'm sure alot of guys are that way but as I said you can not trust desi guys I agree.

Are you saying that you will never want to have sex or just until you get married and then he can have as much sex as he want? Or are you sayying you never want to let him touch you or only once a month?

[gujulicious]

Well lets put it plain and simple. I'm not the kind of man who would think that a woman is a slut if she slept with me before marriage. And yes you are right and you have a point and I agree that some times you can not know if a guy really cares or is a fake who is just there for sex.

But then I dont think if you sleep with him thinking he loves you and all that but he doesn't then that does not make you a slut but makes him a loser for using a girl who loved him.

Again I would add that most men like to have sex before marriage these days. They are not necessarily wierdos but some arre truely sincre.yes you need to watch when you hang with desis.

okay but you know what?
not ALL guys are like you!
and these days its SOOO hard to tell which guy is being real and which one's being fake, so the safest way is to wait until you're married.
and honestly, the way i think is that eventually you're gonna lose interest in that person....say if you guys had sex - sooner or later it's gonna get old for one of you...and honestly this DOES happen. but if you wait then it's more exciting because you've waited...you've saved yourself until that moment...whcih also proves your love... i mean there isn't any better way to impress your girl than this.

[gujulicious]

Yes you are absolutely right but you dont understand the problem here. This man is the perfect man for her as she said. He loves her, her cares for her, he is always there for her, he never lets her cry, he makes sure she is happy, he might also shower her with gifts (atleast I would). The only problem is that he is addicted so cant you girls do some thing to make him happy too?

wow...that really doesn't sound right.
if a guy says "can't you just do THIS much to make me happy?" i would be soooooooooo PISSED.

because as i said earlier, you both need to be on an agreement to have sex because its not a small thing. sure it might be a little over rated but you dont wanna give away your virginity to a guy who has all along just pretended to love you and nothing more than that.

so all im trying to say is that the safest way to know that hes being real is to wait till marriage.

or atleast until you're engaged.

[selina_786]

[QUOTE=gujulicious]wow...that really doesn't sound right.
if a guy says "can't you just do THIS much to make me happy?" i would be soooooooooo PISSED.

because as i said earlier, you both need to be on an agreement to have sex because its not a small thing. sure it might be a little over rated but you dont wanna give away your virginity to a guy who has all along just pretended to love you and nothing more than that.

so all im trying to say is that the safest way to know that hes being real is to wait till marriage.


Valid point.... if he loves u he'll wait and wont run away from committing 2 u thru marriage

[Space-Cowboy]

I can't love someone until I know them 100%. I won't know them 100% until I make love to them.

[danemane]

okay but you know what?
not ALL guys are like you!
and these days its SOOO hard to tell which guy is being real and which one's being fake, so the safest way is to wait until you're married.
and honestly, the way i think is that eventually you're gonna lose interest in that person....say if you guys had sex - sooner or later it's gonna get old for one of you...and honestly this DOES happen. but if you wait then it's more exciting because you've waited...you've saved yourself until that moment...whcih also proves your love... i mean there isn't any better way to impress your girl than this.
Wow I'm truely impressed and yes most good guys will want a girl like you. Trust me cause I'm feeling that way already. LOL. ;)

I personally would love a girl who want to wait until we get married. Thats some thing I love about a girl. A girl telling me to wait until marriage is a turn on and it also says alot about the girl's character though its does not mean that a girl who does not wait is a slut. You got some really good points and if you want to marry a desi guy then yes you need to maintain high standards.

[danemane]

wow...that really doesn't sound right.
if a guy says "can't you just do THIS much to make me happy?" i would be soooooooooo PISSED.

because as i said earlier, you both need to be on an agreement to have sex because its not a small thing. sure it might be a little over rated but you dont wanna give away your virginity to a guy who has all along just pretended to love you and nothing more than that.

so all im trying to say is that the safest way to know that hes being real is to wait till marriage.

or atleast until you're engaged.
Yes you are right and I respect your decision. I think you need to wait until you are married.

