is virginity a thing u woud luv ure life partner to have when ure getting married?

[passion4luv]

is it cowardice not to explore sex before marriage?.experience is source of confidence but do u think this experience can wait till marriage. well 2 generations behind everybody thought it was okay kind of deal to w8.. not anymore... well teen gals thoughts changed and they said its okay to have fun and now u have whole society full of guys/gals who dont mind enjoying themselves... so wats right in ure opinion?. if given a second chance would u choose to be a virgin till marriage?. as guys have we ever got a chance to change a society like gals do... guys speak up.....:)

[desi_balla63]

No? Yes? It would be nice, though.


*edit-that was kinda much*

[::baby~phat::]

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[desi_balla63]

Virginity is overrated.

There's virgins who have a little freak in them, and those are great. It's the ones who act like they're doing us a favor by giving it up, and are stingy with it that I want to smack. Then, there's the ho's. Gotta' love dem hoes.

[PlanB]

is it cowardice not to explore sex before marriage?.experience is source of confidence but do u think this experience can wait till marriage. well 2 generations behind everybody thought it was okay kind of deal to w8.. not anymore... well teen gals thoughts changed and they said its okay to have fun and now u have whole society full of guys/gals who dont mind enjoying themselves... so wats right in ure opinion?. if given a second chance would u choose to be a virgin till marriage?. as guys have we ever got a chance to change a society like gals do... guys speak up.....:)


Its not a bad thing to have sex before marriage, if anything, its better than waiting, simply because u'l be more sure of what you want. With desi people...and the desperation to have sex can lead to them getting married just for that reason. After the sex....everything else in a realtionship begins to matter. Which is the real base of a realtionship. So...after we've had that first fuck.....we see things very differently.

[PlanB]

yea im still a V. i think its better to wait, but what the hell, each to their own.


Better why? Your not foolish enough to believe that your more clean are you?

[::baby~phat::]

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[PlanB]

doesnt necessarily make u more pure or w/e, but ur V is lyk a present u can give sum1 no one else can. plus im a V for religious reasons aswell........ and i heard its forbidden to have sex b4 marriage n christianity....correct me if im wrong [ i cant be arsed going to google n researching shit]


Fuck knows if your right or wrong. But I guess keeping your virginity is why desi girls get fucking obsessed with the guy they first fuck + even if the realtionship is descructive as anything....and NEVER going to work, the girl just cant let go.

[persian_angel]

ive always thought it is better to wait but you never know what the future holds

and as for when i get married i would like it if my hubby was a V but it wouldnt really matter if he wasnt

[::baby~phat::]

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[PlanB]

hmmmmmm well, if they love the guy then i dont blame them crazy ass girls. but seriously, if dat is common, fuck sakes gyalz, give da guy a break. he wants to try sum new pussy!

p.s. do u have sum issues?


Oh..I see, so its about the guy wanting 'new pussy'? Of course...it can never be about a relationship not working....but im guessing that doesnt matter right.


Do I have issues?....None that I cant handle. But thankyou for the concern.

[::baby~phat::]

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[PlanB]

ive always thought it is better to wait but you never know what the future holds

and as for when i get married i would like it if my hubby was a V but it wouldnt really matter if he wasnt


What would you consider more important.....A guy thats a virgin..or a guy that is more clear about what he wants in life?

[PlanB]

heyyyyyyyyyyyyy am only givin my opinion. dnt twist shit. u know what i meant :D
lol
dnt h8 ppl!


I dont hate you. + Im not twisting shit.

P.S. Do you have some serious issues?

[persian_angel]

What would you consider more important.....A guy thats a virgin..or a guy that is more clear about what he wants in life?

a guy that is more clear about what he wants in life!

[::baby~phat::]

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[PlanB]

a guy that is more clear about what he wants in life!


..+ that can only truely been done through experience ..no?

[PlanB]

ok thats good. i love everyone. [excepts pedos, pervs, etc]

me? issues? Maybe i doooooooo.........Maybe i dont.
hey............i might actually..... *thinking* :wtf:


Well...you do sound confused.

