R u the one?

[spice_of_life]

I mean r u the first one to say those 3 words "I LOVE U" first if u really love someone....or do u just wait and wait till the love grows in other persons heart so that he/she tells u eventually?

[asiancutie24]

I mean r u the first one to say those 3 words "I LOVE U" first if u really love someone....or do u just wait and wait till the love grows in other persons heart so that he/she tells u eventually?

I'm more of the type of person to wait till the love grows in the other person's heart so that he tells me eventually. I guess I don't want to say it first cuz I wouldn't want to have him say it just cuz I did. Some people won't feel the same way as you do. Also if he says it first then I would know he really feels that way about me.

[selina_786]

i kno its sad but i'd wait... i dunno how i'd be able 2 handle it if the person i really love with all my heart(i think), would reject me.....

[CorruptNightfall]

I would wait.... but then again half the time I doubt the guy himself doesnt even understand the bloody meaning of love so saying I LOVE YOU is total bull shit.

[spice_of_life]

seems like there is no girl who wud propose first huh?

[Space-Cowboy]

If you're a guy and you say I LOVE YOU too soon, you will have effectively transferred all the power in the relationship to the girl. As a result, she will have lost interest in you and the relationship will grow stagnant.

[spice_of_life]

If you're a guy and you say I LOVE YOU too soon, you will have effectively transferred all the power in the relationship to the girl. As a result, she will have lost interest in you and the relationship will grow stagnant.
it goes same if a girl tells i love u too early it wud get stagnant anyways and the guy wud run away...lol

[asiancutie24]

it goes same if a girl tells i love u too early it wud get stagnant anyways and the guy wud run away...lol


lol. true. :p

[RacingSoul]

I mean r u the first one to say those 3 words "I LOVE U" first if u really love someone....or do u just wait and wait till the love grows in other persons heart so that he/she tells u eventually?

:-s slow down bro, things really dont get past one night!

[rockerbabe]

well i always say it when i am ready too....
with my current bf he said i love u 2 months before i could...

[RacingSoul]

well i always say it when i am ready too....
with my current bf he said i love u 2 months before i could...

:p
how many times & how many guys u said it to?

[w1ld]

I would wait.... but then again half the time I doubt the guy himself doesnt even understand the bloody meaning of love so saying I LOVE YOU is total bull shit.

very true :D

[*Alina*]

i think id say it first...
but it sorta depends on the circumstances at that point..i dunno

[Sw33tn3zZ]

nah.. if i really like the guy someday maybe i will... but right now my bf was the one 2 say it first.. i got all quiet when he did.. :neutral:

[SweetBabyGyal]

Im a type of person that says i love you when i mean it and not just cuz the other person says it or doesnt and thats how it is for me but i guess when im in love then i'll know for sure if thats how it goes or i'll get to shy and wait till he says it i dont know lolz cant make ma mind up nah...

[addiction01]

i've never told neone that i love em...

[SweetBabyGyal]

i've never told neone that i love em...
i have for all the wrong reasons i realized and ended things which was a pretty horibble thing to do i know but if u feel it then and u dont feel it now wat can u do?

[addiction01]

i have for all the wrong reasons i realized and ended things which was a pretty horibble thing to do i know but if u feel it then and u dont feel it now wat can u do?
yeh i know...c i'm the type who'll tease...but never make it serious...thus i've never told neone i love em...

even if i do feel someting...i just let it pass by...

[SweetBabyGyal]

well i dont let it pass by but now i have learned from ma mistakes and it aint gonna happen again until im sure of something so dead sure that i can put ma life on it lolz

[rockerbabe]

:p
how many times & how many guys u said it to?
lol opps never ment it like tat he is the 1st guy i have said it to

[lonelyman00]

Couldn't wait to tell her first.....but i did it after love first developed deeply in me.....than her......but i think it'd be better to say this kinda words after both grows some kinda relationship and knows each other better.....anywayz who knows nutting gone right for me...hehehe :dance3:

[CorruptNightfall]

very true :D

Thankyou!

[Space-Cowboy]

it goes same if a girl tells i love u too early it wud get stagnant anyways and the guy wud run away...lol


Yeah but it happens more so with guys than girls..... Guys tend to jump the gun too soon with the "I LOVE YOU" and the girl ends up getting freaked out.

Guys if you really do love your woman, the best way for you to show it is to give her "the gift of missing you".....

[DesiByChoice]

Yeah but it happens more so with guys than girls..... Guys tend to jump the gun too soon with the "I LOVE YOU" and the girl ends up getting freaked out.

Guys if you really do love your woman, the best way for you to show it is to give her "the gift of missing you".....
never first ... yet!

[muffinette]

i wait.....too scared to freak the guy out haha

best to wait :D

[_A-s-H-i_]

seems like there is no girl who wud propose first huh?

i'd propose :yes: :yes: :yes:

i'd wait till the love grows i am still young but theres this guy i've told him i love him n hes dun the same n we keep fallin in n out off love its complicated Meeeeeeeeeeen GRRRRRRRR :dance3:

[babiiface]

ummmm. i wouldn't exactly tell him that i love him first.

BUT i have been the first to tell guys that i like them.

[babiiface]

i'd propose :yes: :yes: :yes:

i'd wait till the love grows i am still young but theres this guy i've told him i love him n hes dun the same n we keep fallin in n out off love its complicated Meeeeeeeeeeen GRRRRRRRR :dance3:


ugh. been there done that. hated that relationship, then i fell for his friend, as mean as that is.

meanwhile, i realized the guy (that i kept falling in & out of love with ...) truly does love me... (much more than i ever cared to realize) ... i feel so bad for him. :(

but i still love his friend though.

[_A-s-H-i_]

ugh. been there done that. hated that relationship, then i fell for his friend, as mean as that is.

meanwhile, i realized the guy (that i kept falling in & out of love with ...) truly does love me... (much more than i ever cared to realize) ... i feel so bad for him. :(

but i still love his friend though.

i fell in love wi his cousin once lol its cos we were mates at first
its men they full of complications :(

[sweetvirgogirl]

I mean r u the first one to say those 3 words "I LOVE U" first if u really love someone....or do u just wait and wait till the love grows in other persons heart so that he/she tells u eventually?
i dont know.... i dont know... i dont know
i have a tendency to fall for someone who's already interested in me, so i cant eally answer this q
but then there are times when the crush thing is off and on from his side... like i'm into him, but he's not into me anymore... but he starts liking me again that kind of stuff

i dont know... i have never said these words to anyone in that sense... and no one has said these words to me... i really dont know
I dont know

[TechPhunk]

either or. If I know she feels something strong than I'll say it first.

[ohasanzoladiiio]

With my fiance... man... for a long time I thought he did but I wasn't sure... well one night I had a few too many martinis and I flat out asked him "baby do you love me?"
and he was like "yes mia"
and i was like "really?"

but the next day i appologized cuz if he hadn't been in love with me... that woulda just been a fawked up situation...