"so all im trying to say is that the safest way to know that hes being real is to wait till marriage"

I liked what you said. Yes, to find out if he truely loves you, you need to ask him to wait.

[haya*]

OK I can understandd your point well. But again not every one is the same Haya. I dont need any money from my gfs parents because that to be is a shame and I would feel like a loser.

Now its the same in sex, if the girl wants it then its ok but if she doesnt then I can wait. Now I'm sure alot of guys are that way but as I said you can not trust desi guys I agree.

Are you saying that you will never want to have sex or just until you get married and then he can have as much sex as he want? Or are you sayying you never want to let him touch you or only once a month?

well first im glad to knw ur trying to undastnd wht im saying! a :bhapi: for dat! hehe
n well if da girl agreed dere wud b noting to argue abt!
n now im not saying dat i wont let my guy "touch" me! i mean obviosly i am his but i am ALL his only afta marriage! so i wud say no sex b4 marriage! self control is a thing pple shud really try to hve!

[haya*]

okay but you know what?
not ALL guys are like you!
and these days its SOOO hard to tell which guy is being real and which one's being fake, so the safest way is to wait until you're married.
and honestly, the way i think is that eventually you're gonna lose interest in that person....say if you guys had sex - sooner or later it's gonna get old for one of you...and honestly this DOES happen. but if you wait then it's more exciting because you've waited...you've saved yourself until that moment...whcih also proves your love... i mean there isn't any better way to impress your girl than this.

wow girl dose words just feel like dey flowed outta my heart!
2 thumbs up for u!

[danemane]

well first im glad to knw ur trying to undastnd wht im saying! a :bhapi: for dat! hehe
n well if da girl agreed dere wud b noting to argue abt!
n now im not saying dat i wont let my guy "touch" me! i mean obviosly i am his but i am ALL his only afta marriage! so i wud say no sex b4 marriage! self control is a thing pple shud really try to hve!
I respect your decision and I think its great. Infact, as I stated before that if you are gonna marry a desi then make him wait to prove his true love for you.

[haya*]

I respect your decision and I think its great. Infact, as I stated before that if you are gonna marry a desi then make him wait to prove his true love for you.
thnx a ton for respecting my desicion...n even though im still pretty young..but ive found mr.ryte...n i tested him all ways! lol
i had told him if hes really srs abt commiting to me his whole life..u knw marriage n etc..ill tell my dad abt him! n he wasnt afraid abt it! i waited for a couple of mnths...told him (more lyk thretened) dat im ABOUT to tell my dad! n da day i did...he was happy! he was dancing like a monkey! lol
ive been going out wit for a while now..n hes not touched me kissed me noting yet..he hasnt even linked arms wit me..cuz i told him im a decent girl n im not doing nething dats outta limits! n if he was one of dose assholish guys he wont hve cared abt wht i said! but he did!
n im greatful to god for finding him!
*sigh*

[danemane]

thnx a ton for respecting my desicion...n even though im still pretty young..but ive found mr.ryte...n i tested him all ways! lol
i had told him if hes really srs abt commiting to me his whole life..u knw marriage n etc..ill tell my dad abt him! n he wasnt afraid abt it! i waited for a couple of mnths...told him (more lyk thretened) dat im ABOUT to tell my dad! n da day i did...he was happy! he was dancing like a monkey! lol
ive been going out wit for a while now..n hes not touched me kissed me noting yet..he hasnt even linked arms wit me..cuz i told him im a decent girl n im not doing nething dats outta limits! n if he was one of dose assholish guys he wont hve cared abt wht i said! but he did!
n im greatful to god for finding him!
*sigh*
Wow, you are making me shed tears. Serisouly not being sarcastic or anything.

But dont you think thats abit too much? Atleast you guys should hold hands and I wouldnt mind kissing either. Is there something wrong in Kissing before marriage?

But then I respect your decision.

[haya*]

Wow, you are making me shed tears. Serisouly not being sarcastic or anything.

But dont you think thats abit too much? Atleast you guys should hold hands and I wouldnt mind kissing either. Is there something wrong in Kissing before marriage?