[::baby~phat::]

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[persian_angel]

..+ that can only truely been done through experience ..no?

lol yep .. i dont really think it maters whether they are a virgin or not.. peopel make mistakes that are irreversable as long as the guy has learnt from them its all kool

[Mr.Scorpion]

Guilt Speaks Louder than Self fucking perservation! What Virgin? What wait till marriage? Its all about what guys want and how girls want to keep them happy to Keep Them!

[PlanB]

lol yep .. i dont really think it maters whether they are a virgin or not.. peopel make mistakes that are irreversable as long as the guy has learnt from them its all kool

Be careful...He may not consider them 'mistakes'. But to learn from an experience goes without saying.

[persian_angel]

Be careful...He may not consider them 'mistakes'. But to learn from an experience goes without saying.

lol hmm tru say

[PlanB]

lol hmm tru say

But of course...I speak from experience.;)

[twinkleeeyez3]

4 a broad source abt your thread. look up in teh search theer are quite few of these kinda threads burried somewhere.

[DingDong111]

is it cowardice not to explore sex before marriage?.experience is source of confidence but do u think this experience can wait till marriage. well 2 generations behind everybody thought it was okay kind of deal to w8.. not anymore... well teen gals thoughts changed and they said its okay to have fun and now u have whole society full of guys/gals who dont mind enjoying themselves... so wats right in ure opinion?. if given a second chance would u choose to be a virgin till marriage?. as guys have we ever got a chance to change a society like gals do... guys speak up.....:)

ITS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE OFCOUSRE BUT I PERSONALLY FEEL THAT SEX IS THE MOST INTIMATE THING YOU CAN SHARE WITH A PERSON OF THE OPPOSITTE SEX THERES NOTHING ABOVE THAT...SO I WOULDNT WANA GO FUCK ANYONE ELSE OTHER THAN MY WIFE...FARTHEST IVE GONE IS MESSING AROUND BUT THATS KID STUFF I WANA LEAVE THE REAL SHIT FOR AFTER MARRIAGE WITH THE GRL I LOVE THAT'S WHATS GONA SEPERATE HER FROM ALL THE OTHER GRLS IVE BEEN WITH...I WOULDNT WANT MY WIFE TO BE ON THE SAME LEVEL AS ALL MY PREVIOUS GRL FRIENDS....I KNOW WE ALL GOT DIFF OPINIONS BUT YEAH THAS MY VIEW

[sweetaishu]

well i expect my man to be a virgin...
they expect us girl to be one
soo they should be ,2.

[PlanB]

well i expect my man to be a virgin...
they expect us girl to be one
soo they should be ,2.


Thats the biggest load of shit ive heard in a long time.

[sweetaishu]

Thats the biggest load of shit ive heard in a long time.


its the truth...i have to get married 2 a paki boy thats 4 sure..thats what my parents say....sooo...the paki boys say we want to have virgin wifes...so what do they think they can fuck around and their wife is just the next one whose virginity they break...

[desi_balla63]

i KNEW planB's style was familiar


what's the damn deal, LoungeAct :hug:

[PlanB]

its the truth...i have to get married 2 a paki boy thats 4 sure..thats what my parents say....sooo...the paki boys say we want to have virgin wifes...so what do they think they can fuck around and their wife is just the next one whose virginity they break...

The truth is....your doing what your parents want you to do anyway. So you may as well live how your husband decides to treat you. Its not like you value what you want enough is it.

[PlanB]

i KNEW planB's style was familiar


what's the damn deal, LoungeAct :hug:

I think this Lounge Act dude was banned bro. I dont know what your talking about.:neutral:

[desi_balla63]

I think this Lounge Act dude was banned bro. I dont know what your talking about.:neutral:
Damn. I didn't know that.


But you're right, he was. Sorry, bro...nothing personal.

[sweetaishu]

The truth is....your doing what your parents want you to do anyway. So you may as well live how your husband decides to treat you. Its not like you value what you want enough is it.

yes that might be the truth..well but what can i do ? run away from home...and get hooked up with a white boy or some indian boy( not that i dont like white boys or indians but I also think that between different ethnicity are many understanding problems and other probs..like i couldnt see if my kids wont be able to speak urdu)?

my parents are cool...and i want to marry a pakistani boy,2 so thats okay with me..well if my husband dont treat me good then its cool with me ,2 . i will get divorced..thats why i want to work..i dont want any1 to take the responsability for me.. where is the problem since i really dont wanna get married...but well who cares..maybe sometimes u get pissed of it but always think positive and your day is made ;)

[XoLadii StylezoX]

its not only about being a virgin, and in a sense they r more pure. lyk say that ur not married and ur not a virgin, neither is ur man/girl... if u get certain types of STDs they will affect ur kids when u get married.. which is why im not planning on having sex before marriage... im not sayin i havent done some stuff, i have.. but my man's a vrigin, and so am i, so there's really no risk for us. and hes the only person i've ever done more with than just kiss.. for girls, there's an STD that makes it impossible for u to give natural birth, if u do the maybe will get the disease and die a few days later.

[dj XeNo]

yes

[desi_shawrty]

is it cowardice not to explore sex before marriage?.experience is source of confidence but do u think this experience can wait till marriage. well 2 generations behind everybody thought it was okay kind of deal to w8.. not anymore... well teen gals thoughts changed and they said its okay to have fun and now u have whole society full of guys/gals who dont mind enjoying themselves... so wats right in ure opinion?. if given a second chance would u choose to be a virgin till marriage?. as guys have we ever got a chance to change a society like gals do... guys speak up.....:)
I would like for the guy who i get marreid to be a virgin that would be sweet but if he's not it wont bother me that much but i'm gonna give it to my husband no dout bout that. And yeh people have changed i see so many girls even in my school who are havving babys and shyt i know 2 who already have kids its really not right though its getting out of hand way to much

[desi_balla63]

its not only about being a virgin, and in a sense they r more pure. lyk say that ur not married and ur not a virgin, neither is ur man/girl... if u get certain types of STDs they will affect ur kids when u get married.. which is why im not planning on having sex before marriage... im not sayin i havent done some stuff, i have.. but my man's a vrigin, and so am i, so there's really no risk for us. and hes the only person i've ever done more with than just kiss.. for girls, there's an STD that makes it impossible for u to give natural birth, if u do the maybe will get the disease and die a few days later.
You don't have to have sex to get an STD.

[DingDong111]

I've Heard Sex Is Over Rated....?

[desi_balla63]

I've Heard Sex Is Over Rated....?
:p


u've heard?

[~desi*baby~]

Virginity is overrated.

There's virgins who have a little freak in them, and those are great. It's the ones who act like they're doing us a favor by giving it up, and are stingy with it that I want to smack. Then, there's the ho's. Gotta' love dem hoes.

That'd be me.. but put my freakyness aside i believe that the person i marry is the person that deserves it becuz i know they luv me for me and they're not jus tryin to get in my pants, and then never call me again

[mamamia!]

well for me, personally, i want to stay 'exclusive' for my husband, and it's something i want him to do with me, it's just so much more intimate, it's a way of expressing your love the most closest way one can. it's the only and the best i'll ever know.
however i dont expect my husband to be a virgin, i'd rather him be experienced and knowing how/what to do to please me ( :p ) thats right.

[*Alina*]

if he doesnt...hes either gonna die from my hands or hes gone

[passion4luv]

well i am a virgin..may be my views are biased but who doesnt? even for judges u have right or left leaning judges :). well i am sure 70 percent of the gals wouldnt mind a non virgin hubby.. but i dont think even 30 percent of guys are as broad binded as gals. isnt it fair to be something which u want ure partner to be?. well since we dont have much of married population cant ask really to answer this.. but say u meet the mr right guy or gal and get married would u for a second think u would have wanted had the first sex been with him/her and the experience would have been all so different..

well given the fact that ure not most likely to have pre maritalsex in desi arranged so pseudo-arrange marriages, its going to be a comparitive mode where u compare ure wife/hubbys sex style with ur X and if its good its better . if it sucks are u going to be pushed into affair.

well being virgin ure said this is the heights of happiness and u dont want to check outside bcoz ure happy with what u have ..

that was my token of dime...