But then I respect your decision.


lol i made my best friend cry afta i told him all dat
u knw im da tease n torture typa girl!
make him STARVEE!
ahem ahem u knw wht i mean! *blush*

[danemane]

lol i made my best friend cry afta i told him all dat
u knw im da tease n torture typa girl!
make him STARVEE!
ahem ahem u knw wht i mean! *blush*
What? Tease and torture typa girl? So you are dangerous and I was thinking you are decent? Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. LOL I'm just playing.

But hey its not nice to make your man starve. You should give a nice hug and a deep kiss once in a while. Thats enough to make me happy.

[haya*]

What? Tease and torture typa girl? So you are dangerous and I was thinking you are decent? Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. LOL I'm just playing.

But hey its not nice to make your man starve. You should give a nice hug and a deep kiss once in a while. Thats enough to make me happy.

it ink its better to starve u men! u knw its funner! hehe

hey im still a decent girl...but not wit my man! n as i told u my whole "love story" i can trust him!

enwaz i wud giv him more den dat....but i want to make him wait! i hate to wait myslf..but bleve me its funnnn!

[danemane]

it ink its better to starve u men! u knw its funner! hehe

hey im still a decent girl...but not wit my man! n as i told u my whole "love story" i can trust him!

enwaz i wud giv him more den dat....but i want to make him wait! i hate to wait myslf..but bleve me its funnnn!
OK you sound like fun to me.

But please dont starve us to death. A kiss would do it for me. LOL.

Ok I know you are a decent girl but over decency is not so healthy either. LOL.

[haya*]

OK you sound like fun to me.

But please dont starve us to death. A kiss would do it for me. LOL.

Ok I know you are a decent girl but over decency is not so healthy either. LOL.

hahaha u make me crack up! :rofl:

im not gonna make u guys starve to death...dis is how i play my game!
i love to gamble! hehe!
i tink over decency covers up my evil acts! ;)
muhahahaha!

[gujulicious]

Wow I'm truely impressed and yes most good guys will want a girl like you. Trust me cause I'm feeling that way already. LOL. ;)

I personally would love a girl who want to wait until we get married. Thats some thing I love about a girl. A girl telling me to wait until marriage is a turn on and it also says alot about the girl's character though its does not mean that a girl who does not wait is a slut. You got some really good points and if you want to marry a desi guy then yes you need to maintain high standards.

lol...i'm truly flattered :chick:


and thanks to my wonderful boyfriend from whom i learned all this. and im SOOOO glad that he's not like the other guys because we've gone over the whole sex topic and he's by choice willing to wait until marriage. see that way you also know that a guy is serious about you because he's actually committing - which most guys are afraid of. but the ones that come up with the whole "oh whats the difference if we do it now or later " is all b.s…you know they don’t wanna wait because they wanna do iit and leave you…


anyways, good luck amigos!

p.s dont EVer ever EVER EVERRRRRRRRRR give up on your beliefs!

[haya*]

lol...i'm truly flattered :chick:


and thanks to my wonderful boyfriend from whom i learned all this. and im SOOOO glad that he's not like the other guys because we've gone over the whole sex topic and he's by choice willing to wait until marriage. see that way you also know that a guy is serious about you because he's actually committing - which most guys are afraid of. but the ones that come up with the whole "oh whats the difference if we do it now or later " is all b.s…you know they don’t wanna wait because they wanna do iit and leave you…


anyways, good luck amigos!

p.s dont EVer ever EVER EVERRRRRRRRRR give up on your beliefs!

wow dat realy sounds lym my man!
high 5 gurl..i tink we hve found out mr.ryts ;)
n ya i agree wit u...nEVer ever EVER EVERRRRRRRRRR give up on your beliefs

[gujulicious]

wow dat realy sounds lym my man!
high 5 gurl..i tink we hve found out mr.ryts ;)
n ya i agree wit u...nEVer ever EVER EVERRRRRRRRRR give up on your beliefs



oh yay! im so happy for us =)