[musicchic33]

virgin until marriage but I don't care if my husband is or not

[mirreyboy39]

is it cowardice not to explore sex before marriage?.experience is source of confidence but do u think this experience can wait till marriage. well 2 generations behind everybody thought it was okay kind of deal to w8.. not anymore... well teen gals thoughts changed and they said its okay to have fun and now u have whole society full of guys/gals who dont mind enjoying themselves... so wats right in ure opinion?. if given a second chance would u choose to be a virgin till marriage?. as guys have we ever got a chance to change a society like gals do... guys speak up.....:)

man, go fuck a girl

[appenzeller]

Doesn't really matter to be honest. I'd rather have an experienced chick.

[jigga man23]

Fucketh yeahh... :neutral:

[budz]

Hell no! I would expect to many a night of lovin before getting married.

[Roshii]

its not only about being a virgin, and in a sense they r more pure. lyk say that ur not married and ur not a virgin, neither is ur man/girl... if u get certain types of STDs they will affect ur kids when u get married.. which is why im not planning on having sex before marriage... im not sayin i havent done some stuff, i have.. but my man's a vrigin, and so am i, so there's really no risk for us. and hes the only person i've ever done more with than just kiss.. for girls, there's an STD that makes it impossible for u to give natural birth, if u do the maybe will get the disease and die a few days later.
bleh use condoms :p
but carry on being a good girl!

[Roshii]

i dont mind - he has to be experience tho, but not too experienced - i dont like that. imagine it if he doesnt no wot to do on our wedding nite eeeeek
but i wanna be a virgin until marriage :angel: - *mental note to self - must control raging hormones*

[budz]

i dont mind - he has to be experience tho, but not too experienced - i dont like that. imagine it if he doesnt no wot to do on our wedding nite eeeeek
but i wanna be a virgin until marriage :angel: - *mental note to self - must control raging hormones*
Haha! You are 15 and you have raging hormones?

[Roshii]

Haha! You are 15 and you have raging hormones?
yes im 15 - thats the point! :dance3: one minute i fancy older men, nxt minute i like boys my age
werd

[Miss_Impossible]

Yes I'd love to pop his cherry, and he knows it.

[danemane]

is it cowardice not to explore sex before marriage?.experience is source of confidence but do u think this experience can wait till marriage. well 2 generations behind everybody thought it was okay kind of deal to w8.. not anymore... well teen gals thoughts changed and they said its okay to have fun and now u have whole society full of guys/gals who dont mind enjoying themselves... so wats right in ure opinion?. if given a second chance would u choose to be a virgin till marriage?. as guys have we ever got a chance to change a society like gals do... guys speak up.....:)
Dude these things shouldnt matter these days. We live in da 21st century pal. Most women by da time 20 years ol have done it once atleast. So quit thinkin bout it.

As for me, I would prefer if one I get married to is V but if not den its not a big deal.

[HeppyG]

BIt l8 now I am afraid!

[alphaPAKI]

depends on the person,everyone is free to make their own choices right

but for me i wouldnt be able to have a life partner who wasnt one, im not holding any double standards tho, im one (completely by choice, not circumstance!!) and damn its hard especially when pussy gets thrown in your face like once a week, i think itll also help me stay faithful in the future

whoever she is she better love the shit out of me for doing this

[Space-Cowboy]

that's a tough one....

having a non-virgin wife v.s. a virgin wife

hmmm, some one with lots of experience, v.s. one TIGHT li'l ******


;) ;) ;) ;)

[Emerald99]

common sense + pretty > virgniity.

[zaph69]

id really prefer if my girl was a virgin, im holding onto my virginity (no matter how hard that's been getting!) and im only sharing it with that one special girl, whoever she may be.

if she wasn't, i don't think it would make much of a difference to me if i loved them. but if i had a choice of who i feel in love with, id choose the virgin. but we can't choose who we fall in love with...

[KrazyK4lyfe]

I dunno... I guess I'd prefer if my husband was a virgin but then if he was... neither of us would know what to do... eh.... i wouldnt hold it against him if he wasn't.... most guys these days arent....

[KrazyK4lyfe]

id really prefer if my girl was a virgin, im holding onto my virginity (no matter how hard that's been getting!) and im only sharing it with that one special girl, whoever she may be.

if she wasn't, i don't think it would make much of a difference to me if i loved them. but if i had a choice of who i feel in love with, id choose the virgin. but we can't choose who we fall in love with...
awwww thats sooo sweet!!! Good luck finding ur girl!!!!